Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

When my daughter was born 8 years ago her father would try to hang out with me a few times. We went out once but he would come over to see my daughter then when she would go to sleep he would sleep with me then leave. He toyed with me like this off and on for years. He would go through several different girlfriends as well as I dated people. Why would he not want to be with the mother of his child? I understand there are factors soemtimes but I am attractive have a good job, am fun, and we have a lot in common. He has a girlfriend now and I'm currently single. He has never been married and does not have any other kids he is also almost 40 and I am 28. Why would he rather be with these other girls than me and our daughter. He also mentioned a long time ago we should have another child. Does he just not have any feelings for me?

2006-11-30 07:13:03 · 8 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Singles & Dating

a few weeks ago me and my b.f broke up because i snapd him in bed with my friend....I was shocked because he was with me that day. even though he did that to me i wasnt angry or hurt... but i had to break it off. all im wondering is why im not angry?????

2006-11-30 07:12:54 · 9 answers · asked by Doll 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy at a party last night, one thing led to another and we ended up spending most of the evening together. We then went bar hoping and clubbing till the early hours and he invited me back to his for more drinking. We ended up sitting on his sofa chatting and holding hands till 5am and then he asked me to stay over promising to be a total gentleman. He was, we went straight to sleep I woke up with him holding me and he kissed me for the first time in the morning. He is off on holiday for 3/4 weeks today, but asked for my number when I left and said he would call me when he got back.

1) Is the fact he was a gentleman indicative of him liking me or not being interested
2) Is it likely he just asked for my number to be polite
3) Is the fact he said he was going to phone on his return good indication he is thinking of pursuing this or the polite brush off
4) If he was really interested would he not call or text from holiday.


Any other comments?

2006-11-30 07:12:46 · 6 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

We had been having hot sex four days before.

He told me about this himself without prompting 3 weeks after the event.There was no way I would have otherwise found out.

He got drunk with college friends from 6pm onwards.He then offered to walk a girl he thought didn't like him to the train station.She missed her train.Between the two of them they got a hotel room-double/single I didn't ask.Once in the room he said he wanted to just sleep, but she suggested sex.She guided him into her and they had sex "twice but in the same sequence of events" he also remembers going down on her.The next morning he says he felt awful about it.

Roll on 3 weeks.We haven't had sex in a while. I notice he hasn't been calling as much as usual. We go out for a meal and when I get flirtatious and suggest going home with him, he backs off.

So last friday. He comes over and confesses.We are both 24 we have been together 5years and were both virgins before we met.

2006-11-30 07:12:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 6 months. I suddenly just stopped loving him. I mean I still like him as a friend and I want to stay with him longer but I haven't felt any closeness to him lately. I can't break up with him because he's going to a dance show for me and christmas is ocming up and i just plaine don't want to. So I guess I'm asking if anyone can give me advice to feel close to him again.

2006-11-30 07:11:58 · 5 answers · asked by BalletAlyssa 1 in Singles & Dating

we agreeded to have shared custody and with her spending half of the month with him and half with me. And he was to also pay child support of 300 dollars a month. And to also to be able to claim her every other year on our income taxes. In the three years since he has remarried a woman with 2 children. she abuses our child mentally and physically. My daughter does not feel safe staying with her farther being that he does not protect her from this woman flipping out on her. she has lived with me for the past year and my ex is not allowed to spend anytime alone with her per his new wife. He still pays the childsupport, and I pay for everything else which was to be shared. and it is his year to claim her. He makes tripple the imcome that i do. In the past year I have gone through all of my savings and have max out my credit. I requested from him for me to be able to claim her. So that I would me able to buy her an car. His reply,no. Please help. And how do I do an discovery4^support

2006-11-30 07:11:41 · 8 answers · asked by nurse2hope 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When my cousin got her marriage license she got married in city hall but somebody told me that if you fill forms that's enough.

2006-11-30 07:11:39 · 5 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im overweight, but not extremely overweight. Im a size 16 and currently exercising regularly and eating a balanced to lose weight for my sisters wedding in july 2007. I can't seem to get the attention of guys. I feel its my size that is the problem. Do most men judge women by their outer appearance. Im not ugly, just slightly out of shape

2006-11-30 07:11:35 · 21 answers · asked by grocerygirl_24 2 in Singles & Dating

I like a guy in work and im not sure whether he feels the same for me i think he does but cant be sure. He seems shy and very rarely initates conversation yet he does reply to my emails and lend me his dvds. Once we get talking we have quite a bit in common. So if a guy doesnt start the conversation often does that mean hes not interested?

He doesnt really initiate conversations with other girls either but will talk to them if they make convo with him

2006-11-30 07:11:27 · 11 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been unhappy in my marriage for a while, to the point of thinking of divorce. My wife and I just can't seem to get along. We just seem to be very different people. To make a long story short, things that she did early this year really made me sad and made me realize that I need to do something. So, I started to ask a couple of very close friends about if I should seek counseling to try and save my marriage (and part of me still does) but then I met this lady and something happened that I think I have fallen in love with her or if not fallen in love, something very close to it and I cannot stop thinking about her. This is tearing me apart, yes, I have been very unhappy in my marrige but at the same time I still want to save it but then what do I do with my feelings for this person? When I'm not around her I do good (not great) but when I see her, well, I can't stop trying to look at her and get all nervous. This could have happened in the past with another woman, so why now?

2006-11-30 07:11:00 · 4 answers · asked by sadinmiamifl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-30 07:10:14 · 14 answers · asked by Element 115 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 07:09:29 · 4 answers · asked by MAR 1 in Friends

I am ready to live on my own with him but he wants his fam to move in so they dont have to live in an apartment and pay rent anymore. with his family being there itll be just like living with my mother. i wont cook because his mom will, i wont clean because his mom will already do it. We wont have our privacy and i will feel like an intruder. it just wouldnt feel like our own house. i told him all of this and he just got an attitude with me and told me "fine so dont move in". What should i do? do u think im wrong?

2006-11-30 07:09:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im shy and i really dont know how to approach this guy that i like he talks to my mom alot but he never talks to me and he is the manager that works at a grocery store and he came and sacked for my mom one day and he didnt have to but he was checking me out

2006-11-30 07:09:00 · 19 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I find you?

You're single and looking for the right guy, but until you find him ...

2006-11-30 07:08:46 · 17 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Singles & Dating

at deal or no deal .
The winner got a night out with the lads or the ladies and i won.

Should i go out with the lads or take the wife out for a curry and a few sherberts??

2006-11-30 07:08:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 months. I love her very much but I am stuck on thinking of christmas presents lol well anything helps. Thanks

2006-11-30 07:08:03 · 15 answers · asked by Nathan F 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend has a chronic disease which causes him a lot of pain and he has to take tablets every day The disease affects his bones and he may end up bent or disabled Also he carries genes for this and there is a 1 in 5 chance that a child of his would inherit it, He has a fairly new gf and has asked me not to mention his pains. When should he tell her about all this?

2006-11-30 07:07:58 · 21 answers · asked by maryjane 1 in Singles & Dating

i knoe its horrible, im square!! help me out here people what and how do i do it? please i cant be square forever? what if iam a bad kisser omg !

2006-11-30 07:07:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I heard that when a guy spends a long time kissing a girl, this means he has feelings for her? A guy who doesn't have feelings for a girl will rush through the kissing to get to the sex. Is this true?

2006-11-30 07:07:20 · 8 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Should i.................?
im in love with this girl in my class
she likes jokin wiv me n i like it to
but thts all im there for
im not there for talking only laughin
this makes me feel leftout
whenever i help her she hardly gives a thank you
she sometimes jus gives me dirtylook
whenever she goes on holiday she will hug everyone except me
i will get a handshake
there was one incident which made me really angry
i was chttin 2 her on MSN then i added one of her close m8s to the conversation
she said to her while i was there that she needed to tell her m8 someting in another conversation. she easily could
have just told her
this made me feel so angry
did she say that on purpose in front of me?
ive tried 2 have a break from her but i always come back
should i stop being in contact with for her for good?

whenever on MSN she never says hi 2 me im the 1 hu strts off the conversation
whenever i ask her why shes so quite she would say 2 me tht she is busy chttin to some1

2006-11-30 07:06:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to make my boyfriend laugh. Like, on a daily basis. I'm just not funny, or at least not funny to him. I want to make him happy, like how he makes me. I don't want it to always be so serious with us, but to have fun (don't' get me wrong, we do), but I still want to make him laugh. Is it just a personality defect, or what?

Thankies!

2006-11-30 07:06:13 · 10 answers · asked by cadence_lost 3 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend, if he is the same man I fell in love with. I found out, after 2 years of a perfect relationship, that my boyfriend was texting 2 other girls. I used to never worry about anything beause things were so perfect that I thought our bond was untouchable. I trusted him inplicitly and I felt secure and loved. He made me feel so special and he was so special to me. I thought nothing could ever replace the bond that we had. When I found out he was texting he said it was wrong and it had nothing to do with us. He said it was an ego boost for him and it made him feel like he still had it. What he did to boost his ego crushed mine. I know plenty of guys that would love to have what he has. I would never entertain that and have never given any hope to them. They know about my boyfriend...i've always been upfront and always will be. How do I get that feeling back in the relationship i'm in. I want to feel special and irreplacable again. Is this possible with him?

2006-11-30 07:05:30 · 7 answers · asked by electra4 1 in Singles & Dating

we had a rocky break up. and i know that he still cares. i found out that i had cancer and i told him and he wants to be supportive but he is afraid to show affection. what do i do he wants us to work but not rite now. and rite now i want him to help me through this, but i making him mad by not giving him his space. HELP

2006-11-30 07:05:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

THEY ARE MOST LIKELY NOT GOING TO HAVE NO TRUST FOR ME NO MORE.. OR EVER LIKE HIM... AND HOW AM I GOING TO WORK OUT MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY BOYFRIEND.. IF IM NOT GOING TO TALK OR SEE HIM FOR A WHILE BECAUSE OF MY PARENTS... SHOULD I JUST TELL THEM IM GOING OUT WITH HIM?? OR WAT IF THEY NEVER LET ME SEE HIM AGAIN.. OHH N HE LIVES 2 HOUSE AWAY FROM ME...

2006-11-30 07:05:00 · 30 answers · asked by GUERITA 1 in Family

2006-11-30 07:04:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It is often said that your first love is your true love. True or False? What do you think?
My first love wasn't my true love.

2006-11-30 07:04:00 · 17 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Singles & Dating

I'm with this girl, she ask me out (in a shy manner). She told me her baby father brought down her self esteem and that I'm bringing it up. The last guy she was with after her baby father right before me couldn't perform in bed but she tells me I can. She said the last guy felt threatin by her babys father and she didn't like that. She talks about her babys father alot bringing in examples of him when where having convo ( not a lot but a little to much) so i understand why he felt that way. This guy was her first, they have a baby together, and they once lived with each other (the whole family envoriment). So does she still have feelings for him? Am I around just till she feels better about her self? Or will she find someone else to fill a void that she feels she is missing?

2006-11-30 07:03:17 · 23 answers · asked by p q 1 in Singles & Dating

Basically im conserned about he weather & how low it can gate for this season since im from east africa, whats the easy transportation, what currency is on use, political stability,and if there really is a good cheese; mainly i want to know good art and fashion school and also business schools (university/college)?

2006-11-30 07:02:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do you know if someone is lying to you, like will they loose eye contact, like that sort of thing

2006-11-30 07:01:41 · 24 answers · asked by All I need is you 2 in Singles & Dating