I have suspiscions about my girl. She lives very far away, is younger than me, and is a major hottie. But I know that she is a very good a loyal person. However I have trust issues when it comes to women. Should I just ignore the fact that me and her have sporadic contact, just because she is going to school and is busy with work and family or should I just stop being naive and stupid and move on? Any advice would come in handy.
2006-12-01 09:44:36 · 7 answers · asked by Man_With_No_Name 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm in an LDR and it sucks. Major suck. She probably keeps busy with all these things to keep from feeling like crap all the time from missing you. Independent people are the best in LDR's because they can take care of themselves, have their own lives, and are not dependent on the other person to keep them occupied - they have a life and want you to be a part of it rather than having you be their life.
Of course, you have to trust her in order for a relationship to work. Doesn't matter if you live with her or are 3 states away, trust is #1.
2006-12-01 13:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by bubblesnap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see any games being played except by your lack of asking the correct questions. if she is loyal, she is probably busy. But do you like the type of relationship sporatic and far away. will she be back in your area soon? maybe its time to pick someone else and just be her friend. you can also work on your trust issues by yourself and leave her out of them.
2006-12-01 17:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by tiafromtijuana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I say before you start making any descions don't you think you outta talk to her first? If she's loyal then whats to worry about? I personally think that most long distant relationships don't work but hey if it does good for you!!
2006-12-01 17:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being naive and move on.. try going out with someone who isnt too far away from u.. where u can come over and visit anytime.. u know what im sayin.. its a waste of time thinkin and worryin about that ****..
2006-12-01 17:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships don't work out often anyway...unless you'll soon be in close proximity and can see one another frequently, it'd probably be easier (and less stress/heartache for you in the long run) to end it and go your separate ways...
2006-12-01 17:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same issue, your best bet is to give her an option to spend time with you, or your moving on.
2006-12-01 17:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by crazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.
2006-12-01 17:46:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋