THEY ARE MOST LIKELY NOT GOING TO HAVE NO TRUST FOR ME NO MORE.. OR EVER LIKE HIM... AND HOW AM I GOING TO WORK OUT MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY BOYFRIEND.. IF IM NOT GOING TO TALK OR SEE HIM FOR A WHILE BECAUSE OF MY PARENTS... SHOULD I JUST TELL THEM IM GOING OUT WITH HIM?? OR WAT IF THEY NEVER LET ME SEE HIM AGAIN.. OHH N HE LIVES 2 HOUSE AWAY FROM ME...
2006-11-30 07:05:00 · 30 answers · asked by GUERITA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
BE HONEST & TELL YOUR PARENTS THE TRUTH. IF YOUR LOVE IS TRUE THEN YOU DON'T NEED TO BE AFRAID OF ANYONE.
2006-12-01 16:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♥*B.B.K*♥♪ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
technically legally??? what kind of statement is that? they mean two different things and do not add to your argument. Next, you should not quote laws you do not have the technical knowledge to understand. The spirit of the law does not side with you, but with your parents. How old is he? the law is picky about age. Next, what happens when you get caught? are there any new consequences to lying to your parents. will this create a problem for him and his parents and what happens if your parents confront his parents about this issue? Will you really be sleeping, or are you going to do much more than sleep with him if at all? Finally kids who want to have sex will have sex no matter what parents say. where there is a will, there is a way. Unfortunately, you have to resort to secrecy in order to have some fun. Just remember, the deeper the lie goes, the harder it is to get back on track to trust. If your parents know you are having sex, then talk to them about it, the pill, condoms etc.. let them know that you are responsible and do not want to lie to them about where you are going and with who. They may be more welcoming to your maturity about being with one guy, than playing around with many guys.
2016-05-23 05:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your parents everything. Initially they may get angry but will definitely guide you on the relationship. On the other hand your boyfriend will also be scared, if he is not serious about you. The true and mature picture of your love will only surface.
2006-12-01 18:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need more info about your age etc. before offering any advice. I guess the best thing for you now is to be guided by your parents and listen to their advice after you have told them the truth and nothing but the truth. They probably know a lot more about your boy friend and his folks than even you know. Don’t be afraid of them. Trust them and believe in them.
2006-11-30 08:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth.
if your boyfriend ends the relationship because of being caught.then he didn't really care about you.
And telling the truth will be easier for you because your parents will at least know you are honest about it.
It is not your parents that did this , it was you.. so you have no reason to blame them if your boyfriend calls it quits.
2006-11-30 07:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any reason why your parents should trust you from now on. You have proven yourself to be untrustworthy and deceptive. Your relationship with your BF is probably over, and frankly right now you have more important things to worry about.
As for what you tell your parents. How about the truth. It's never failed me. It doesn't mean they won't be mad. But since you think your grown enough to play around with your BF you should be grown enough for the consequences of doing so.
2006-11-30 07:15:06 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u r young,u must of been realy dum.listen ive never been caught or anything but if i were u...i would apollillize to my parents and promise u will never doit again.and move on.but if u were crazy 4 him...then just tell ur parents if they can give u just 1 more chance.just dont end up in the same situation.
2006-11-30 08:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by neina khan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just tell them the truth. If you lie, you'll just be in more trouble. Maybe you'll just be grounded for a short time, but at least they'll be glad you were honest with them!! Hopefully you can date soon so you won't have to go through all this. Maybe once they ungrounded you, you can call him and talk to him at least. Good luck to you.
2006-11-30 07:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth. Lying will only make things worse and then they definitely wont trust you. Telling the truth may help you. They might be angry with you for a while but tell them at least you didnt lie.
2006-11-30 07:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by cynthia_0516 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends on how old you are. Your parents defiantly already know. You'd be surprised how in pressed and blown away your parents would be if your boyfriend and you sat down with your parents and talked to them about it.
2006-11-30 07:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by middelmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully, you tell them the truth. Tell them if you had sex with him, as this is important medical information. They will probably loose their trust in you for a very long time, but you can gain it back after awhile.
2006-11-30 07:17:10 · answer #11 · answered by ibkidd37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋