Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

I'm a black woman and my fiance' is also black. I've searched yahoo and it seems like everyone who asks about a white tux IS white... so people respond differently and think it's not a good look.

My fiance' is dark skinned, has a slim (Ken doll) build because he has muscles and he's 6'4. We're having an outdoor wedding in the afternoon. I want him to wear something like in this picture:

http://img111.imageshack.us/img111/9177/cat6xl3.jpg

BUT WITH GREY PANTS instead of white pants.
What do you guys think?

2006-11-29 09:28:25 · 28 answers · asked by Valentine 2 in Weddings

I've been seeing my girlfriend for 2 months now. I am so confused. We started in the "honeymoon" rosey glow of seeing each other, being in each other's arms and looking into each other eyes. She is still very keen and talks about the future. I felt great on Sunday when we went for a walk and had a meal together. She then met my parents and I met her mother. However, when I saw her last night I felt a little pressurised to kiss and cuddle all the time. However, I felt like telling her that I loved her when holding her in my arms in bed. I've had a major up and down before about two weeks ago. I admit that I probably analyse far too much. However, I don't want this relationship to slip away or to hurt her. I also don't want to lose her love if I have to step back a bit. Please advise.

2006-11-29 09:27:53 · 12 answers · asked by drsauce99 1 in Singles & Dating

I find my wife, makes statements like " you never ect ect " or " you always do this or that.
In reality, what she really wants is me to pay attention to her,at that time. but why cant she just come out and say it , without the blaming, or malipulation

2006-11-29 09:27:27 · 14 answers · asked by tommytwotone 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ex. did you and your bride/groom leave the church to a song other than the traditional wedding march?

2006-11-29 09:27:23 · 16 answers · asked by Katie Beth 2 in Weddings

2006-11-29 09:26:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been in a relationship for 5 years and we just broke up. About 1.5 days later, he accepted another female's number and is thinking about talking to her on a serious note. Isn't that too soon? I'm still trying to deal with all the pain. I don't think I'll be ready to talk to someone for a long time.

Why is it that men move on so quickly? Is she just a quick back up plan or "rebound" person? Could he be serious about being serious with her? Should I assume other things were going on with her in the past?

2006-11-29 09:26:19 · 16 answers · asked by * 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I broke up and we aren't talking anymore. This was my doing (HEY, I'M ADMITTING IT WAS MY FAULT! NONE OF YOU PEOPLE WOULD HAVE THE GUTS TOO SO SHUT UP!) and now he's going around hanging out wth much pettier girls then me. First it was the threats of suicide now this. What's his problem and what should I do?

OTHER THEN BEATING HIM UP!

2006-11-29 09:25:48 · 5 answers · asked by Christina M 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 09:25:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

onship? I'm really curious. I would like to be with a woman to see how it is. ? I would like to start off as friends frist to see how that turns out then become more than friends. ? I would like to get to know her frist before anything else happens between us.

Thanks guys any ansers would help me out a lot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-29 09:24:43 · 2 answers · asked by sexycutenicelatinaepettiewoman 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 09:24:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my son is 14 in the 10th grade...constantly cuts class...failed 4 out of 6 classes...and often gets suspended...and recently found out he smokes marijuana...

2006-11-29 09:23:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She gave birth 4 months ago. We have a £5-7 limit on pressies. She's quite girly - likes make-up, trashy magazines, hair cuts, massages...

I'm absolutely at a loss!

2006-11-29 09:23:34 · 13 answers · asked by Mango M 2 in Family

If my boyfriend of 5 years didn't physically and verbally abuse the woman before me (also long term relationship of 5 years), but abuses me and says that he will make sure he doesn't do this to the next woman, how do I swallow that? Many people remind me that it's not my fault that I'm being abused, but if I'm the only he's abused, what does that mean?

2006-11-29 09:23:19 · 3 answers · asked by * 2 in Singles & Dating

Just say you are wearing tan thigh highs and you notice a guy kinda sneeking glances at your feet and shoes knowing what he wants to see what would you do! Would you tease the heck out of him and get him all riled up?

2006-11-29 09:22:45 · 3 answers · asked by beckett305 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies hi there I need help with something please!. This Saturday coming up I am going to be set up with a girl at a friendly barbique. I have met this girl before she works for one of my clients and is very attractive to me. I don't know if she knows that this is a set up. I also know that she broke up with her boy friend a week after I broke up with ny girlfriend. I am going to the barbique alone and so is she. How should I act around her? We have both come out of seriouse relationships so it will be nice to be with someone again. What should I do? It has been a while since I have hit on someone or asked someone out from scratch again. If I do this right it could be a wonderful future for us both I really don't want to lose trhis girl over stupidity or lack of set up ethics, so to speek. How should I handle this situation???? help me please, the balance is in your hands!. Serious answers only please!

Thank you George

2006-11-29 09:22:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have met a guy and been on a couple of dates with him. On the 2nd date i slept with him - he was txting me all day after it. Then i saw him again and it was as if he just wanted sex. He txt me again the next day but since then has not been in touch,(has been a week) i feel slightly daft. I may be being paranoid or is he just not interested in me except for sex. Something felt wrong and impersonal the last time i saw him and we were speaking most days until the last time i saw him.
Should i get in touch with him?

2006-11-29 09:21:41 · 37 answers · asked by lady.x 3 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my boyfriend today and it was a horrible situation...and i'm heartbroken. I just wanted to know if anyone else is out there feeling the same pain....

2006-11-29 09:21:25 · 17 answers · asked by Roxy1316 3 in Singles & Dating

If my boyfriend has been abusive (physically and verbally) in the past and recently, is it possible that he will ever change?

We just broke up, but now he seems like the sweetest person ever. Is it possible that he's truly cleaned his act up this time now that he really realizes he doesn't want to live without me?

Also, is it likely that he will get another woman and abuse her, or do you think since he lost me because of it he won't do that to her?

2006-11-29 09:20:30 · 20 answers · asked by * 2 in Singles & Dating

I LOVE YOU to me today, he's a senior and i'm a sophmore! We've been best friend for a year and a half now and today he told me he was in love with me and that he wants to be my boyfriend. I've been waiting for this for a long time!!

2006-11-29 09:20:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because (blank)likes this boy and he says that he loves her all the time but she doesnt know what to say because her mom says that they arent old enugh

2006-11-29 09:19:47 · 6 answers · asked by KKSLTER 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

people sometimes make fun, cuz i a virgin...who cares right!!!

2006-11-29 09:19:14 · 16 answers · asked by brenda 2 in Friends

We were married for 15 days when I left India. After 3 months I called my wife abroad. While she stayed in India she lived with my mother. When she came here she started stealing small things from my uncle's house (we stay close to each other) and I caught her doing so. Then after 3 months I found out that she had stolen large amounts from my mother's and sister's house in India too. She tried to commit suicide when I scolded her once. I even got to know that she had some relationship with guys while she stayed in India after marriage. Now I have sent her back to India and am seeking divorce. The girl refuses to give me divorce. How do I get one? Can I claim damages too? Altough i won't accept it but just to make my case strong. thanks

2006-11-29 09:19:11 · 8 answers · asked by indiguy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-29 09:19:02 · 5 answers · asked by Ken J 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I thought I never had a fedish for such things other than breast and her bottom but as I grow older so much of the women seems to stand out and catch my eye....Tom Science 4

2006-11-29 09:18:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 09:17:45 · 3 answers · asked by devilmaycry42 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a date tonight with Naomi Watts. I like her, but
my ex-girlfriend, who is Anna Faris wants me back. I
don't want to break my date with Naomi, but as I am a
pretty hot stud, I know she will make sexual advances on
me. Anna said we could do a three way because she'll do
anything to get me back.

I'm not sure how to handle the whole situation. I tried to get
advice from my friend Eva Green, but she just wanted to
score with my super hot studly body too! What should I do?

2006-11-29 09:17:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I meet this guy in some chat, now i´m in love with him and i think he likes me a lot, i´ll going 2 meet him soon...this could work?

2006-11-29 09:16:18 · 55 answers · asked by Zookie 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you like about yourself? and what dont you like?

2006-11-29 09:16:11 · 23 answers · asked by cheekychimp 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 09:15:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is that a turn off?

2006-11-29 09:15:52 · 7 answers · asked by CJL18 1 in Singles & Dating