my wife stole from my mother's and sister's house how do i get a divorce?

Question

We were married for 15 days when I left India. After 3 months I called my wife abroad. While she stayed in India she lived with my mother. When she came here she started stealing small things from my uncle's house (we stay close to each other) and I caught her doing so. Then after 3 months I found out that she had stolen large amounts from my mother's and sister's house in India too. She tried to commit suicide when I scolded her once. I even got to know that she had some relationship with guys while she stayed in India after marriage. Now I have sent her back to India and am seeking divorce. The girl refuses to give me divorce. How do I get one? Can I claim damages too? Altough i won't accept it but just to make my case strong. thanks

Answer 1

If you are American, get a lawyer. you will have a hard time but after a couple years of sending her papers, you will get it.

Answer 2

See a lawyer.

You said, "I even got to know that she had some relationship with guys while she stayed in India after marriage". If she saw some friend, then it is not a crime but, if she have sexual affair then, it is an adultery.

It is a strong grounds for divorce unless she also has a sickness call nymphomania, then she need to see the doctor for two psychological sicknesses.

In case of adultery, it is your health, that is at stake also so go see a doctor yourself, and have few test done, STD, and HIV,

Stealing in her case may be a sickness call, kleptomania. You must not go thru divorce for that, she need to see a doctor, even if you divorce her.

You should have done everything here, but now she is in India so, you need to find out where to file for divorce, if you were married in India, it will be easy to file there, you need advice from two lawyers,Indian and where you are if not in India.

Answer 3

Think again. This girl seems too immature and a kleptomaniac. Perhaps, you can try curing her first and taking her to a psychiatrist before going in for a divorce. Did she offer any explanations for her actions or tries you to stop from making such a decision? Three months is a small time to decide on breaking such a relationship. I will suggest you to seek help, talk to her and her family, perhaps try to cure her, before taking such a drastic step as divorce. Trying to commit suicide can be a form of emotional blackmailing or just because she couldn't take it that you will divorce her, which is still a big taboo in India. Keep her with you and try to bring her to the right path first. It will be difficult to prove the damages and stealings she has done but you can always contact an attorney.

Answer 4

The best advice anyone could give you is to call a lawyer. Most attorney's will give free consultation over the phone or in person. If you are serious about a divorce. Call around and make some appointments. Take a day or a couple of hours off of work and go see what they have to say.

Answer 5

seems like you stole her heart first! Now she is recovering the losses by stealing small stuff from your family. Maybe there is a psychological reasons behind her bad habit of stealing. I guess you can ask for a divorce for any reason including stealing but it won't be easy to prove in the court unless you have verifiable proofs of her activities. Other thing, you don't ask for a divorce- you go to the court and file for one. Once the papers are served, she will have to respond. And if she fails then you maybe granted the divorce even without her consent.

Answer 6

It's seems like she may have some problems that need to be addressed try some compassion and forgiveness.
You should have never left her alone in India.

Answer 7

1st have some strong evidence to prove her wrong. with the proof, you can do something constructively. get some people's support too.

Before doing anything, see that ur hands are clean.

Answer 8

first yor family give complaint to policestation against her theft and register a case. after it you will easy to divorse