I am in love with a man who has been divorced after 5 years (his mariage with his ex did not last more than 5 months!!!!)
I am scared if he does not love me since I think a divorced person woul dnot truely love again since he was hurt!!!
what do u think?
Thanks
2006-12-01 03:56:58 · 8 answers · asked by Work For A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pardon the blunt answer, but you are being ridiculous. He has been divorced for five years! I was married to an idiot for 2 years, then we divorced. I love my current husband more than I ever could have loved my cheating jerk ex-husband. Just because someone was hurt in the past, it does not mean they cannot love again. I think, in fact, that it makes a person learn how to love even more.
2006-12-01 04:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by danika1066 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone said to me once, "marriage is the new form of dating." A bad marriage, especially one so short, won't influence his feelings 5 years later. What you are saying is somewhat hypocritical in the sense that I am sure that you have had relationships before this one. I am sure that you loved before this man. How is that any different. Divorced people are exactly that, , , people. I do not think that divorce changes you permanently making you unable to feel. Usually it is quite the opposite. A failed marriage may heighten the senses to make one a better spouse. You are more in tune to your partner. Just an opinion.
2006-12-01 13:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats crazy of course people can love again and at any age. yes peoiple get h;urt but you dont' lay down and die and give up. I'm sure he wants to be loved just as much as the next person. why would he even want to try and date or be in a relationship if he didn't want love or affection and companionship.
Divorce is growing by the day and it could happen to you one day you wouldn't want people to think your not worht loving again would you? sometimes people change in a relationship. nothing is for certain. give him a chance and see how he treats you.
keep an open mind and don't paint every divorce person the same. good luck
2006-12-01 21:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorced people CAN & DO love again. I'm on my second marriage (10 1/2 yrs) and very much in love.
2006-12-01 12:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by dumbdago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok let me try a different way of answering this. No he can never love again. It is impossible for people that are divorced to ever love again. He will always love his ex and there is nothing anyone can do about it.
2006-12-01 11:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ofcourse he can love again after divorce, no one stays in the emotional pain they get while going through a divorce. unless thye have chosen to, unless they are still involved with their ex.
2006-12-01 20:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times people have a fight and divorce eachother too soon. Maybe he still likes you...?...
2006-12-01 12:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can love again! Whether he does or not is for you to decide!
2006-12-01 12:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋