when do you know its true love?
i have butterflies thinking about him and so does he about me and also we want to have tons of sex together
is it just sexual or love?
he says he loves me and wants to marry me
2006-11-29 09:29:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i thought i better add weve been friends for 5 years and wanted each other the whole time but im married already to someone i think maybe the wrong guy!?
2006-11-29 09:36:17 · update #1
It's never very helpful, but my mum always used to say that when it's love you just know.
And the irritating thing is that she was right!
2006-11-29 10:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by Fifi L'amour 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it's a new relationship and you both feel like this, it's just sexual attraction and a feeling of warmness that someone you like actually likes you too...... It feels like love because its all exciting......but be careful.......people are human and can change their feelings.....Guys can say stuff just to get sex from you too. Get to know him a lot before you believe what you hear.
However, If you both still feel this way when you look at each other AFTER 1 year, then it can blossom into real love if you have enough in common to the point where you hardly have any arguments...Real love is when you like the same stuff and doing things together - but can easily give the other space and independence to enjoy their own hobbies and friends without jealousy.
2006-11-29 09:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by Aussie Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can tell because you keep lokking at her/him and talk kind things and feel bad when someone makes a joke about them. No sex is not the way to keep a relationship going talk it over! I am just 14 and I am talking this! You should figure it out for yourself!
2006-12-03 02:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm...depends on how long have u two been together. If its ages and the sex is good, its probably love.
If it has only been a few weeks, then its probably just sexual.
Trust your instinct on this 1 (since u should be the person who decide your future)
2006-11-29 09:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by perfectly_messy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea Yea! I know, & he wants to have your Babies.
You're married, you say, to a Guy that you THINK may be the wrong one, I know something your Husband doesn't yet know. He's married to someone that IS the wrong one....
By the way sweetie...it's lust, good old fashoined lead by the dick LUST no more, no less.
2006-11-29 15:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no real words to say how you know but you just do. You just get a feeling that you can't be away from him and if you are your mind is still thinking of him. It's looking good from your description so good luck and have a good life together.
2006-11-29 09:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends how long you've been together. Everyone gets that in the early stages even if it turns out you don't love each other. Give it time.
2006-11-29 09:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he married ? Have you had strong feelings for each other for the previous 5 years? Hope you have no children yettt it will make your decision soo much easier. Something will happen which will make your mind up for you.
Good Luck xxx
2006-11-29 13:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by bubbles1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SOunds like sex to me... give it a few more months and see what's left when the constant sexing dies down!
2006-11-29 09:33:40 · answer #9 · answered by Mango M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't have sex for a couple months, to see how upset he gets and to see if he really loves you like he says he does.That will tell everything then
2006-11-29 09:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋