Ok, this doesn't sound too original...
What I would like to know from all the girls that read this question is how would you like to be the first dates with a guy; how you would like him to behave, what you are looking for, what reaction you would like to have when he speaks, and so on.
Please state also from where you come.
2006-12-01 03:42:56 · 9 answers · asked by Lorenzo Agostini 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cant speak for all girls because everyone has different taste in guys but I definatly like a guy that can carry a conversation. Its alwyas really ackward to go on a date with someone and have nothing to talk about the whole time so its nice to find someone that has something to say. Its also really great when that guy can make you laugh its definatly important to me that I find someone who keeps me smiling and laughing on our date it definatly earns the guy points. Anyways like I said I cant speak for all girls but thats just me... Just make sure to always be yourself on a date dont ever try to change for someone. Ohhh yeah and im from Pennsylvania.
2006-12-01 03:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every woman looks for something different so that's a hard question. However I think most women look for someone who will make them laugh and good conversation. The best date is like bowling or miniture golf cause you are doing something and you can talk also plus there will not be many awkward moments if you are physically doing something. I'm married now, but I know with my husband I was so attracted to how much he tickled my funny bone and how great we communicated with each other. He didn't try and impress me and that made me happy too, he was just down to earth and natural. Good Luck!
2006-12-01 03:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jontue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well show up on time, that's important, look like you actually made an effort. Before hand find out what type of things interest her. Dinner and a movie is really overrated. It is very important that you listen to her and are interested in what she has to say. It's nice to do something fun on a first date, like ice skating or going to a theme park, then you are both laughing and having a good time, there aren't as many moments of silence.
2006-12-01 03:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by voidtillnow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live in Texas and for me a first date with a guy I like to be real casual maybe a nice resteraunt but not to fancy so your not too nervous. I like a guy to comliment me when he picks meup, tell I look nice or smell nice. Then I like him to always open the door for me. He must pull my chair for me when we are sitting down. I like casual conversation. Maybe afterwords go somewher and have a drink or coffee. Sit and Talk. Then if the night goes well I like a sweet kiss. Not overpowering but a sweet kiss to leave me thinking about him up until the next time I see him. Just really the most important thing is be yourself. But you should always remember the door thing. That should be around forever
2006-12-01 03:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by pooh bear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I go on a date with a guy, to me, his first impression tells me what type of person he is. I would like for him to be himself as well as respectful and well mannered. I would like to be intrigued by his ability to keep me interested in hearing what he has to say. He's spontaneous with things he says and does, but at the same time, he says and does things respectfully. He's an overall respectful man with great manners and even better conversation. And I come from oompa loompa land.:)
2006-12-01 04:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take a girl to a movie on your first date. You want to be able to talk to her and get to know her. Listen to her, or at least pretend. Don't make any moves unless it seems like she wants you to. And if it does seem like it, go slow. Don't scare her off by coming on too strong.
In a man, I'd like him to be somewhat good looking (at least so I'm physically attracted to him.) He should have a sense of humor and not dress like a scumbag. He should be respectful enough so that I feel like I can take him home to meet my family without being embarassed.
2006-12-01 03:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I want him to have a sense of humor. He has to be able to make me laugh, this will take the tension out of the air. He has to be polite; opening doors, yada yada...! He has to be sweet and kind. Tells me I look nice. Doesn't try to get in my pants on the first date. That is all I look for and want.....haha!!
2006-12-01 03:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl wants to be taken out........you have to have the evening sort of planned out....She is looking for good conversation....complement her
A sense of humor......remember you are asking her out.....show her a good time.....
2006-12-01 03:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
crap.
come one mate, you must have noticed that all the fit girls go out with the yobs and players!
2006-12-01 03:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by Abdul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋