Yes, I speak with my eyes, but it's always misinterpreted
2006-12-01 04:02:31
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answered by Anonymous
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Eye tricks? It sounds a little ridiculous, I know, but if you pay attention for a moment, you might learn something. There are social scientists all over the world who spend all of their time dissecting the secrets of human communication. What do we tell each other when we don't say a word? How does our body language affect our relationships with others? The results of these studies are rather fascinating, and can lend credence to the supposition that we communicate more with our bodies than with our words.
The eyes are one of our most effective tools in communicating our needs and desires to others. What can you do with your eyes? More on that in a moment. First, let's look at what you can tell by watching a persons eyes.
By watching what they are watching, you can learn a lot about people. What kind of women does a man look at? Does he pay any attention to the game on the TV? Note whether he seems bored or interested as he looks at different things. Making eye contact with someone else sends the message that you are listening intently, and that you truly care about what they are saying. Looking around and at other things tells them that you couldn't care less.
You can tell what people's minds are doing when they are thinking or asked to remember something, according to neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) practitioners. This following is true for most right handed people (reverse all this for left-handed people): As you face them, and their eyes go...
Up and to the right - They are remembering a pictoral image.
Up and to the left - They are constructing a visual image.
To the right - They are remembering sounds or conversations.
To the left - The are constructing sounds or conversations.
Down and to the right - They are experiencing an internal dialogue.
Down and to the left - They are accessing kinesthetic feelings, tastes and smells.
A person's pupils get bigger when they are aroused, interested, or receptive. If you look deeply into his or her eyes and see those pupils growing large - that is positive feedback for you.. Consistently large pupils (unless it's just dark) mean a person is favorably receptive to what they see.
2006-12-01 12:33:30
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answered by its me 1
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I speak full conversations with my kids entirely thru our eyes. Actually to my wives and g/f's too. anyone who is around me long learns my language. I can say,"I love you", "Sit down and shut up", "gimme my checkbook." really I guess a lot of things now that I think about it.
actually I had to learn the language of the eyes to perfection as a child or risk getting the bullwhip(or on a good day maybe a belt).
Guaran-damn-tee ya you'll learn it quick fast and in a hurry that way.
2006-12-01 12:02:44
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answered by Red Winged Bandit 4
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Lol!
Most of the times I do speak with my eyes, to my mother because we might be in church...so what i do is look at her straight into the eyes and then look at her purse, then when she opens it, she looks at me again and i look at her again. So when she sees me looking at some altoids or candy, she hands them to me!
(That's just to not disrespect the bishop when he's preaching) Ooh and I do this just when it's either quiet or a very serious situation!
Many people do understand when I speak with my eyes because I'm pretty good at acting and stuff, ooh and I add by giving a facial expression!
Idk but I for some reason can do this!
2006-12-01 12:11:42
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answered by lilbad_thang 2
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It's certain looks, like when your with a girlfriend, see a cute guy but can't say anything, you give her a certain "Hes hot" look and they understand. It can be an i hate you look, but everyone speaks/talks with eyes. you ever rolled yor eyes?
2006-12-01 12:21:23
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answered by Skyleigh's Mom :)™ 6
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yes you do speak with your eyes, your eyes reveal all that is within. not everybody understands "eye talking", but some people do
2006-12-01 12:03:30
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answered by Anonymous
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yes it is a relationship thing. if i guy says you speek with your eyes he means that you dnt have to say ne thing for him to know how much he means to you cuz he can see it in your eyes. b/c the eyes are the windows to the soul
2006-12-01 12:03:43
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answered by Anonymous
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I do use my eyes for communication. And, my students definitely understand when I give them "that stare!"
2006-12-01 12:02:36
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answered by frenchy 3
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Yes and sometimes they do.
the eyes will and can tell all about you.
2006-12-01 12:02:58
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answered by Anonymous
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oh yea, especially with my boyfriend - he can tell if im annoyed, pissed off, or pleased by the way i look at him, its actually kinda funny. And when its with friends its usually like wow wtf! and they totally understand.
2006-12-01 12:04:10
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answered by Anonymous
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