I'm dating this guy..and he used to be so so sweet to me,calling
me all the time,every day like a hundred times a day, he wrote me letters,just everything,this guy was so so sweet to me.He wanted me
to love him.Now I do. I love him,I totally really really love him.And
the way he's being to me is cold, not sweet..He stings me..
Last night we were talking on the phone, and I told him that I carry
his headphones with me where I go, because I lost mine and he gave me those..and they smell like the cologne he wears,and it reminds me of him.. He thought that was weird and crazy..
Why? I dont see nothing wrong with that.
Can someone tell me, what should I do? Why is this guy that way w/ him if I finally love him? Why is he stinging me? Why was he being cold to me last nite, why did he say its crazy to carry his
headphones around?
Should I dump this guy or what...Just what should I do? I dont know what the hell is going on w/him. Some help please.
Thank you.
2006-12-01 03:54:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow- it's up to you if you want to be with a guy like this
2006-12-01 03:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah i dont think u should dump him
however, the mistake u made was that u revealed how much he means to u, ad therefor now he feels hez got an edge over u and can rule ur life. I think it would be fine if u keep those thoughts abt his smell, how much he means to u and thuings like that 2 urself, and dont tell him out loud, cause the more u say u love im, the faster he wllrun away
so keep it cool, and dont say that kinda stuff 2 him, love him in ur mind, no need to say the words right now
chill out - girl, he will come around soon enough
2006-12-01 03:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by Franky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like when he was calling you every day and being really sweet, it was to make a good impression to get you to fall for him. Now that you have, perhaps he doesn't feel he needs to make as much of an effort. Perhaps you should try cooling off towards him and see how that affects things.
It could also be that he has his own insecurities about the relationship and isn't good at expressing them, so pushes you away when really he's just scared himself. Perhaps you could ask him why he's changed. Good communication is important. If you don't like how he's treating you then you need to let him know.
Good luck anyway. I hope things work out for you :)
2006-12-01 04:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by EddieEXD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted what he couldn't have and now that he has it he doesn't want it as much. I would say you should go back to doing what you were doing before you fell in love with him. Start being cold and pull away. That should make him run to you again. If not then dump him.
2006-12-01 04:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you putting him off at first. He might be a guy that likes a chase. You know? Now that he has you loving him what is the point? I would say, even if its hard. Dump him. Dont deal with his emotional ups and downs. It just gets worse trust me.
2006-12-01 03:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sophiegreeneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls love doing this stuff all the time, so you did nothing wrong. this guy is probably immature and he was wrong to sting you like that. its OK, if you want to give him another chance, but if hurt you that bad dump him and find somebody more mature cause there might be a chance that he will hurt you again
2006-12-01 04:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have u been with him? Its going to be a really hard decision for yourself in what u want to do. U need to know what it is he is wanting and why he is being so cold to u. Ask him what his problem is and why is it he is treating u this way
2006-12-01 03:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time for the 3 day rule. if he continues to be cold for 3 days then dump him, but in the meantime ask him whats up. he might be having an issue that hes upset about and could be taking it out on you. just tell him your upset and why his heart suddenly changed.
2006-12-01 03:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just avoid him for a while and if he comes back around saying all of that mushy stuff again tell him he's weird and crazy. He probably just likes the chase.
2006-12-01 03:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is this guy that i am in love with but he sends mixed signals and i have no ides waht to do about it it hurts but my good friend told me to just ignore him and in a week or 2 he will come crawling back and i wrked we are happily in love knew i hope that helps you
2006-12-01 03:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by lizzie_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just a stinger by nature. Some people are just born to sting.
2006-12-01 03:58:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋