Family & Relationships - 1 December 2006

My husband has three kids who are 24, 15 and 13. The 24 year old is married with kids of her own the other two live 6 hours away with their mother. I have three kids 14, 9 and 7 that live with us. I took the child support my kids dad paid and went and bought their X-mas and yes they pretty much got what they asked for but I do not feel it is fair to my kids to use their money to get for his kids nor does he so we went and bought them what we could afford as well as a few other things for my kids. Instead of buying her a gift we cleared the loans we gave his oldest and bought for her kids. The problem is his kids came down for a long weekend as their grandfather is terminal and saw the gifts under the tree and are furious they have less, if they wouldn't have made this surprise visit they wouldn't even know because they have already said they will not be down at X-mas and to mail their gifts. What do we do now do I use my kids money and even it up or what.

2006-12-01 03:54:01 · 2 answers · asked by Martha S 4 in Family

Mine and my boyfriends 1 month annversary was on monday! he got me this really pretty ring taht i love and i feel bad that i couldnt get him any thing. I need some advise on what i should at least get him for x-mas. or our 2 month anniversry! PLEASE HELP!!!!!!

2006-12-01 03:53:56 · 14 answers · asked by sup peeps? 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I tell her that she might have a snail infestation? I was at her house the other day and we were chilling in her room. She went to go get something for us to drink and I sat on the floor. I looked over and saw a pile of dirty clothes and on her panties it looked like a snail had crawled across them. How do I tell her she might have a snail infestation in her house?

2006-12-01 03:53:38 · 4 answers · asked by Pimp of the Day 1 in Friends

so as to understand her personality so as to approacher in a way which suits her

2006-12-01 03:52:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In our family, we buy gifts for Godparents every year. I have 3 children and they together have 7 Godparents. I would like to find something nice to get them, but don't want to spend all my Christmas budget on them! If you have any thought, I would appreciate it. Also, I am kinda crafty and wouldnt mind making the gifts. Hope to hear from you soon! Thanks!

2006-12-01 03:51:46 · 7 answers · asked by holly w 2 in Family

A few Yahoo Im's showed up on my husbands cell phone bill. The number from the yahoo Im was a nine digit number. I called cingular and they said they can not tell me where the messages were from. He denies making the text messages. The first message came from someone on yahoo. He just replied to them.

Does anyone know how I can find out who or where these messages where sent from? I need some help here! Thanks

2006-12-01 03:51:35 · 8 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

been beautiful start from within not the outside

2006-12-01 03:51:16 · 37 answers · asked by faith 1 in Singles & Dating

He's my friend's friend so I don't want to be rude to him either.

2006-12-01 03:51:12 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ Lady in Pink ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I am involved with a man in a relationship, But he is divorced since 5 years
His marriage with his ex did not last more than 5 months and he is still hurt...he loves me....
I blindly Love him soooooooooooo sooo Much and i need to gain him on my side...

how can I achieve his 100% full love? and is it really possible after his break up and being divorced or the fact that he is hurt would be impossible to love again!!

well it definitely depend on the person but ....could you Advise plzzz !!!

2006-12-01 03:51:04 · 4 answers · asked by Work For A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-01 03:50:53 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband just got out of rehab for drug use he has been clean for over 3 months, that may not be long for you but Im sure it feels like a lifetime to him. I am having a christmas party for his family soon and would like to reconize him and his accomplishments but need an idea for a gift for him. Or any other special thing I might be able to do for him at this party keep that in mind please, there will be kids there. They all know about his drug use and are very proud of him also. Any real suggestions will help please. Thank you very much.

2006-12-01 03:50:41 · 7 answers · asked by bradosmom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I would have to say the first thing that I ever done for him that he still talks to until this day was how I would get up during the middle of night for fix him dinner and drive to his job to bring it to him (he worked 3rd shift and his dinner was at 3 am, good thing was he only worked about a mile from my house).
So I would get up and make something hot, drive it to him and sit while he ate and talked. I even sometimes spiced it up by throwing on something "cute" with heels just to make him want to come to my house after he got off work...lol.

He still brags about his dinners and the guys he worked with were jealous because their WIVES wouldnt even do it. Now after 4 years and about to be married he asked for things like that to never stop (except now its in moderation...lol)

2006-12-01 03:50:34 · 3 answers · asked by glorymomof3 6 in Weddings

at women who have there underware exposed? like the g string way above the skirt or throusers. or a button undone and you can see in at the bra? or should we tell them that we can see

2006-12-01 03:49:46 · 48 answers · asked by oh_sh1te 1 in Family

2006-12-01 03:48:34 · 16 answers · asked by meethu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im not saying that i did

2006-12-01 03:48:08 · 11 answers · asked by kareem r 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-01 03:47:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-01 03:47:20 · 16 answers · asked by lonely as a cloud 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i know this is kinda weird and please don't like report me or anything... but guys do you like licking girls nipples and biting them, and Ladies do you like this? because love it when guys do and i didn't know if i was the only one or if other people are like this?

2006-12-01 03:47:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls, just out of interest, how much wud u want your engagement ring to cost realistically? And yeagh i know its not about the price its about love, im just wondering thats all. cheers

2006-12-01 03:46:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A friend of mine met a guy online and soon they exchanged phone nos....the guy who was initially being a good friend helped her a lot and in d end he expressed tat he has feelings for her...but at first she didnt have any feelings for him but after talking to him for sometime she fell in love with him for his genuine approach...but once she was in love he demanded on having sex with her...but she refused...he is saying tat she is not loving him truly if she refuses to make love to him....this friend of mine wanted to end the relationship because they were two individual with different needs and concepts...do u think she should??? the guy is 34 yrs old and she is 21 yrs old

2006-12-01 03:45:38 · 18 answers · asked by Jaymey 2 in Singles & Dating

am involved with a man in a relationship, But he is divorced since 5 years

His marriage with his ex did not last more than 5 months and he is still hurt...he loves me..but I am not sure

what do u think?

...would the husband still love his ex? even if they keep in touch rarely?
how woul ddivorce impact his new relation with another whoman?

Advice!!!

2006-12-01 03:45:36 · 6 answers · asked by Work For A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how does it feel to have sex? i have done pretty much everything else, and i am afraid to make this last commitment. i am old enough to know how to, i just don't know what to expect.

2006-12-01 03:45:16 · 14 answers · asked by Ambr M 1 in Singles & Dating

I told a woman i dated 2 women in my life. What is that mean to you women out there?
Give me an explanation on that.
What does a women thinking in her mind?
Give me feedback.

2006-12-01 03:44:16 · 11 answers · asked by Simon G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK I really need your guy's help on this one. Theres this family, who is very poor. Its actually my daughters paternal grandmother. She's had 14 children. Two passed away in infancy, but she is now the mother of 12 and grandma of 17. But she is soo poor! Their house is falling apart, it rains in their home, and the 4 boys that are still young have no clothes that fit them! They are such a wonderful, loving, religeous family and all I want to do is find a way to repay this woman for what she has done for her children ! I am looking for volunteers, or a program that will help rebuild her home or something that will help her! She needs a break! They are a mormon family, she homeschooled all 12, grows her own food because they cant afford to buy it, and makes her own clothing, I just want to give her a break so if you know of anything that can help please let me know : 0 )

2006-12-01 03:43:51 · 10 answers · asked by Tristin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, this doesn't sound too original...

What I would like to know from all the girls that read this question is how would you like to be the first dates with a guy; how you would like him to behave, what you are looking for, what reaction you would like to have when he speaks, and so on.
Please state also from where you come.

2006-12-01 03:42:56 · 9 answers · asked by Lorenzo Agostini 2 in Singles & Dating

but I'm 2 inches taller than him. I know it shouldn't matter but it bothers me as I'm used to tall fellas.

2006-12-01 03:42:20 · 7 answers · asked by Moglai 3 in Singles & Dating

I recently found out that my bf of 7 months is doing coke. When we started dating he was always ok but then there where times when he would just act different around me and as the time was going by he kept getting weirder and weirder, he gets so paranoid and goes from one place to the other without stopping, he drinks water like crazy and the worst part is that he doesnt notice if im there but if im about to leave he stops me. Now that he knows that i know he swears he is not going to do it again, i found out 2 weeks ago and he has done it once, should i stay and see if he changes or should i do something to help him. I love him so much i don't want to abandon him just like that. and he refuses to go to a rehab center, he keeps saying he doesnt need it. we are both 23. Please advise.

2006-12-01 03:41:52 · 30 answers · asked by lluvia2wcc 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 03:40:31 · 5 answers · asked by jacquelineleeca 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-01 03:40:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey, i really need to know what guys like in girls, and what makes them want us. like what do i do to get wanted? i NEED ANSWERS:) thanks

2006-12-01 03:40:11 · 9 answers · asked by jennifer s 1 in Singles & Dating