2006-12-01 09:45:12 · 16 answers · asked by Allan L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Keep in mind that your parents are divorcing each, and not you. They will always be your mom and dad. It is a tough thing to go through for all family involved. Just remember that they will always love you as you do them, they just cannot stay together anymore and maintain a happy healthy home environment for you, let alone each other. It is best that they move on in their own directions before it gets too painful. Good luck and God Bless.
2006-12-01 10:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by LMnandez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You still have a family, they just won't live together in the same house. You may find you spend more quality time with each parent, because effort must be made to do so. Don't blame yourself, because the problems are between your parents, not between your parents and you. And, although the experience can be painful, it will help you grow emotionally. You will gain a better understanding and empathy for others whose parents have split up. If a person never experiences sadness, they cannot truly appreciate joy.
2006-12-01 09:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is tough on everyone, and I can appreciate your question. The best thing I can say to you is: don't blame yourself, go on with your life, living with your single parent. Understand you are not to blame, and both your parents deserve your love, and respect. They have chosen to divorce so as there will be no more fighting and arguements - which tend to make children feel responsible, and a lot of stress on everyone in a household. They are doing what is best for you, and for themselves. Give them both your love and support - and continue on with your life, going to school, and hanging with your friends. I am sure your parents do not expect you to quit doing your thing, because they have chosen to move in a different direction in their lives, remember they love you too.
Best wishes to you, and take care.
2006-12-01 09:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by soulful thinker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your age, if you a grow person, I would not give a opinion onjit. I would just continue to enjoy my parents. I'm the oldest child of divorced parents who have been divorced for years,
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2016-10-08 01:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents got divorced a couple years ago and my dads remadrried. but they live something like a mile away from each other so the transitions isnt hard. After a while you learn to accept the fact that they dont love each other and it isnt your fault. Good luck
2006-12-01 09:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you already have a good relationship with the both of them. CONTINUE to do so and enjoy your parents...even if they live in separate homes.
2006-12-01 09:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look at it from their side. it doens't mean you're a failure and neigher are they...they were just two mature, understanding adults that decided their partnership couldn't work any longer.
to their credit they probably even waited until you were old enough to understand. so go ahead and understand. it might make your life a little more complicated, but overall it aint so bad...they're still your friends and mum and pop.
2006-12-01 09:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know think about it this way you will still have parents but, they are living in different houses.
2006-12-01 09:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by Maddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and ask God to help you and hopefully your parents won't divorce. If they do, then respect their decision and continue to love them.
2006-12-01 09:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋