Hello ladies. So I really like this girl, we'v already go out on a date(it was good, but it seems that she is avoiding me at uni. Yesterday she had passed behind me an she didnt talked to me (she thinks that i didnt see her). So my problem is that in time to time I catch her looking at me. I cant understand if she is shy or if she doesn't like me and want to keep some distance. Lately she is avoiding me. Help m plz ***
2006-11-29 09:41:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did you call her back after the date to ask her out again? Need more info here.
2006-11-29 09:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that she is also shy and waiting for you to "follow up" with her. Perhaps she thinks you've lost interest or something. Run over the events of the date in your mind ... ie., How did the date end? How did you leave off? Is there something particular that may have happened that would make you think you turned her off? What was the general chemistry like if you feel you had it?
Ask yourself these questions, but don't obsess. If you come up empty, it may just be that for whatever reason she's not interested. And, if that's the case, it's certainly not worth stressing over. You will meet someone else you'll click with more.
Try following up with her (a phone call, an email, or just by approaching her), and if you don't get receive a positive response, it's time to move on.
Good luck!
2006-11-29 17:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Human Rights Activist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure she is seeing you? i know for a fact that sometimes I see people and I think "why didn't they say hi?" when in all reality, they totally walked by me and didn't even see me. I think I do the same thing sometimes. At least try calling her or something. If she is truly avoiding you, she prob won't answer your call or she will give u some lame excuse as to why she is busy and can't go out again. so if you call and she doesn't answer and u leave a message and she never calls back, then i would say back off for a while. but like the other people, you have nothing to lose by trying to talk to her again. Then you just have to wait and see what happens
2006-11-29 17:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say. She may like you , but the only way to find out is to ask her out again. You're right she may just be shy and wants you to make the next move.
On the other hand however, just because she went out with you once doesn't mean she likes you. Sometimes people agree to go out with someone even if they don't like them or are only interested in them a little bit.
I suggest that you keep at it. Something might develop, but it can't if you are too afraid to talk to her again. Good luck.
2006-11-29 17:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by jay-z8900 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you feel that she is avoiding you then she probably is. And maybe the date did go well for the most part but maybe there was something that turned her off. The only way to know for sure is to talk to her. If you still feel that she is avoiding you after that, then it's probably best to move on. There is always someone better waiting for you around the corner.
2006-11-29 17:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by belleebuttons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you thought the date went well and she didnt? Women are good at faking until you leave the scene.
If you really want to know whats going on, ask her if something is bothering her. If nothing is, ask if she would like to go out again. If she makes an excuse or says no, than I would stop trying. She is done.
2006-11-29 17:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not sure. It could be that she is thinking the same thing about you. She may think you are avoiding her. Surprise her one day and take her to lunch or come up behind her and slowly place a rose in front of her. It would make her feel special.!
Good Luck
2006-11-29 17:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by lucynlynsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of action, sorry to break it to you, could mean she isn't interested and she wants to break it at the right moment.. she's probably looking at you to see if you're alone, or really happy.. if you're really happy she probably won't do it then because she feels bad.
The thing is this kind of action could also mean she is waiting for you to approach her, and she's looking at you hoping you'd go and talk to her.
See all women are different, they think different, they act different, they are simply different, and to find out what she's doing, the only real advice I can give you is go and talk to her, you'll never know the truth until you do.
2006-11-29 17:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say what you did on your date...could she be embarrassed? If she is giving you looks...she likes you. Did you call her the next day or two? Or did you leave her hanging. She cannot read your mind, maybe she doesn't know you really like her. Call her up, ask her out again, see what she does. It can't hurt.
2006-11-29 17:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by Becky F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her was there any problems with the date..and if you did something wrong ?because she looks like she has been avoiding you since you two was last together and see what she says after that...
2006-11-29 17:44:36 · answer #10 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋