the day before thanksgiving my bf decided to break up with me.he said it was because he had doubt about a lot of things.he's a freshman in college and i'm a senior in high school. So after he used this "reason" i didn't believe him because i figured that he just wants to play around while he's there and i told him that i didn't want to see him again. later, he told some mutual friends of ours that he didn't trust me but he wanted to talk to me.they also said that they asked how i was doing because he wanted to know. he's even tried to contact me through facebook and even one of his friends, who had a part in the break up tried to request me as a friend through the site. i happily declined. for me, it seems like he wants to be friends to make himself feel better about everything. when we broke up he hinted at getting together again in the future. i told him that i never want to speak to him again. lately, i've wanted to contact but i don't want to be the one who caves. Advice?
2006-11-29 09:39:36 · 10 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for the advice so far. it's just been so stressful because he's telling people that i'm not a truthful person. it's like he's using stuff i did in the past to cover up his mistakes.
2006-11-29 09:51:19 · update #1
Girl, please. Trust me don't even waste your time. Don't call him. I repeat DO NOT CALL HIM. You will appear desperate. Actually you are too young to even be stressing about the situation. You have your whole life to live. Men come and go. Trust me he will want you back. You're headed for college and there are plenty of guys there.
Good luck
2006-11-29 09:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Heaven26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG...I am going through the same thing as you. I have been going through a break-up since September and he won't leave me alone and let me move on. He wants the milk, but not the cow type situation. Unfortunately he's 36 and still not grown up. It's been incredibly hard to forget him and move on, but I'm trying. If you know in your heart it's not going to work, then it's best to move on.
2006-12-01 16:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by belladonna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, sounds like he's playing games. He's in college, he wants to be free. Been there before. My Ex was in college and I wasn't..... notice I said ex. He wants you as back up. If he dont find something there in college he got you as back up when he needs something. Don't be weak, there are plenty of men out there to focus on one that left you in the first place
2006-11-29 17:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by Manita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over means over. Enjoy your final year of high school without the drama of this boy and his friends and facebook and his hinting and bla bla bla.
2006-11-29 17:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about that dude. he is obviously an immature little d i c k weed. You should find someone you can be happy with from the beginning. Start fresh.
2006-11-29 17:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok do this dont think about him. just hang with ur friends and wen u go buy him with ur friends tell them to play along.them start laffing.he might cave first.
2006-11-29 17:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by pawlicki_tsp96 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too, if your happy with a half hearted realtionship then fine, if you want all or nothing then you should leave him alone.
2006-11-29 17:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by nyc88m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't cave in... be yourself and enjoy your senior year!
get out there and hang out with the crowd.
you can't go back to high school.....
good luck.
2006-11-29 17:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by raecliff95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't trust or believe in any one ex pt your self
2006-11-29 18:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by hashem a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if you don't want to talk to him don't he should repect that and if he doesn't oh well
2006-11-29 17:42:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jarvis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋