I am not his girlfriend yet
For the past 2 weeks:
We've kissed and hugged alot
He called me his "girl" the other day when talking to his friend
He acts as if he is my boyfriend ~ it's just really cute and sweet.
Frequent texting/calling and asking me to meet him.
Long phone calls before we go to bed etc.
Told me he misses me, thinks about me and even fantasizes about me LOL
He finds me really attractive and likes my personality
We can talk for hours about anything and everything.
When we kiss each other, most of the time it feels so special like i don't want it to end ~ because it's so sweet;
Other times it's very sexy...
I don't know ~ could it be more of a lust thing or is he wanting a relationship?
I've asked him before if he'd want me to be his GF and he said he wouldn't mind
________
But:
A few weeks ago he wasn't sure about us because there WAS a girl who he often called for long hours at night.
And said he didn't want to be involved with anyone?
2006-12-01 09:43:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about if he has stopped phoning that other girl?
2006-12-01 09:58:15 · update #1
it sounds as though your head is saying one thing but your heart is saying another. if i was you i should just go with the flow hugging and kissing you aint doing no harm to anyone but if he asks for more dont give it him and then it will show whether he wants you for you and not what he can get from you. He sounds like he feels something for you but there is no need to rush in to it take it slow and you will also get to know him well enough and how your feeling.....
good luck hun i do hope it works out for you
2006-12-01 10:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by kjw 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calling you 'his,' constantly being in contact, the things he's saying, etc. All these things points to someone who is not in control of his feeling and emotions. Your relationship is intense right now, so it feels right. However, these are signs of a possesive guy; someone who will get jealous easily, not just of other guys but also time you spend with friends; someone who will change when things cool down; basically a drama king.
If you don't believe me, test him and find out for yourself. I should say this, I advocate going after whatever it is that you want. So, if you really like this guy, go for it (if it turns out bad, chalk it up as a learning experience). At the very least, I can guarantee you'll have an intense, emotional relationship with this guy.
2006-12-01 10:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by unprdctble_m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the two you have not made a committment to one another, I would say that yall are not boyfriend and girlfriend. If, the two of you are engaging in the physical part of committed relationship, yall are friends with benefits, if the both of you are legal as the far the the age is concerned it the two your business.
2006-12-01 09:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like 2 me he doesn't know what he wants. i think he likes u but this otha girl caught his eye. boys r so hard 2 figure out these days. u neva no what they think or if they r serious about u or a relationship. just sit him down and talk and if he says he doesn't want 2 b in a relationship then just 4 get it. There r otha boys out thurr.
2006-12-01 09:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only been 2 weeks dont be in such a hurry. If your unsure of his intentions then dont put out. Just enjoy the attention.
2006-12-01 09:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LUST is a wonderful thing but dont expect it to last once he gets what he is driven towards
2006-12-01 09:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only way to know is to ask him outright instead of trying to second guess him. if he says no then leave him alone for a while because he obviously doesn't feel the same way you feel for him.
2006-12-01 09:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by Kirsty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no sounds like he just likes you for your body and his pleasure. If there is another gurl involved, kick him to the curb girl!
2006-12-01 09:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's seeing somebody else, logically no you shouldn't get serious with him. try finding out some more about him and what he does when you are not around him. then make a decision.
2006-12-01 18:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by keepongrowing@guy.constantly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sounding pretty shallow here girl, and your question that was dropped, was even worse. seems like your only interested in his main muscle...
2006-12-01 10:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋