my girl has caught me tryin to holla at other females "TWICE" once on the internet and .. and just this past weekend finding out that i had told a female friend of mine (that even though i had a girl i couldn't stop thinkin about her ) her response was that she thought it was really sweet. and still said that she wanted to hang out STILL!!!!
so my girl finds out that i'm hiding that girls ph# under a dudes name . and finds out that i was sending her text messages,
my Girl calls the girl and lies and says that she's talked to 5 other girls that i was tryin to hook up with.
when i asked the other girl if she was still cool w/ me and if everything was still copacetic the other Girl Said "yeah"
I figured i'm gonna try to lay off the other female until my girl stops trippn becuase everyday that goes by my girl is constantly askin me if i have been talkin to the ohter girl.. I know that she's got her ph#. but I'm gonna lay low for a lil while......
2006-11-29 09:04:45 · 21 answers · asked by Adam C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you should just be a man and do the right thing and tell her you dont want a serious relationship with her at the moment. and then if she still wants to be with you just tell her straight up that our gonna go see other women and if thats not what she want then she should break up with you..Dude she don't lead her on like that...oh by the way i think if the other girl still wants to talk to after your girl called her then trust me they have already talked up a scam on you so be aware.. unless the other gril is just a hoe.......either way it goes with you and the other girl she gonna play you because if she is willing to mess with some one who has a gril than all odds she has a dude ar she messing with other guys so yea..........:)
2006-11-29 09:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by AnjelBaby:(- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your girlfriend that you guys need to take a break and that you still love her (or really like her, whatever the case may be) but you need some space and the incident with the internet taught you that. You think that you guys will be able to get back together but you want to be able to date some more. It might be the end of your relationship for good so be ready for that. You don't want to be a cheater, so you should break off the relationship before it gets that far.
2006-11-29 09:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with them both. Once you lose someones trust, it is very hard to get it back. If things were meant to be they will be, but in the meantime you don't have to worry about covering up a lie with another lie. Even if it is a lie of omission.
2006-11-29 09:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by John A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop playing her.
You are going to end up alone, and will have no serious relationships ever if you don't quit it.
One day you are going to meet a girl that you love, and she is going to play you... you are then going to realize how foolish you were for playing all of these girls all of these years, when you get dumped.
2006-11-29 09:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready for a commitment let her no, don't play with her feelings. Let her know how youa re feeling and that you are not ready for such thing, and let her decide what she wants, if she wants to hang around or find someone who is actually looking for commitment, if you play her someone is going to play you. (it is call karma)
2006-11-29 09:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by brazilian women 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to cut the relationship off. Tell her you want to see other people. That should be it. Of course if she is a psycho stalker... all bets are off.
2006-11-29 09:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by troythom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not b treating your girl lik that. You're an idiot. Shame on you! If you dont want her, end it. Or stop playing around.
2006-11-29 09:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by Shivanie R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing is to be honest. Just tell her you want to see other people. Keep it short and sweet.
2006-11-29 09:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by Jules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her talk to her let her know how you feel about see other people and say that you are in a relationship or any thing
2006-11-29 09:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by erin s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont play games if u dont want this girl let her go
2006-11-29 09:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋