A very good friend of mine has recently gotten engaged. The problem is that i really like him and i have never told him. What should i do?
2006-11-30 07:19:47 · 10 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I figured i would just keep quiet. I'd rather have him as a friend than to not have him at all. Besides...we're only in our 20's...you never know what the future looks like. =)
2006-11-30 07:28:29 · update #1
This is a tough situation. It reminds me of the movie My Best Friend's Wedding, have you ever seen it? I think in the end, it's just best for you not to tell him, unless you think it will benefit him in some way. If you really really really want to tell him, then just do it bluntly and don't beat around the busy. Chances are though, he only sees you as a friend, unfortunately. Trust me, I know, it's happened to me before :( But don't tell him just to be spiteful--if you really care about him, then just be a good friend and support him during his marriage. Ya never know, maybe they'll break it off and then there's your chance! :)
2006-11-30 07:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by Katie Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing. You missed out. Live with it. Sometimes we don't speak up and events occur that we don't like, but we cannot turn back the clock. You have never revealed your feelings to your friend, and he has obviously developed strong feelings for someone else, otherwise he wouldn't be planning to get married. For you to say anything now would make you look like you're trying to interfere with his relationship, which in turn will probably cost you his friendship. Let it go and move on.
2006-11-30 07:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant really do nething. if hes engaged he probably really likes this girl and can see a future with him. if you tell him and he doesnt feel the same way, not only will you make things weird between you too, but if his fiance finds out it will ruin any relationship you can ever have as a friend with her. if you really wanted to tell him, you shoulda told him sooner, but the best thing to do now is try your best to move on.
2006-11-30 07:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by Gucci_xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u waited too late. why ruin his relationship especially if they love eachother. Just tell him that ur happy for him and try to move on. LIfe Lesson: Dont wait to tell that special person u care even if it means getting hurt or not gettting the answer u want cuz u never know if one day theyll wake up and realize that they care for u too.
2006-11-30 07:22:54 · answer #4 · answered by Loves To Drink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can keep those feeling to your self and let him be happy with the person he chose or you can take a chance and let it all out. Things between you both might change after that and you might feel uncomfortable but you decide, Is it worth letting your true feelings out ?
2006-11-30 07:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're ship has sailed, sweetie. I mean if you're gonna tell him, do it now and don't wait another second. But he's clearly found someone he loves and wants to be with so you might think about investing those feelings elsewhere. Sorry.
2006-11-30 07:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you waited to long to tell him. just be a friend to him!
2006-11-30 07:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing now... You lost your chance. Sorry sweets... regret is awful to live with.
2006-11-30 07:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have an affair with him.
2006-11-30 07:21:11 · answer #9 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him.
2006-11-30 07:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋