Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

I'm not perfect, nobody is, but I have been VERY good to my wife for many years and I have not gotten half back from her of what I give out in love and care and I guess I finally got tired of it - I have a broken heart. I was not looking for anyone, not looking to fall in love or anything like that. I realized I could not go on like this and that is when I started to look for counseling and then this person came into my life and I have VERY strong feelings for her, I am very confused, torn apart and sad. Why her? It could have happened with other women in the past but I would turn the other way and be a "good husband." But something happen with this one, is like I fell into a magic spell and I cannot get out of it. I TRULY wish I did not feel like this about her but I just can't as much as I try. When I am around her I feel like my heart wants to come out of my chest. Is this stupid or what? I need some good advise please.

2006-11-30 07:23:18 · 11 answers · asked by sadinmiamifl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last weekend I went to a bachlorette party with a couple of girls. We were having a blast until I looked up and saw him. Its been 12 years since we broke up, but I got those damn feelings of butterflies in my stomach etc. I got the courage to talk to him outside (the bar music was way to loud). We talked about old times for about an hour and got a lot of things off our chest. Yes we are both happily married. We even talked about our sex history and how great and creative we were. Now thats all I can think about. I don't mind keeping some of the memories but this is driving me crazy. I'm even having dreams about him.
I can't help but think about what it would be like if I had one hot experience now that we are older and wiser. BUT I WONT since Im married.
Part of me will always love him for he was my first and I was well over him until now.

If I see any of my other ex's I dont feel this way, am I losing it?
Please give me serious answers, and yes I'm faithful too.

2006-11-30 07:23:13 · 16 answers · asked by countrygalsline 2 in Friends

I caught a guy masturbating in his car. He didn't see me and I just watched him, he was pretty cute. I didn't do anything but am thinking I should have done something, not mean, but to let him know I saw him. What should I have done? What should a girl do?

I had my camera phone, I should have snapped a picture...

2006-11-30 07:22:58 · 8 answers · asked by shutup4774 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-30 07:22:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want my boyfriend to be more caring and charming with me but i cant really tell him and i dont know why.

2006-11-30 07:22:07 · 23 answers · asked by angelbaby08 1 in Singles & Dating

i made out with my friends boyfriend....but she told me to, what do i do

2006-11-30 07:21:51 · 10 answers · asked by Dopie 1 in Singles & Dating

How can i for get my ex-boyfriend we whent out last year but we brock up i still like him a lot should i move on or how can i get him back???????.....

2006-11-30 07:21:49 · 2 answers · asked by carla 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me personally: i dont have any money, cuz i'm only 13 and stuff like that....
my parents won't give me any money
and dont tell me i'm too young to have a bf

2006-11-30 07:20:53 · 13 answers · asked by boyluvr26 1 in Singles & Dating

i love this girl so much and we have been going out for 6 months but i forgot to call her over the summer and i need her to talk to me. How do i tell it to her

2006-11-30 07:20:41 · 12 answers · asked by Aaron M 1 in Singles & Dating

My Girl is a Gemini and for the last year, we have been on again, off again. She claims she loves me but everytime we fight she says the following....Don't call me, Don't IM me, Don't email me". Then two or three months later I might email and she'll talk to me again. It's like she can't get enough of the people in chatrooms and feels I guess that she'll find someone new. Then when she can't she comes back. However, everytime she does it, I get more and more ok with it and don't want to bother. What should I do? Should I try to patch things up or just leave her alone for a while? OR For good?

2006-11-30 07:20:38 · 20 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Singles & Dating

Make a woman enjoy sex with a man less? Or do they make the man enjoy it less with a woman who uses them? I was just wondering cause I was just given "something" but wont use it if it will ruin the experience for anybody.

2006-11-30 07:19:51 · 30 answers · asked by Lalalalalala 5 in Singles & Dating

A very good friend of mine has recently gotten engaged. The problem is that i really like him and i have never told him. What should i do?

2006-11-30 07:19:47 · 10 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 07:19:06 · 36 answers · asked by girlygurl22 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 17 and the girl is 16. We met on one of my old RP sites and we have recently started writing to each other. What I want to know is would a long term relationship actually work? I have 'gone out' with her before but we stopped because it was unfair on each other, being that we couldn't see each other. She is intending to come over here to the UK to visit soon. What do you think?

2006-11-30 07:18:45 · 8 answers · asked by Shaun W 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and were together for 4 years. We have been broken up for the past year but try to remain friends. Sometimes hooking up on lonely nights. I still love him, but not in love anymore. The chemistry is gone, has been gone for a long time. He wants me back, but I continue to tell him that we need to move on. He's persistant and trying to convince me otherwise.
Now I have this new guy for the past 6 months. He's great! We get along and our relationship is much more maturer than the last. He understands that we have to move slow because of my ex. But for some reason I can't quite tell my ex that I've moved on. I guess for the sake of keeping his feelings from hurting. We have slept together within these 6 months about 5 times.
I met the family of the new guy, now I'm ready for the next step. I had to break the news to the ex, he didn't take it well. He called the new boyfriend and told him everything and exaggerated some. New guy is so upset at me. What should I do? How can I repair?

2006-11-30 07:18:07 · 21 answers · asked by so much confusion 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 07:17:51 · 9 answers · asked by Bara 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 07:17:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i was just wondering how long people are together or about what age most people decied to get married?

2006-11-30 07:17:09 · 16 answers · asked by *little one* 4 in Weddings

2006-11-30 07:16:50 · 17 answers · asked by MAR 1 in Singles & Dating

I see that they cost so much less than using a solicitor - is there more risk involved? Are they to be trusted? Any (serious) information gratefully received!!

2006-11-30 07:16:47 · 11 answers · asked by GreatWestern 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I guess im just unluky or something but every guy i like is always going out with my friends. and the worst part is they are always cute!!! Are my friends just better then me or something!!!!

2006-11-30 07:16:44 · 5 answers · asked by bloom_luvr 1 in Singles & Dating

my gf is not that good at sex but we love eachother and shes pretty hot. my ex gf was a straight up pro in the sack she was out of control and made it so hot everytime, but she sucked big time and i hate her. But everytime i have sex with my current GF i find myself thinking about how it doesnt compare as good to my past experiences. what should i do? Is there like a class or somthing she can go to?

2006-11-30 07:16:38 · 19 answers · asked by matt 2 in Singles & Dating

a guy. What is it that turns you on. What is it that lets you know that he might be boyfriend material. What is it that you want him to have. I just want opinions for the ladies.

2006-11-30 07:16:36 · 15 answers · asked by Bman 1 in Singles & Dating

i need a christmas present for my boyfriend and i have no ideas at all. we have been together for 2 months, he's 20 i need something that isn't too expensive (50$ or under) we are both Christians. he loves snowboarding and sports

2006-11-30 07:16:16 · 2 answers · asked by katiebug 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 07:15:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've had some that were more enthusiastic than others.....but if I was getting it, it wasn't bad!

2006-11-30 07:15:09 · 13 answers · asked by Karen 6 in Singles & Dating

Is there anyone else who married young, and later realized that they had little in common, and loved each other, but weren't really in love?

2006-11-30 07:14:50 · 8 answers · asked by Nitris 3 in Marriage & Divorce

The guy I've been seeing this guy for the past couple of months, he saids that he's into getting to know me better and ready to explore the possiblity of something more serious with me, but whenever I show any emotion, toward the situation, as in reactions to him being inconsiderate or blowing me off, he pulls away? He's playing games right, or how should I read the mixed signal?

2006-11-30 07:14:23 · 6 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

can anyone suggest any ways to become more popular, so that people want to talk to me? also how is that the people you don't want to talk to you are usually the ones that do talk to you and the ones that you want some kinda conversation with will just say "hi"?

2006-11-30 07:14:20 · 9 answers · asked by smartgal 2 in Friends

have you ever had to stop seeing or talking to a member or your family (for whatever reason) to save your own health/sanity???

who and why??

2006-11-30 07:14:16 · 4 answers · asked by SNAP! 4 in Other - Family & Relationships