Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

Dating my bf for 3 months and he told me he loves me.He takes me out,calls me, listens, is generous, has an ok personality and we get along-he doesn't like to argue.He accepts me for who I am-Doesnt care if I dont shave. My Problems: He's not much taller than me, could benefit from an orthodontist and some stomach pastic surg. for the extra skin (he lost a lot of weight).The sex it OK& im sure it can get better.I have a grad degree while he has a HS diploma.Everytime he opens his mouth, despite his general attractiveness I don't like to look at his teeth, they're distracting. He can be scattered brained and not make the best decisions. He allows himself to get taken advantage of by his family and roommates.I'm attractive and get hit on often and I have a 'friend' I'm physically attracted to him (and he has a degree which is a big +) more than my nice bf.Should I pursue my "friendship" and keep him as a 'friend'/potential bf? I dont want to hurt my bf. My 'friend' wants to hang out w/me

2006-11-29 12:46:03 · 5 answers · asked by Violet Wisdom 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 12:45:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this kid at my high school (we're in 10th grade) who i've known since 9th grade but never talked to. recently i sat at his table in lunch because i have 2 friends who happened to be sitting there b/c they know him. randomly, he turns around and asks me, (note, these words are the first words he's ever said to me in his life) "do you think five inches is small?" one of my friends saved me by answering fo me, but it still was rele weird... he's the popular kind of kid, he knows almost all the "popular girly-girls" so why, out of all the girls would he ask me? (i'm a shy girl) since then (happened around 2 weeks ago) he's been staring at me. and i mean CLOSELY staring. i actually dont notice it. my friends do. a friend would say, "i think he's staring at you" and when i'd look, he'd look away. i notice it more and more from the corner of my eye and it's starting to creep me out!
what does this mean, and why is he doing this???
*sorry that this is so long*

2006-11-29 12:45:16 · 26 answers · asked by LavenderLover 3 in Singles & Dating

She works at a coffeehouse, has given me her phone number, and has said she wants to do something...but we're both really busy. I just don't want to put too much effort into her if she is going to blow me off. PS: I'm also mid 20's.

2006-11-29 12:45:13 · 8 answers · asked by superkiddo7 1 in Singles & Dating

IN GENERAL but not always!
I've spoken to many of my pretty girl friends from all different ethnicities and we've come to the same conclusion. The guys from our respective ethnicities tend to think we're more obtainable simply because we have a shared culture and are really aggressive (like one 20 yr old guy grabbed my friends boob)...

or they attempt to ignore us and treat us like ****. (another guy rolled his eyes and spoke to everyone but the girl from his ethnicity) It's generally never just a normal interaction. I know, I've heard they probably think we're snobby because of one reason or another and they are trying to take us down a peg. But this can not simply be it. What other reasons for this and what can we do stop this disrespect?

2006-11-29 12:45:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 20 year old male and I just had sex for the first time and it did not feel great. It was kind of boring, I enjoyed the foreplay and everything but when we started having sex it was not enough pleasure to make me orgasm. Is this normal or what should I do?

2006-11-29 12:45:01 · 9 answers · asked by barker67860 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 12:44:34 · 12 answers · asked by gjfdgoperjgoljerojgoirejj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would u give a boy u like a note telling him how u felt about him????

2006-11-29 12:44:23 · 5 answers · asked by Grumpy chic 1 in Singles & Dating

He's a senior (in high school) and I'm a junior, and we met in March of this year. Since, we have fooled around twice... I haven't seen him since the summer until yesterday, and he now goes to my school. Please help me flirt without being too obvious or seem desperate. :-)

2006-11-29 12:44:08 · 6 answers · asked by rainbow rider 2 in Singles & Dating

im going through a phase where im spending too much time by myself and i need a laugh.
share a story?

2006-11-29 12:43:15 · 3 answers · asked by nαrcíssα [misses being a TC] 6 in Singles & Dating

Just the other day I heard him talking to his friends saying "should I ask her out? I know her so well and I think she is such a great person." so since I had been getting close to him and chatting it up I thought he was talking about me so I walked by as sexy as I could, turned my head, looked at him, giggled, turned back around and kept walking. So the next day I dressed up the best I could, put my best shoes on and when I got to school he walked up to me and said, "Hey, Melissa, Could you tell me where Stephanie is? I have something important to ask her." so I said she should be walking to room 606 and he left. Then at lunch I went and told Stephanie that I thought he would ask me out but all she said was, "What are you talking about? He already asked me out!" So I went home and cried and now I don't know what to do because Steph and Alex are mad at me. Please help!!

2006-11-29 12:42:59 · 15 answers · asked by lkassica 2 in Singles & Dating

I told this 17 year old girl I was doing that I loved her in the heat of the moment. She would smoke my weed and then get into sex. Now she got herself pregnant, probably wanting to believe I was into her.

How do I avoid child support? Can I move and just work a cash job under the table? I'm 42, I can't pay out for the next 20 years. I offered to give her abortion money, she said no. So in my mind I owe nothing. It is her "choice." Let her pay. She is hot, but will probably gain weight after having a kid, and may try and get herself pregnant again, so I don't want her around. Plus she doesn't give B.J.'s.

Is there a site to help me skip on this whole support B.S.?

2006-11-29 12:42:12 · 26 answers · asked by Benito M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have very strong feelings for my friend *Susie, and since she just broke up with her boyfriend, she is available. She said that she wants to be single for a while, and I respect that. But once she wants to another shoulder to cry on, I'm afraid that I'll miss my chance with her. What should I do?


Also, my OTHER friend *Kat basically HATES Susie, and doesn't want me to be friends with her because she says that Susie has hurt me previously when I tried to get into a relationship with her. I have moved past it, but Kat hasn't and says that she never will. I am afraid that if I try and get into a relationship with Susie, then Kat would disown me. What should I do?



*see my previously asked questions

2006-11-29 12:41:54 · 12 answers · asked by Jake 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i like this boy whose in my grade, last year we were really close we talked like everyday...now i hardly talk to him, the only attencion i have gotten from him in like a week is becuase i sprained my ankel on monday..so i was on crutches. he felt bad for me =/..i have the biggest crush on him...i have liked this kid since like june..now that i am in highschool there are alot of other pretty girls...and he likes this one girl( who is one of my best friends) so what should i do? its hard to just forget about him.how can i get close to him again?

2006-11-29 12:41:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What circumstances would be acceptable for this type of behavior. He's enroute to the US and is in the navy. The last time I checked, I recieved an email from him on yesterday so the nipr/sipr can't be down. Ummm, the phone call maybe I just want some type of reassurance from him that he remembers my birthday. I don't think he made a mental note like I have with everything we do. Ladies, help me out, what will you do??? I'm looking for excuses to say well maybe I will let him slip by with this one, what do you think? I believe if someone loves you no matter how far you guys are apart from each other, if I knew there might be a slim chance that the communication line goes down I would have reminded you that I still remember your birthday and have a happy early birthday wish from me. Well that's how I feel, so what do you think?

2006-11-29 12:41:33 · 4 answers · asked by sunny d 1 in Singles & Dating

So this jerk always randomly comes up to me and bothers me. And by 'bothers' I mean he throws little papers at me and tries to trip me, or says stupid things like 'Hey Blondie' in this obnoxious voice.

How f----ing mature, right...
And I always catch him staring at me. It's extremely annoying.

I've told him flat out how annoying he is and to leave me alone, but he doesn't.

Any advice on what to do next time he bothers me? I'm not someone who would scream or make a scene, so don't suggest that.
And I think that's exactly why he's doing this: to get some kind of reaction. Hahh, what a loser.

K thanks.

2006-11-29 12:40:51 · 25 answers · asked by :] 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 12:40:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My crush asked my bff out to a ski trip.And she invited 2 other friends too!!!!She didn't invite me for some reason.She knows i like this guy.She likes him too.So i actually have 2 problems
HELP!!!

2006-11-29 12:40:00 · 7 answers · asked by s_lopez_2006 3 in Friends

okk so plz help...
i like my best guy friend. i thought he liked me. i told him i liked him. he said thats cool but he just likes me as a really good friend. so i accepted it, and we;re still great friends...but he's always really sweet, and funny, and he gives me hugs all the time and says im the coolest and the best, and every1 says he likes me and that we should go out. whenever sum1 says i like him, he just smiles and nudges me. and when sum1 says he likes me or that we should go out, he just smiles and say whatever. also, on this little quiz, a question was would u ever go out w/ me, he said maybe...that was b4 he knew i liked him...problem is, i know who he likes. one is his other best girl friend. but she doesnt like him. do u think he likes me and doesnt wanna admit it? or does he really just like me as a friend? if so, y does he put his arm around my shoulder all the time and stuff like that? plz tell me ur opinion. thnx alot. :) <3

2006-11-29 12:39:49 · 18 answers · asked by ♥SaRaH♥ 2 in Friends

I've been married to my husband since May of this year. We have been together for about 4 1/2 years. We are both 21 and have 2 kids together. I love him dearly and do everything in my power to make things work. But I recently found out he was lying to me about smoking and taking lortab. He isn't working and is relying on me to make income even though I'm a stay at home mom. (I buy and sell horses on the side). I believe he is still lieing to me because he refuses a drug test.
What should I do? I really want what is best for my children.
And I also found out that he hasn't been depositing my checks fully, he has been keeping some of it.

2006-11-29 12:39:15 · 13 answers · asked by Chantel H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-29 12:38:44 · 4 answers · asked by coolmesillyme 1 in Family

hi everyone,
i am so mad! ok, im a teenager and lately my mom has gotten on my nerves and my friends have gotten on my nerves as well as guys! is this pms, normal teen angst, or an example of a mental problem?

2006-11-29 12:38:35 · 14 answers · asked by Linds 2 in Friends

okay say i have a crush on someone, & he's my friend. but me & him sorta kinda just STOPPED talking all of a sudden. no phonecalls; nothing. is that baddd? or is it good to give him some room & get back to talking to him a few weeks later & just say, "heyy! i haven't talked to you in foreverrr" ha, maybe then we won't run outta things to talk about; since we have so much catching up to do, riiight?

2006-11-29 12:38:28 · 5 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Singles & Dating

I am making an exchange of money with someone that I did a favor for (no, not a sexual favor, they stayed with me for a while.) Is it safe for us to go out to lunch and exchange the money without it looking suspicious, like a drug deal? WHICH IT ISN'T

help

2006-11-29 12:37:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she is like a sister to me..to each other and others we are sisters..shes in florida and i in south carolina...we have know each other for about 3 years..she moved back to florida 2 years ago...we kind of complete each other in a way...

2006-11-29 12:37:30 · 5 answers · asked by chelleleigh07 1 in Friends

My son, who is 21, was in the hospital for an extended period, and a nurse there, who is 43, formed some kind of attraction to him. So when he came home she continued to call him pretty much every day, once at 12:00 a.m. (I quickly put an end to that!), was sending him pictures, and wanted him to come live with her. To me, a woman that age with grown children could only view someone that much younger as a child also. What's the attraction to much younger men? And, should I interfere?

2006-11-29 12:36:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if u love him, will you move over to their country and stay with him?
its need alots of sacrifying and its risky.

2006-11-29 12:36:28 · 4 answers · asked by grace 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean i have a boyfriend but i dont want to golddigg him so what should i do?

2006-11-29 12:35:57 · 6 answers · asked by Monique D 1 in Friends

i just got this new boyfriend that i have liked for ever! but every time i try to talk to him i choke... the words won't come out. I don't want him to break up with me. i've already written him a note and explained why i never talk 2 him.... but i love him soooo much and i don't want to break up. what should i do??

2006-11-29 12:35:44 · 10 answers · asked by trish 1 in Singles & Dating

ive liked him ever since the first day of 7th grade when he walked into first hour and i h avent quit liking him since he would flirt with me all the time then i finally got the courage to ask him if he liked me and he said no i was devistated! and i asked him one more time in the past 2 months and he said no (the first time wasnt really an ask) i see himm all the time in the halls and for some reason i think he like me bu ti know he doesnt i try to like other guys but i always say to myself that he is the ONE for me. i need help DESPERATLY

2006-11-29 12:35:30 · 2 answers · asked by lex 1 in Singles & Dating