my girl mov'd away 2 go 2 college we're stil considered goin 2getha. im proud dat she willin 2 pursue her education and i love here dearly. we talk like everyday and email each other everyday, but im scared she might find sumone betta than me and 4 get about me. i trust her but u kno dat guy instinct duzz kick in and i wonder. i dont wanna lose her!
2006-12-01 09:49:38 · 11 answers · asked by DNice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Put God first in your relationship and ask him to help you guys. I was dating my girlfriend for 3 and a half years long-distance before we got married. I was stationed in Germany and she was in American Samoa, a US territory in South Pacific. The Lord will help you guys get through it and if it's meant to be, then you guys will be together in the future. Also, when you hit rough spots during this time, pray. She's gonna have to go out on her own and decide for herself whether she wants to continue your relationship. Honesty, trust, openness, and faith are character traits you both will need that i see is lacking so much in young people today and also adults. God bless and wish you the best!
2006-12-01 09:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I really don't believe in long distance relationships. Espically if one of the two moved off to college because college is such a great and new experience that you don't want to be kept tied down by someone you love back home. You learn a lot in college and one things you do learn is there are so many new and interesting people out there to meet.
2006-12-01 18:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by basmusiq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is trust her. If you get jealous, and then start accusing her of things she has not done, then you will just drive her away. Be aware that she ill make a whole new set of friends, and some of them may be guys, but you have to trust that she will make the right decisions regarding your relationship. If you can't trust her, then shes not the right person, or maybe you arent.
2006-12-01 17:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rum_Punch_Girlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should prepare yourself for the possibility that it COULD happen, you know? But what would really make her mad is if you become a jealous bf. So trust her, and believe that she will stay true to you. And if it doesn't work out for whatever reason, just know in your heart that it's for the best. (You want her to be happy, right?) You will find happiness no matter what.
2006-12-01 17:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by marisa_g1rl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how far away is her college?
its all about trust.
i thought i trusted my boy friend. and he went to a party and gave some girl his number. and they were talking behind my back for a week. and we were going out for 2 and a half years. and we are now broken up. and week from today. and he is already going out with that slut he was talking to. && i trusted him with everything.
things change. and they happen for a reason. just trust her.
2006-12-01 17:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I think first you should learn to spell & speak english. If she feels the same about you she will be good to you. Just support her & love her thats all you can do.
2006-12-01 17:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by kristamin00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loves you she will stay with you , make shure you do you'r part and work on the relashonship. and dont get jellis just ask about the pople that she will be studying with.
2006-12-01 17:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by sosweetman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is meant to be then you won't lose her....love her, make sure she knows that, but give her space...she needs time to enjoy college life and to study....it won't be easy but you may make it...good luck
2006-12-01 17:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do but trust her and hope for the best!
2006-12-01 17:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she proble wont find anyone else like u so she is proble going to stay with u
2006-12-01 17:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋