Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

just found history on our computer that he looked at some local sites for "find singles / get laid tonight" type crap....... never done this before. Always been the absolute 100% perfect b-friend for 2 years now, never found anything on history, no suspicious behavior (bad past experiences, so i have a habit of checking). No late nights, he works in his work clothes (paint/dirt, comes home sweaty), his friends come to OUR HOUSE, he's never gone on odd evening visits or anything, no odd phonecalls (only have my cell phone).....SO WHY WOULD I FIND THIS ON OUR COMPUTER. More or less.....what excuses should I expect to get when I get home (hvnt talked to him yet).

2006-11-29 09:43:09 · 6 answers · asked by it'sjustme79 3 in Singles & Dating

Hello ladies. So I really like this girl, we'v already go out on a date(it was good, but it seems that she is avoiding me at uni. Yesterday she had passed behind me an she didnt talked to me (she thinks that i didnt see her). So my problem is that in time to time I catch her looking at me. I cant understand if she is shy or if she doesn't like me and want to keep some distance. Lately she is avoiding me. Help m plz ***

2006-11-29 09:41:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive only made out like twise, and i accidently bit them one time.. i have no idea what im doing or what im supposed too do.. what do i do when there tounge is in my mouth so i dont bite it!!????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-29 09:41:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To all those who answered the young lad, Matt, who lost his mum. I for one am extremely proud of the love you all showed towards him. You can see the question and answers if you go thru my Q/A.Thanks guys! Isn't that what this is really all about?

2006-11-29 09:41:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've liked this boy who rides my bus and he lives 2 houses down from me for 3 years now. It sounds like a long time, but right now he is just starting to pay attention to me probably because this school year i have 2 classes with him and because i am now not afraid to sit in the back of the bus with the populars. I laugh at everyone, but especially hiim. He is soooo funny. whenever he sees me laughing at hime he says "shut up ...(my name)...!" I know he is just joking, but I was wondering if he likes me. I think he knows that i like him, my brother most likely told him.

2006-11-29 09:41:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 09:40:12 · 27 answers · asked by tysexy25 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband e-mails her and she e-mails him constantly. He doesn't know that I know about the e-mails. He tells her he wishes he could hold her. This has been going on for about 6 months. The other twist to all of this crap is she tells him constantly that she wants to be with him and that she's single. But I have proof she's been married for almost a year now.

Do i contact her husband and send him copies of the e-mails? I'm going to leave my husband as it is.

2006-11-29 09:39:44 · 15 answers · asked by sarah m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the day before thanksgiving my bf decided to break up with me.he said it was because he had doubt about a lot of things.he's a freshman in college and i'm a senior in high school. So after he used this "reason" i didn't believe him because i figured that he just wants to play around while he's there and i told him that i didn't want to see him again. later, he told some mutual friends of ours that he didn't trust me but he wanted to talk to me.they also said that they asked how i was doing because he wanted to know. he's even tried to contact me through facebook and even one of his friends, who had a part in the break up tried to request me as a friend through the site. i happily declined. for me, it seems like he wants to be friends to make himself feel better about everything. when we broke up he hinted at getting together again in the future. i told him that i never want to speak to him again. lately, i've wanted to contact but i don't want to be the one who caves. Advice?

2006-11-29 09:39:36 · 10 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

I have not been single sence High School. 8 years to be exact. And I don't even know how to approach a woman. I am SOOO shy. After I get to know someone, I am not shy, but it is the initial meeting that is so hard. I don't drink or smoke, so bars and nightclubs are pretty much out, I guess. What do you think?

2006-11-29 09:37:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some where on the internet I heard it was forrbidden or something for an Asian women to like Black men or something like that. Or like it's not supposed to happen or something. Think I should stop reading internet sites that say stuff like this? Or are they helpful, like giving a heads up?

2006-11-29 09:37:23 · 7 answers · asked by Shattered Dreams 1 in Singles & Dating

I live with my boyfriend and to guy roomates, when I went to sleep my boyfriends ex-wife came over(drunk) with a friend of hers and was still there in the morning sleeping in the bed with their son .. My boyfriend says he asked her to leave and she refused, and there was nothing else he could do. so he just came to bed.... He said it was because it was his son's mom and she just wouldn't leave there was nothing else he could have done?

2006-11-29 09:36:41 · 6 answers · asked by 21&lovinit 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive already told my boyfriend, but When did you all tell him/her?

2006-11-29 09:36:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you really mean when you say you need your space? Does that mean you are not interested? Or does it just simply means that you don't want to be "smothered by the other person?"

2006-11-29 09:35:51 · 19 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 09:35:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 09:34:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well that girl wasnt even in the 5th grade she was in the 7th so what do you have to say now

ps. i was not being a smart a**

2006-11-29 09:34:57 · 10 answers · asked by KKSLTER 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am leaving Tassie to move to WA in 2 weeks and I only told mum last night, she said that I should think about it but my mind is made up, I'm 18 so she knows she cant stop me and doesn't want to stop me anyway but she just seems a tad bit worried about me leaving so is it normal for mums to be like this when their eldest leaves home for the 1st time??
she knows I'm only 2 days away via the boat in Melbourne so she can drive accross if she wants or fly over to Perth, its only a 5 hr flight via Melbourne airport.

Mitch

2006-11-29 09:34:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

like in front of your friends. cause sometimes i dont know what to say...

2006-11-29 09:33:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we always use the word love with everything like i love these shose or food or some thing. you guys get it. but when it comes to trying to tell people how we realy feel about it we chock aand cant get the words out. why is that? why are peolpe so weird that way?

2006-11-29 09:33:51 · 3 answers · asked by *****heart***** 2 in Singles & Dating

I told my story on here to a guy asking about his teenage daughter and wonder sometimes how it turned out for them.. was a de-ja-vu thing.. is it rude to ask?

2006-11-29 09:33:45 · 11 answers · asked by 2sweet 1 in Family

2006-11-29 09:33:31 · 8 answers · asked by dr steveo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like some body but they don't like me back in the same way o like them but i think i can rub off on that person and they might start liking me back.

2006-11-29 09:33:28 · 3 answers · asked by dlt2fine 1 in Singles & Dating

Girls are the wisest. Will you please help me?
I have known this girl for two years, she’s 34 and I’m 30. She lives about an hour away. We went out a couple of times awhile back. First time she had an old friend get in the way, and they pursued a relationship. The second time she indicated that if I lived closer she would pursue a relationship but didn't want a long distance relationship. I told her I wanted to pursue it but she resisted, citing the distance thing. We kept in touch and emailed almost daily, pretty much excessively as many as 20 times a day (considering we both have office jobs, that wass pushing it I think). About 3 months ago I told her (casually) that I was seeing somebody. She immediately suggested that she was coming to my town and wanted to hang out for awhile. We did. She asked how things were going with the g/f, and I told her they were ok and that we were reaching the make or break point of the relationship. I asked her if she was seeing somebody, and she hesitated (what does the hesitation mean) before saying that she had been seeing somebody for a year. I told her I was happy for her. We had a nice innocent time together. On that following Monday I emailed her and said that I was happy for her that things were going well for her. It’s been a month and she hasn’t really kept in touch AT ALL, not like she used to. Any ideas on what her intentions were and what the heck she is thinking now? Thanks gals, I appreiciate it.

2006-11-29 09:32:38 · 16 answers · asked by kjhenkel 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 09:32:38 · 2 answers · asked by kayep 1 in Friends

2006-11-29 09:31:34 · 25 answers · asked by Dreamz 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 09:31:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it just me? Isn't trying to win back an ex or an ex trying to win you back pathetic? I'm not in this situation but it seems like everyone else on Earth is. Don't people think ahead before they break up with people? Do people just like that drama? Can't people have enough respect to just move on? I don't mean that everytime people try that it's pathetic. I know that stuff happens sometimes, but come on. Do people just rush into break-ups or am I just emotionally cold about it?

2006-11-29 09:31:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

from happening in the future? I dont even like the guys.

2006-11-29 09:30:24 · 17 answers · asked by mystifyingsilence 1 in Singles & Dating

when do you know its true love?
i have butterflies thinking about him and so does he about me and also we want to have tons of sex together
is it just sexual or love?

he says he loves me and wants to marry me

2006-11-29 09:29:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when do you think is the best time to start dating after a divorce? my husband is divorcing me and says i should start dating right away

2006-11-29 09:29:34 · 13 answers · asked by m 1 in Marriage & Divorce