my b/f cheated on me and i am going to break up with him but i dont know why i still love him so much!?does anyone know why i still feel like this??
2006-12-01 04:01:55 · 23 answers · asked by roxygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm in the exact same situation right now... i don't want to break up with him because i'm in love with him..he took my virginaty to there is that connection as well.. ever one say i deserve better. but i don't want to let him go. i'm sure you feel to same. it's hard to let go. he probubly means alot to you. but if your going to it's time to do it and find someone better. thats what i plan to do.....
2006-12-01 04:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by Devin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings seem to have a certain inertia that takes time to change.
Brains form habits, and it's pretty natural that if someone does a single thing that is fundamentally wrong to you, it takes time to get your head around how this influences all the accumulated knowledge and feelings you have about that person.
If you sit down and think about how this influences all the things you have learned about this person, in time your feelings will either change, or you will find out that you don't believe the cheating was such a fundamental part of your boyfriend that he can't be trusted in any other matters.
My bet is on the former.
2006-12-01 04:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by Setien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel i had the same situation and it has been a while now and I still love him, i mean it has been really too long, I date and all but inthe back of my mind he is always there. I wish there was an off button but there isn't i guess my best advice is to find another guy. I know it is so hard but it is the only way I know personally to get over someone os to get under someone else!
2006-12-01 04:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by pooh bear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you still see what you loved him for before he cheated. Plus its not easy to get over someone you loved. Its ok to feel this way but dont go back out with him even if he gives you all these really sweet lines, because if he cheted on you once he will do it again.
2006-12-01 04:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jessick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love can be very hard to let go of, you need to talk with him, and tell him how you feel, but at the same time, you need to know what's best for you, tell him you love him and how it hurt's when he done this to you, but then tell him you have to let him go, some people can change, but you dont know if he will, no one really know's the answer to this love thing, cause it does hurt so much, and we do crazy thing's for it, you just have to do what you think is best for you, take care mate
2006-12-01 04:07:02 · answer #5 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u ever heard anybody, when angry say
No! No! No! or Yes! Yes! Yes!
i.e repeated 3 times or any other word.
It is because if u go in depth,
I am We. Body, Mind & Conscious. We get attracted to any person of the opposite sex because we get acceptance from all the three - Body, Mind & Conscious. It seems u got attracted to any one. ur heart loves him ur mind does not accept him, first clear yourself from these jugglery that is on ur mind.
ur clearance should end in only one word
Accept or Reject
2006-12-01 04:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by Venkatesh V S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about what he happened to you. i passed from this experience and you should break up with him because he did not treat you right and he will do it again. i know how you must be feeling right now. it is normal to keep on loving this person, but once you move on and find somebody else who will treat you better and shows respect, you will stop loving him. be strong and take care
2006-12-01 04:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are still in love with him. Love does not have an on off switch. If you truely love someone then it takes time to get over the hurt.
2006-12-01 04:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you have real feelings for him. Just because he hurt you doesn't mean that all these feelings are just going to disappear. Over time you will get over him. He did cheat on you.
2006-12-01 04:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by Kaylin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't fade overnight - you need some time to heal your hurt. It will come don't worry yourself. Go out with your girlfriends have some fun, find a new hobby you will be ok!!!
2006-12-01 04:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋