Is anyone else dealing with a broken heart right now?

Question

I just broke up with my boyfriend today and it was a horrible situation...and i'm heartbroken. I just wanted to know if anyone else is out there feeling the same pain....

If you are, how are you feeling.

Answer 1

This is a hard situation on all accounts, and I know how you feel, because I was the one that initiated the divorce.
You are feeling like a failure that you gave up because you took the initiative in the breakup.
You feel stupid because you did not want to face the cause of the breakup until it happened, and you feel you have lost time.
You feel the hurt, because of the emotional investment that has been lost.

But, know this. You know it was a horrible situation. If there was ever a doubt in your mind regarding anything, you did the brave thing and took the initiative. The pain is bad, yes, but remember, every rose has thorn, every joy of birth has it's pain of labor, every day off earned at work is sweat on your brown.

This, too, shall pass, but in the meantime, play the radio, crank it loud, and rent the goofiest guy-bashing movie you can find.

Good luck!

Answer 2

i think very broken hearted. i've got been married 4 months, and that i anticipated a minimum of the 1st few months of marraige could be all lovey dovey, sickeningly candy, satisfied...etc. I knew we could have issues, yet i assume I predicted some form of "honeymoon era" previously issues have been given tough. fairly, have been the two unhappy all the time and combating all the time over no longer something. we will not communicate approximately something anymore, and we definately can no longer make certain something the way we used to.... Whoa.... sorry. wager i desired to get that out. Yea, i've got been feeling slightly broken hearted.

Answer 3

Yes!I dont know your situation so i cant say i know exactly what your going through, but I broke up with my boyfriend of ten years almost 9 months ago & im still depressed over it.It has gotten a little better as time goes on & im sure one day i wont feel as hurt but it still sucks.

Answer 4

I just seperated from my wife after being with her for 4 years. We are just a couple that don't get along. It was wierd because as we both knew that we neede4d to be apart, we both felt heartbroken because we were still so close. So, we decided to stay friends and still move on with our lives. I still miss being with someone, but have to get my life on track and am working on that now. It will get better soon.

Answer 5

Yep. sort of, I got divorced three years ago, worst pain I've ever experienced, but I 'm doing better today, still a bit scared up. Point is, yea it hurts, but you live, and the sun will shine again.

Hang in there.

Answer 6

So sorry to hear that you're feeling so low. I don't know what exactly you're feeling, but I know what heartache is and it comes in a variety of forms. I hope you get through it so you can enjoy your life again.

Answer 7

yes but im different because the pain im feeling is not for the same thing. But youll get over it, youll move on.

Answer 8

yes, i am feeling the same pain, but worse. he wasn't my boyfriend yet, and i told him that i loved him and he told me that he loved me, then he asked someone else out. he still tells me that i am the prettiest girl in our school and we talk almost everyday for two hours.so to answer your question i am feeling almost the same thing

Answer 9

ya me too, but i am a boy and my gf broke my heat since last past year in october . i am from India . i am in a sorrow mood b,coz she is not only my gf she is my life my everything . and when my life come to end my love for her will live till resoruction .

Answer 10

Nope, but you'll live. Plenty of other guys out there.