Family & Relationships - 1 December 2006

my girl mov'd away 2 go 2 college we're stil considered goin 2getha. im proud dat she willin 2 pursue her education and i love here dearly. we talk like everyday and email each other everyday, but im scared she might find sumone betta than me and 4 get about me. i trust her but u kno dat guy instinct duzz kick in and i wonder. i dont wanna lose her!

2006-12-01 09:49:38 · 11 answers · asked by DNice 1 in Singles & Dating

I need some real good advice for such a long and complicated story, i don't care what you think about what I've done but please help me help someone.

I answered to some guy on here who wondered if it was immoral to think about his 18 year old stepdaughter in a sexual way. i told him it's perfectly normal if she's attractive. he emailed me thanking me for my answer and sent me pics of her, Yeah she is really hot. He asked me what I would do with her sexually, i told him graphically, And he claims it made him wet. He wants some guy to have sex with her infront of him. He wants to watch his "daughter" as he kept calling her have sex with some guy so he can get off on it. I'm scared for her, he may be more dangerous than I originally thought and I need to warn her. Bare in mind this is London England so I need to know what I can do to save her. Please.

2006-12-01 09:49:26 · 34 answers · asked by ANTJOHN 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm new to the dating scene and I don't know what the heck I'm doing. I'm in college and I feel that I should have some what of an idea, but I feel like I don't. At first I thought it was: get to know the person, one person asks the other person out, then there is the first date. But, thanks to ppl around me, it seems like it goes like this: Find someone U like, get to know the basics (name, age, etc.), then go on dates to find out if U like them. HOWEVER, going on those dates doesn't mean you're dating.

That's confusing.

Plz help.

2006-12-01 09:49:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any reaction for the girl, that wouldnt make her look like a total screw-up?

2006-12-01 09:49:04 · 19 answers · asked by mystifyingsilence 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I tryed the swinger lifestyle. She was enjoying it at first. I had my hot wife that was allso my slut. Lately she has not been into it. It does not matter to much to me but I do miss the slut in my wife. It was a major turn on. We are still in the lifestyle. But she makes it like its a thing she has to do for me and not what is fun for her. How do I get my sluty wife back??? When we started swinging it was for a chance to make new friends and a new sex life. I found out that I enjoyed it more to see my wife with other men and women. It became more about how hot may wife was as a slut. Other women just did not mean as much to me. Any one that knows us knows I loves my wife. This does not want me to go out and get a devorce. Well you have any ideas let me know.

2006-12-01 09:48:36 · 16 answers · asked by William D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend, well really my only friend, liked this guy that was dating one of her ex-friends, but she knew that they were about to break up so she told me she wanted me to meet him and talk to him to find out if he liked her and get him to ask her out. So we all hung out one day and i never got around to talkin to him, so we spent the night at his house so she would have some more time with him, and somehow, im not even sure how it happened, I ended up cuddled with him on his bed insted of her!!!!!!!!!!!! Now him and i are dating, she says she still likes him but is okay with me dating him, but really i know that it hurts her to see us together, in the beginning i was gonna break up with him because of her, but I love him to much and wouldnt think of breaking his heart by doing that. But im afraid im gonna love my best (only) friend!!!!!!! I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!! I love them both soooooo much but i have a feeling im gonna lose one of them. WHAT SHOULD I DO??

2006-12-01 09:48:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 09:47:59 · 34 answers · asked by crosstime 2 in Singles & Dating

The little boy is eight yrs old and fears mom is going to leave him and not come back.... his dad walked out on them four months ago and he is having a hard time dealing with it.... the mom can't seem to make him understand she won't leave him.. what should she do about this ??? she tell him she will be gone one hour and he will clock her until she come in the door... and if she's just one minute late he start crying and throwing a fit....

2006-12-01 09:47:55 · 6 answers · asked by jenny_bramm2004@yahoo.com 2 in Family

2006-12-01 09:47:45 · 3 answers · asked by you mom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

On average, how long does it take for a women to get over the horrible relationship and move on?

2006-12-01 09:46:40 · 29 answers · asked by crazy 1 in Singles & Dating

Shes been my friend forever but now i really really like her

2006-12-01 09:46:23 · 7 answers · asked by Da sweetness 1 in Singles & Dating

just telling he should lose some pounds

2006-12-01 09:46:09 · 19 answers · asked by Kari R 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 09:45:12 · 16 answers · asked by Allan L 1 in Friends

One of my friends has a mom who just killed herself...i feel awful...but i dont really know what to day. I mean, he comes home, and finds his mom dead in the bathroom. Its something that happens on tv, not real life! I feel so awful...what do i say to him?

2006-12-01 09:45:08 · 19 answers · asked by xsayxgoodbyextonightx 2 in Friends

I'm going out with this girl later, and we like each other, I think. We talk on AIM mostly. She goes to another school then me, and we rarely see each other.

Now we're going on our second date [first was really awkward.] we're going to eat at a buffet with my friend and his girlfriend. Now, I dont want this date to be like the last one...

any advice?

2006-12-01 09:45:03 · 7 answers · asked by crimsonjoker1118 1 in Singles & Dating

I have suspiscions about my girl. She lives very far away, is younger than me, and is a major hottie. But I know that she is a very good a loyal person. However I have trust issues when it comes to women. Should I just ignore the fact that me and her have sporadic contact, just because she is going to school and is busy with work and family or should I just stop being naive and stupid and move on? Any advice would come in handy.

2006-12-01 09:44:36 · 7 answers · asked by Man_With_No_Name 5 in Singles & Dating

I am 13 years old. My mom died on September 11, 2001 when I was 8 and its just my dad and me now. He has been really upset since mom died. Lately he has started drinking and then he will get mad at me even tho I haven't done anything. He hits and kicks me and will make me stay in my room and not let me go to school sometimes. I have bruises on my arms of his hands where you can see he grabbed me and shook me. I don't know what to do...I need help but he said if I tell anyone he'll get me good. I'm so afraid of him and I don't know what to do without making him angrier.

2006-12-01 09:44:36 · 21 answers · asked by y0u.r0ck 1 in Family

Recently I slept with a friend from my hometown. I don't live there anymore, but had a crush on this guy from visits. It all sorta just happened and now I think he is freaking out. He is not very good with girls and I think this might have pushed him away from me completely. I don't want it to be like that, especially since we share the same friends- who are fine with everything except his nervous attitude. I am wondering if I should send him an email to help him understand it is alright, or should I leave him to mend his own neurosis? I have already talked to my friends to ensure that they won't make him feel awkward, but they stress that I shouldn't worry about him and think of my own feelings (but those include him). Am I worrying too much about a worrier?

2006-12-01 09:43:43 · 11 answers · asked by jan s 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not his girlfriend yet

For the past 2 weeks:
We've kissed and hugged alot
He called me his "girl" the other day when talking to his friend
He acts as if he is my boyfriend ~ it's just really cute and sweet.
Frequent texting/calling and asking me to meet him.
Long phone calls before we go to bed etc.
Told me he misses me, thinks about me and even fantasizes about me LOL


He finds me really attractive and likes my personality
We can talk for hours about anything and everything.

When we kiss each other, most of the time it feels so special like i don't want it to end ~ because it's so sweet;
Other times it's very sexy...

I don't know ~ could it be more of a lust thing or is he wanting a relationship?

I've asked him before if he'd want me to be his GF and he said he wouldn't mind
________
But:
A few weeks ago he wasn't sure about us because there WAS a girl who he often called for long hours at night.
And said he didn't want to be involved with anyone?

2006-12-01 09:43:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 09:43:07 · 6 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and he is in my sisters chem. class today she told me that he came up to her and said " u have a sis right" and she told me that he was smiling and turning red when he said that.

2006-12-01 09:42:58 · 6 answers · asked by maryam;) 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 09:42:54 · 8 answers · asked by volkgal 4 in Friends

2006-12-01 09:42:27 · 18 answers · asked by ash_var11 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex wanted me to do something with her sister sexually and she watched. i didnt want to do it but she constantly insisted that i do. I did it and now she wont speak to me. (me and my ex had sex right before i did what she wanted me to do to her sister)

2006-12-01 09:42:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and he is in my sisters chem. class today she told me that he came up to her and said " u have a sis right" and she told me that he was smiling and turning red when he said that.

2006-12-01 09:41:56 · 4 answers · asked by maryam;) 2 in Singles & Dating

If you were able to go any where at this time of year, where would that be and why would that be preferred to where you are now?

2006-12-01 09:41:05 · 6 answers · asked by Diane G 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Women and men....

Okay a female on female experience (or whatever) is it okay with out your mate being involved or told I am curious but I would kill another woman if she touched him! Just wouldnt work.

2006-12-01 09:40:38 · 10 answers · asked by megs 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother is getting married next year and his fiance asked me to be one of the birdesmaids. She is asking me what kind of dresses I would like to wear. The other two bridesmaids are not even past the age of 14 and I am 21. Her colors are spring colors not sure exactly I think a springy green is one of them. What would be a good style of bridesmaid dress since she does not know what she wants and is asking me. We have looked around but have not found anything she likes yet.

2006-12-01 09:40:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Should i dump him

2006-12-01 09:40:09 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really need to know about the first one and im not going to do the 2nd one im just wondering about it!

2006-12-01 09:38:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends