Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

Sometimes I feel that I am overlooked by men and that the loudest, most aggressive people get what they want. Does anyone else feel like it is hard being a shy person. Sometimes people might think I am a pushover because I am so quiet. Sometimes I feel like a dumping ground for people's issues. Does anyone else feel this way?

2006-11-29 09:15:49 · 3 answers · asked by R_H_P 2 in Singles & Dating

Stupid issues with my best friend :( (he's a guy by the way). I like him which sucks for me 'cuz we've been best friends for around 5 years now (which means I've known him since he was 9). Problem is, he is completely spilt personalitized. He can honestly be the most insensitive jerk in the world one day, and a sweetie the next. When hes insensitive i absolutely hate him. But, when he's nice, i can't NOT like him. It's a horrible thing. Also another problem is that I know he doesn't like me. I KNOW guys look at girls in a different manner then girls look at guys. So what I basically need help in is how I'm going to get over him :( the usage of "there are plenty of other guys out there" isn't going to work cuz our school has he ugliest bunch of guys i've ever seen (no offence :()

2006-11-29 09:15:35 · 3 answers · asked by Janeyy 3 in Friends

A man meets a gorgeous woman in a bar. They talk, they connect, they end up leaving together.

They get back to her place, and as she shows him around her apartment, he notices that her bedroom is completely packed with teddy bears.

Hundreds of small bears on a shelf all the way along the floor, medium sized ones on a shelf a little higher and huge bears on the top shelf along the wall.

The man is kind of surprised that this woman would have a collection of teddy bears, especially one that's so extensive, but he decides not to mention this to her.

After a night of passion, as they are lying together in the after glow the man rolls over and asks, smiling, "Well, how was it?"

The woman says, "You can have any prize from the BOTTOM shelf."

2006-11-29 09:14:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont have a real situation about that but next year im going to a big school and if a nerd or somebody im not really into asked me out then I want to know what to say.

2006-11-29 09:14:28 · 13 answers · asked by LilMissH 1 in Singles & Dating

single, 42 at puppy_heart2002@yahoo.com look me up pretty girls.

2006-11-29 09:14:21 · 4 answers · asked by puppy_heart2002 1 in Singles & Dating

I had enough to live on my own and dreaming about my loving partner in London. What can I do to find my lady? Where are you?

2006-11-29 09:14:09 · 7 answers · asked by Vig 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, Guys and Girls...Is it Possible to Be So Kind, Beautiful, Honest, Never Cheat, and Giving and Still be Alone without a BF???

2006-11-29 09:13:56 · 21 answers · asked by kittysweetie19 2 in Singles & Dating

Just heard it somewhere, that's all.

2006-11-29 09:13:45 · 27 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

Can anyone tell me who EXACTLY traditionally comes to the rehearsal dinner? Is it just the bridal party and their families, or is it the bride & groom's families only, or is it a combination of both? I want to start planning this as early as possible so that when the time comes, all I have to do is reserve, pay and have a good time? Thanks so much for those who can clear this up for me!!

2006-11-29 09:11:50 · 22 answers · asked by dct1218 4 in Weddings

Closing costs are about $6,000. I was in the military and I have a VA loan i can use that will significantly lower the closing costs. Currently we are using a conventional home loan.

My fiance would like to have a traditional church wedding, So my question is:

Can we go the the Justice of the Peace and be legally married and then 6 months later be married at the church?

Thanks!!

2006-11-29 09:11:45 · 19 answers · asked by dannySATX 2 in Weddings

I'm 13, my mom is really wonderful but too worried about modesty. I have nice clothes, I always look cute, but I have some friends my age who are allowed to show a bit more of their bodies. One of mom's law is I alwyas have to wear a bra even when it's hot and in Australia its hot. She's inflexible about this, and my bras must give proper coverage and no see through, because she thinks support is important and doesn't want me to be decently dressed. Bras ometimes suck. Sometimes I complain, tell her some of my friends mom's are less strict about their bras but mom just say something like Maybe hun, Im' your mom, love you, worry about you and that's how it's gonna be at least while you're under my roof. I know it's out of love, I don't fight, don't disobey and of course I won't leave home because of this, but isn't she too strict?

2006-11-29 09:11:06 · 15 answers · asked by Sonia 1 in Family

I know this from friends.

2006-11-29 09:11:00 · 8 answers · asked by chickie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 09:10:54 · 9 answers · asked by Betzy S 1 in Friends

my guy friend knows that i like him and we havent hugged in awhile should i hug him or what?

2006-11-29 09:10:11 · 5 answers · asked by salemwitch2002 1 in Friends

My x pulls up in front of my house honks for our daughter to run out to the minivan. If I step out on the porch i get my picture taken and just lately she was videotaping me?? I had to call the police the last exchange because she had someone watching the exchange from across the street in the dark. Should I be concerned?? The police said it is a public street and they couldn't so anything. My daughter cries on the way to the van...Any suggestions??? Dad just wanting to see his daughter without exwife interferrring

2006-11-29 09:09:50 · 13 answers · asked by dad f needs help 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-29 09:08:54 · 9 answers · asked by chickie 2 in Family

okay, i obviously know that you can, but does it make it awkward? I know that guys probably LIKE when a girl is shorter, but what about when a girl is taller? Girls, does it make you uncomfortable? Guys, does it make you uncomfortable?

2006-11-29 09:08:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend's (the one who lied to me) ex boyfriend was talking to someone and that someone told me that she lied to me about something else now but i'm not soppossed to know about it. It has really been upsetting me because she told me she would never lie to me again and she has been ditchiing me to hang out with her ex boyfriend and tells me that she cant hang out with me cuz shes grounded. since im not allowed to talk to her about her lying again cuz her ex will get mad at me, i dont know what to do. i have lost all my trust in her and shes soppossed to be my BEST friend. i dont know if i want to be feiends with a fake personality and a liar.

2006-11-29 09:07:15 · 14 answers · asked by Jackie R 1 in Friends

To make a long story short, ive failed quit a few tests this school year. I really study hard for them & still cant seem to pass them. Ive always made good grades in school, but this year is different. Nothing seems to be going right in my life right now.
Today when i called my mom to tell her i was on my way home from school, the first thing she asked was if i passed my two tests, and i told her i didnt, and she hung up on me, so i called her back and asked her why she did, and she told me i was not trying hard enough in school, not to call her back again.
I feel like all my parents care about is me making good grades, I know they want the best 4 me & good grades are important, but i feel sooo pressured it isnt even funny, Ive consider suicide ALOT lately.They are driving me insane.They make me feel dumb and worthless. They never encourage me.I havnt been eating, and ive been cutting my self lately.Dont get me wrong, I love my parents.We never used to argue.......=[

2006-11-29 09:06:51 · 7 answers · asked by <3 2 in Family

say you are at the grocery store, the gym, at the park. ususally we approace people in the bars or coffee shops. do you like the element of being caught off guard

2006-11-29 09:06:32 · 9 answers · asked by goldenfour7 2 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know where I can find/buy designer discount wedding dresses?

2006-11-29 09:06:26 · 16 answers · asked by AbbsLvngstn 1 in Weddings

before he met me, my boyfriend was suicidal and into drugs, i'm kind of like his support system and i'm really all he has. although i do love him a lot, i really want to go away to school. i don't think it would be smart to let him hold me back from going to my dream school. i'm afriad that i'll be letting him down by leaving him and don't want him getting back into those bad habits. i don't want him to think im going away because i don't wanna be with him or anything..what should i do?

2006-11-29 09:06:07 · 7 answers · asked by MissingLI21 2 in Singles & Dating

I have 3 sons. there ages are 14 and 12. my 14 year old son can always find a way to make me and my husband mad. it either with grades. or him not getting his way. but we have punished him, but nothing seems to help. My two other sons are both 12. one of them can never be totally honest. he lies about things. the other twin is honest, but he covers for my 14 year old. And he helps lie for both of them. he dosnt really lie. but he dosnt really tell you what your asking. help!

2006-11-29 09:05:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend really wants me to come, but I just found out this other girl is going to be there...she is so evil...I mean evil has a new name and its her name...I just know I won't have a good time if she's there...she is just pure evil...so should I still go to my friend's birthday party?

2006-11-29 09:05:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do be a good kisser ? Like I'm wondering how ppl are good kissers. Can u please tell me ? Thankyou for those who do. I'm in Middle School and I'm really confused !

2006-11-29 09:05:14 · 4 answers · asked by Victoria 3 in Singles & Dating

my girl has caught me tryin to holla at other females "TWICE" once on the internet and .. and just this past weekend finding out that i had told a female friend of mine (that even though i had a girl i couldn't stop thinkin about her ) her response was that she thought it was really sweet. and still said that she wanted to hang out STILL!!!!

so my girl finds out that i'm hiding that girls ph# under a dudes name . and finds out that i was sending her text messages,
my Girl calls the girl and lies and says that she's talked to 5 other girls that i was tryin to hook up with.
when i asked the other girl if she was still cool w/ me and if everything was still copacetic the other Girl Said "yeah"
I figured i'm gonna try to lay off the other female until my girl stops trippn becuase everyday that goes by my girl is constantly askin me if i have been talkin to the ohter girl.. I know that she's got her ph#. but I'm gonna lay low for a lil while......

2006-11-29 09:04:45 · 21 answers · asked by Adam C 1 in Singles & Dating

And how much older are you? Does the age difference bother either one of you? I'm 13 years older than my bf he's 28 and I'm 41. It bother's me WAY more than it bother him.

2006-11-29 09:04:29 · 7 answers · asked by to_sassy4_u 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm a first year teacher and a single parent who does not recieve child support. I just bought my first house (nice and inexpensive) but it seems as though I live paycheck to paycheck. I need some ideas about getting extra money! I have 4 year old to buy Christmas presents for. Any one have any ideas??

2006-11-29 09:03:57 · 16 answers · asked by kj 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I always see this girl in the hallways (shes really cute) and we always look at each other. Does she like me? What should I do?

2006-11-29 09:03:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

guys use to ask grls out even if the girl likes a guy she would give him a hint he would get it
now guys dony have the guts or
are dum
no offence

2006-11-29 09:03:28 · 8 answers · asked by Angad 4 in Singles & Dating