Men of the world. . .What do you look for in a woman? SERIOUSLY?

Question

really. . . I want to know whats going through your minds.


C'mon men. . .stand up and have something to say!

Answer 1

A porn star in the bedroom and an angel outside of it.

Answer 2

I love this question... there is no way to answer it because men all want different things but I LOVE to generalize so I'll try ;)

1) Looks; Don't let guys lie to you we are on some level shallow creatures you must be attractive for us. NOW after we love you that changes because our attraction to you develops beyond physical

2) Personality; Yes it sounds corny but a girl that you click with is the next thing after,. "She's cute." then comes, "Holy crap she's cool too!"

3) Intelligence; Do not mistake this for must have high just that this attribute applies to #2 in the form of interaction.

4) Goals; DEAR GOD GOALS WOMEN (of course this goes for men too). A girl that knows what she wants is oh so sexy period.

5) Light and or Dark; Men tend to be fairly binary we either want a bad girl or a good girl. You don't have to be dressed in leather and beating people with a whip or anything but all people lean one way or the other. Best to stick with people that lean your way

6) Sense of humor; Those that laugh together stay together

From here on out it starts getting really specific to the guy.

Answer 3

i prefer to sit and type something, so you will know what i have to say. i believe the inside of a woman is more important than the outside. but saying that both good gentle warm character, with good looks is a bonus. not full of herself, and thinks they deserve more special treatment than what they are willing to give to a relationship. not a flurt either, only causes the man to consider doing the same thing which will destroy the relationship.so basically a kind gentle soul seems to highlight the feminity of a woman.

Answer 4

alright, in order to meet, and in order to be interested enough to talk to a random stranger usually there has to be a physical attraction to start. no one goes up to someone covered in sores and puss and starts flirting. SOme guys have types, or notice different physical aspects first. My personal physical characteristics are:

sloping neck, sensuous, full lips, the body just needs to be proportionate, no particular type. ohh and mischeivious eyes are a good one too.

then I notice body language. you can tell (sometimes) if people are reserved, or relaxed. Bold or shy. I look for outgoing confident girls. flirty, casual, open.

then there is the dance of courting. someone who can be flirtatious, yet elusive. someone who has educated opinions, personal hobbies, someone creative. basically, if its gonna last we need to be able to talk in the afterglow . . . and we won't get there if we can't talk before.

I look for the same things in women as I look for in friends . . . the only noteable exception is I can have unattractive friends. Reason being there isn't implied sexual conduct in the title friend. if its dating, going steady, or whatever your title du jour is, there is implied sexual activity, and that requires physical attraction. a lot of sex is in the brain, but if the brain dont like the body, its kind of a hard sell.

Answer 5

First good looks, once you get past that, a great laugh and sense of humor. Someone to have fun with and share mutual interest. To be able to feel comfortable talking to. The Physical attraction will be there if the man feels good being with the woman. Good Luck

Answer 6

what do i look for in a woman. I'm not superficial...but looks is the first thing i notice....from the ones who have the looks i start looking for the ones with a good sweet personality and the ones who are driven. I'm considered an increadibly driven person and want someone in my life who will go places in life...whether we're together or not....this usually leaves me with slim pickins.....because the true gems are always few and far between

Answer 7

Attractiveness, low standards and low self-esteem.

I'm not saying women should look like actresses or models, but if you look like Terrio Schaivo, you're not getting anything.

Low standards are so us guys don't have to worry about whether or not we're good enough for you, although this may only apply to shy guys like myself.

Low self esteem is so you don't think you're good enough to get the guy that looks like a cross between Brad Pitt and Orlando Bloom and you stay and talk to us instead.

That's the truth, it may not be pretty, but its honest.

Answer 8

hey lady,
1. attitude
2. humor
3. sincerity
4. family oriented
5. a woman about 5'2" - 5' 10" approx 120 - 135lbs maybe more
6. bronze skinned or easily tanning
6. likes all forms of music
7. light drinker, non-smoker
8. someone who loves walking in the rain and seeing a new day come into being

or something like that...

Answer 9

1st is physical attraction. Body, face, ect. This will always make the first impression

2nd is personality, this will be more important as the relationship progresses. Cultural similarities will come into play

3rd is life goals, job, religion, health, common interests.

4th anything else

Answer 10

I am 31 years old. I will tell you what men look for in a woman.

personality
smart
good heart
caring
fun
respect
faithful
honest
loyal
trust
health
and more