a few weeks ago me and my b.f broke up because i snapd him in bed with my friend....I was shocked because he was with me that day. even though he did that to me i wasnt angry or hurt... but i had to break it off. all im wondering is why im not angry?????
2006-11-30 07:12:54 · 9 answers · asked by Doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe - even if it is just subconsciously - you are relieved because you knew he wasn't the right one for you anyway. You probably aren't angry because you have confidence in yourself and you knew deep down inside that you could do better. He obviously wasn't worth your time, so why give him time being angry about it? Smart girl! :o)
2006-11-30 07:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anne C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was in that situation, i hope that i wouldn't be angry as well... you still respect the person maybe... you see the happening as a seperate thing from the person... u don't have to accept the act and like it but can still like the person... u got yourself out of the situation where you won't be let down there again by getting away from it so you don't have to have any expectations there... but can just enjoy a friendship there...
SO what i'm trying to say is that you've seperated the issue from the person and ended any further possiblity for reoccurance...
being angry doesn't hurt them... only hurts you so why punish yourself
2006-11-30 15:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Robin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you weren't emotionally attached? maybe you had it happen before and used to it? maybe you're happy to be rid of him w/o being the mean girl to break it off so this proved to be the perfect opportunity? I don't know the 'exact' reason, depends how your relationship was before the breakup.
2006-11-30 15:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be feeling this because you really didn't like him.....or you could just have a good spirit....I personally think you did the right thing but those could be some reasons why....
2006-11-30 15:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by giggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DID NOT EXPECT MUCH OF HIM ANY WAY.I am proud of you.most people will not be as Strong as you have been.They cheated and acted like thieves.let them live with the shame.
2006-11-30 15:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't care for someone enough, your heart knows not to let your emotoins get out of control.
2006-11-30 15:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by lloroensilencio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it hasn't hit you yet. Or maybe you don't feel the same way about him anymore and you just don't care.
2006-11-30 15:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you didn't love him and you probably saw it coming.
2006-11-30 15:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jadis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
................................................... me nono
2006-11-30 15:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by llama_attack_prep 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋