2006-12-01 03:55:38 · 16 answers · asked by dwilson73 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A nice helo with a friendly smile. Don't look at her body when you do it, look right in her eyes. Ask her something about her day, or something that isn't too personal. Ifshe's interested, she'll carry the conversation and ask you a question in return.
2006-12-01 04:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by sweetsum691 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself happy and stop trying to "approach women". You are trying to control a situation that will just naturally happen if you are enjoying your life and doing what makes you feel good and content. There is no need to play games or alter your behaviour. Go out and find yourself a hobby and do the things that put a smile on your face and before you know it, you will have women approaching you.
People - or, shall I say quality people are attracted to those who have a life and get on with it. Women and men can sniff out desperation from a mile away.
Stop trying so hard and follow your chosen path and someone will find you.
2006-12-01 04:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by KD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women don't understand how hard it is for some guys to come up and meet new women. I've tried a couple different things, but the best one yet is to not worry about what they might think. Just do it, let all worry go and just go up and talk to them. Try explaning the problem, some of them actually understand.
2006-12-01 04:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by smokeyprine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-14 15:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be *honest.* Walk up, say, "Hi, I'm Joe. I saw you sitting here and thought I'd like to introduce myself. What's your name?"
Women do *not* like pickup lines, and when I was single, I'd have much rather have a guy come up and just sincerely tell me that he would like to talk to me than tell me that I had a hot dress or great hair. To me, that was always cheesy.
Real women like real men. Just be one. The compliments can come during the conversation, but don't start off mentioning anything about how good she looks. That should be obvious, given that you're over there trying to meet her anyway :)
2006-12-01 04:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by tagi_65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple, just smile - a casual smile - and say "Hi, how are you?". ...genuinely, as though you really care and as if you'd like to know a bit more about her. Then, if time allows and she isn't acting very disinterested, continue casual conversation and make it natural as though you were talking to anyone else. Women, in my opinion, like friendly people.
I would advise you NOT to compliment any physical attribute about her.... (again, in my opinion) it would make a woman think that your ultimate goal is something physical. If you sum up a converstation with having said nothing about her beauty, it leaves you kind of mysterious, and also with you leaving with genuine intentions.
If you know you will see her again, just say 'goodbye', and resume next time. If not, say something like 'You seem like a very ___________ person, is it possible for me to contact you sometime/somehow?' And see what happens. and if she says 'no', just be cool about it: 'Alright, well it was nice talking to you'.
When women come off very disinterested, don't take it personal at all. We just don't trust men. lol.
This is just my opinion anyway.
2006-12-01 04:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by ebonii_cuteee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hello. If they respond, approach and initiate small talk such as movies, weekend activites and what not. If its at work, talk about some coworkers or projects.If at a club, mention the music or the crowd. The backdrop really affects the conversation.
2006-12-01 03:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't a creep, you won't come off like one. Just strike up a natural, honest conversation. Giving false or inflated compliments is just weird.
2006-12-01 03:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by Rvn 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be your self. Don't let any girl change who you are. I'm sure if your a nice guy, girls won't think your creepy. Just be casual and don't go into too many details when your first talking to her, that will come later.
Good Luck!!
2006-12-01 03:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by Bex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need practice. Go to a bar, and start practicing asking girls if you can buy them a drink. For extra confidence, go to a bar that has women in their 30s and 40s. They are much nicer when they do reject you and they tell you to get lost much less often.
2006-12-01 03:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋