Ladies hi there I need help with something please!. This Saturday coming up I am going to be set up with a girl at a friendly barbique. I have met this girl before she works for one of my clients and is very attractive to me. I don't know if she knows that this is a set up. I also know that she broke up with her boy friend a week after I broke up with ny girlfriend. I am going to the barbique alone and so is she. How should I act around her? We have both come out of seriouse relationships so it will be nice to be with someone again. What should I do? It has been a while since I have hit on someone or asked someone out from scratch again. If I do this right it could be a wonderful future for us both I really don't want to lose trhis girl over stupidity or lack of set up ethics, so to speek. How should I handle this situation???? help me please, the balance is in your hands!. Serious answers only please!
Thank you George
2006-11-29 09:22:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you have talked before. She probably will enjoy running into you at the bbq whether she knows you will be there or not. Talk to her. Keep it light for now. Don't come on too strong. Be a gentleman. After you talked to her for a little while tell her you are enjoying her company and ask her if she would like to go for coffee or dinner sometime.
2006-11-29 09:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
George, You should just be yourself around this girl especially if you are attracted to her. Remember that first impressions are lasting ones and even though you have seen her before if she was in a relationship at the time, this will be her real first impression of you. She will be seeing you for the first time as a potential boyfriend so be cool. I would do nothing more then to just strike up a conversation with her and let everything run its course. You can't make anything happen if it is not meant to be. Have fun and you must let us know how it goes!
2006-11-29 17:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a serious like face but when she says something SMILE. It makes the girl think she's cheering you up. If you act too flirty then she might think you want just anyone but make her feel special and make her feel special because SHE is the only one that can tallk to you about stuff... like let's say... relationships!
2006-11-29 17:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go slow and don,t make an *** out of your self ask her if she might want to meet for coffee or dinner don,t lie or try to make your self sound like your the best thing or the worst thing on earth
2006-11-29 17:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by cindybells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well george, you should be yourself. Don't come on strong. find out what interests her. if you hit it off in conversation, ask her out on a fun date. you have to start a relationship lightly. flattery is always welcome. just don't come off as a stalker. most importantly, have a girl friend help you pick out something to wear.
2006-11-29 17:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by beccaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋