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I like a guy in work and im not sure whether he feels the same for me i think he does but cant be sure. He seems shy and very rarely initates conversation yet he does reply to my emails and lend me his dvds. Once we get talking we have quite a bit in common. So if a guy doesnt start the conversation often does that mean hes not interested?

He doesnt really initiate conversations with other girls either but will talk to them if they make convo with him

2006-11-30 07:11:27 · 11 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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He is just shy, But you know this already. what you really want to ask is how do you know he is interested in you. OK shy guy's will not approach you first, for fear of rejection, shy means insecure. But I bet he really likes you, so you are going to have to do the work. Firstly think of what the other girls do, and try to do different, that way he'll see you in a different way from them. secondly ask him, in a manor of ways, to take you out. something like "do you wanna take me for a coffee" or "I'd really like to go to a movie with you". If you don't, forget it, he will not ask you first. Does he touch you? even the smallest thing like caress you fingers when you hand back the DVD.
If so he likes you alright. Eye contact is the give away though, even shy guys can hold eyes, does he with you. If No then he likes you.

2006-11-30 07:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 1 1

Ah. have been you waiting to talk certainly? the terrific relationships are with people who you will possibly be your self around. The silence skill which you have been working throughout your head attempting to make certain what to assert, and customary sounded one sided. the appliance lip gloss seems extra like something to fill the silence (like, twiddling with a purpose). you may proceed to attempt...regardless of the undeniable fact that it form of feels that by using the time she does honestly open up -- she would have mentally made you a pal. probable hampering a relationship.

2016-10-13 10:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

ask him to lunch or if you are more brave dinner to hang out - do this a few times and develop a friendship outside work, this wil allow him to come out of his shell. i was in this situation about 5 years ago it took 6 months for him to ask me out but we were together 2 yrs so it was worth the wait

2006-11-30 07:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by confused 2 · 0 0

we can only guess, could really be anything, he could be interested and shy, or not and just polite coz he feels sorry for u..

i'd say your best bet is to ask him out. even if just for lunch, and then you'll know for sure...

he's the one with the answers, but try it... you might like it!! :)

2006-11-30 07:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It sounds like he's a follower and likes someone else to take the lead. Go ahead and "lead". If he "follows" you, he's interested!

2006-11-30 07:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm really shy and I never start conversations.

It sounds like he likes you, he's probably just shy.

2006-11-30 07:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0 0

Just shy you scared little frea k... grow some balls and ask him out or hold your horses and see what happens. sheesh!

2006-11-30 07:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Not interested

2006-11-30 07:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by keith s 5 · 0 1

shy

2006-11-30 07:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by 4 · 0 0

i think he's shy but also thinks he likes u but fdoesnt kno wat to do

2006-11-30 07:45:12 · answer #10 · answered by :) 2 · 0 0

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