Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

i basically fell in love with one of my best friends
i want to ask her out but i also dont want it to affect our friendship
and im sorta scared of her saying no...wut should i do?

2006-11-29 12:07:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My two aunts have been fighting with each other for the last several years. My family is very reserved (inlaws debating over sports teams is considered an argument) and so fighting tends to consist of them not talking, having to arrange different housing for them, etc. My understanding is something happened a few years back, and now they are dredging up old childhood arguments and taking offence to minor things. The rest of the family gets along well (including their husbands) and their fight is hurting the rest of the family, especially my younger cousins. A while ago my grandmother tried to write them a letter encouraging them to patch things up, but it didn't work.

After this Thanksgiving I have been wondering if I should try the same thing. Maybe a plea coming from their niece might work better then one from their mother (I'm 19, so I can handle getting in the middle, if need be). We see each other only a few times a year and it's sad to see them like this.

Any thoughts?

2006-11-29 12:06:55 · 17 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Family

whos is cooler the jar jar binks

2006-11-29 12:06:22 · 5 answers · asked by BigBat 2 in Singles & Dating

well this boy in my 1st period bothers me a lot so does he like me or not?? (because i likehim a lot)

2006-11-29 12:06:17 · 4 answers · asked by Carla Niqqaa 2 in Singles & Dating

Omg, my nipple is badly infected,two days ago, my boyfriend thought that it would be hot for me to get my nipple pierced, So he helped me, He took some ice and numbed the nipple, Then he took a safety pin and jammed it through.Now my nipple has greenish white stuff coming out.I am scared to see a doctor, I hate doctors, what should i do, some girl i know said to put vagisil on it. Should I ?

2006-11-29 12:05:16 · 13 answers · asked by kim 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 12:04:49 · 17 answers · asked by kjhenkel 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 12:04:39 · 8 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy asked if i wanted to be his girlfriend and I said yes. then the next day he broke up with me!!!!!!!!!!! I want REVENGE! any ideas? and he said I look like a monkey when he looks like a mexican that wears the same shoes every day! K well maybe he's not that bad and is cute but he makes me mad!! I will get him back!

2006-11-29 12:04:35 · 12 answers · asked by miss swan 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's watz up. Scooping thru the cell phone bill, don't even ask where's the trust. It's there ,but sometime one get the need to confirm that the other is still playing fair. No one wants to be played the fool. Anyway I notice a call made at 1:04am 3:00mins duration. So I called, and a woman answer she claim to not know who he was. So when he got home I ask him who number that on the bill at 1:04am he had no idea. O:k long short his version I girl at a party he went to gave him her number. And he only called her to let her know he was married. and the call was made at the party.Would u believe?

2006-11-29 12:03:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like an hour and a half ago... at first i was fine with it, but now it has kind of sunken in. im feeling pretty bad, wat should i do?

2006-11-29 12:03:08 · 9 answers · asked by =]] 2 in Singles & Dating

His wife thinks he is an angel and he and i have had sex more than once and even our 20 year old daughter knows . Should i tell her ? She was responsible for our marriage breaking up. I hate her guts and but i don't want him back .

2006-11-29 12:02:16 · 43 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Readers, please be informed that I am from a very conservative place, so getting a girl to go out on a date with you is not as easy as in the western world. Thanks for your time. Read on....

Hello ,

This is , your colleague. How are you doing? First of all, I wish to tell you that I am truly sorry if you feel this email to be an invasion of privacy, and I would like you to accept my sincere apologies. Secondly, I want you to know that I have not resorted to any unfair means to get your personal email address. I found your email address in the official email sent earlier today. If you are comfortable so far, please read on....

I am in since 6th Nov. for a training program. I felt I should talk to you before I came here which is why I asked you if you would like to have coffee with me. I know you prefer milk to coffee, so, perhaps my question should have been, 'Would you like to have a cup of milk with me?'. Just kidding :-)

2006-11-29 12:02:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In what way?

2006-11-29 12:01:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well we were talking together and i was just playing with him saying that i wanted to c his tatto on back but then he was playing ytoo,,, i was laughing n all of a suden he got serious and said my name as if calling a bad child....like a mom telling a child to stop...so i looked and i hate when he calls me like that because i could tell he's mad.i asked him "why are you calling me as if i were a kid" n he sed because i'm immature and he sed he thought i was mature... he told me i'm acting like my cousin(not a good thing) and he was looking at me so mad and all i did was play...i got mad but i dont know....i dont like myself and my self esteem went rock bottom we've been together for 4 months and i dont know what to do...should i change n be serious??...or am i taking this too far??

2006-11-29 12:01:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 12:00:51 · 10 answers · asked by Toadbaboad 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do girls like more than anything else in the world?

2006-11-29 12:00:39 · 3 answers · asked by Cody Baptist 1 in Singles & Dating

i got in a fight and wanna apoligize and getting a song what song should i pick??no old songs please!!and were can i get tha song or what website

2006-11-29 12:00:26 · 7 answers · asked by lalahappygurl 3 in Friends

I'm a Senior in high school (I know I still have a while before I get in the *real* world). I have a disability that was not from an accident. It was congenital (meaning not Genetic.) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spina_bifida#Spina_bifida_occulta . And on a whim I was searching around for peoples opinions on dating people in wheelchairs.
I am extremely active and don't have and "mental side effects" that people who *lose* the ability to walk (opposed to never having it at all) have. As in no self pity. (actually for being in a chair for my whole life it feels "normal" to be in a wheelchair. Just as walking feels normal to able bodied people.

I am concerned with how women immediately assume that men in my position need care taking. I am %100 capable of taking care of my self. Is this an immediate assumption with all women or just misinformed ones?
I guess my real question is how much of a chance do I have now and in the future with women? Would you ever date someone in my position?

2006-11-29 12:00:20 · 13 answers · asked by Chris H 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently took a flight to the annual Jar Jar Binks convention in West Horton, Ohio. I did not want to pack my Jar Jar costume as it is extremely expensive, but it wouldn't fit in a carry on, so I had to wear it. First, the search at the airport was a human rights violation. The airport security was very rude, and made me give up the two blasters I had on, then got mad at me because of my elaborate costume, saying it took so long to search it held up the line. Then when I finally got on the plane, the stewardess said I couldn't wear my Jar Jar mask, and the two people sitting next to me (I was in the middle), grumbled because my costume took up too much space and had stuff sticking out. After takeoff, I got in the aisle, put on my mask, and danced and yelled to entertain the other travelers. The stewardess tried to stop me but I ran screaming down the aisle, and then dove into a bunch of peoples laps. I was restrained for the rest of the flight. Do you think I can sue for harrasement?

2006-11-29 12:00:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I punish myself for arguing with my fiance and making him feel bad all the time. We fight every day and disagree every day, most of the time it's my fault, to make myself get the point and possibly stop being this way... I started to cut myself. I am 18 and miserable while I have alot of things I want. I am also on medication for bipolar. What should I do?? PLEASE HELP ME

2006-11-29 11:59:23 · 15 answers · asked by sogullablegurly 3 in Singles & Dating

Recently, I was confronted with criticisms towards our group.

What hurts the most is that they are talking to me as if I am not part of the group when all the while they keep putting us down--making a list of all that we did wrong.

Honestly, they do have a point and we would, of course, consider everything they said.

The only problem is that they are putting it on a completely personal level--blaming us for everything that had happened all the time and constantly reminding us of our mistakes.

2006-11-29 11:59:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

after you ask a girl out do u just start talkin bout the same stuff u were talkin bout or wut??

2006-11-29 11:58:06 · 16 answers · asked by 123 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife have been married for about a year, been together for about two years. We are both in our early thirties. she recently became a lawyer and now she thinks she is too good for me. She wants me to give up my favorite hobby and says I need to get a job. My hobby is collection Jar Jar Binks collectables and wearing a Jar Jar costume as I walk around town. While walking around, I like to bring joy to people. I go into stores and throw potato chips or other foods around, I dance in front of cars that are stopped at red lights, I knock on random houses doors and do Jar Jar quotes and dances. This takes quite a lot of time, several hours a day. How can I find the time to get a job? But my Jar Jar collectables are very expensive, and my wife gets all upset when I buy them with her money. Then she flipped out like a crazy person when I suggested we use the Jar Jar costume during our lovemaking. I can't live like this. Why can't she just let me live my life? Should I divorce her?

2006-11-29 11:57:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why are u so mean????? u know u dont have do be that way do u beleive in God because if u dont i can understand such behavior but u know u can hurt peoples feelings... i am only 11 and i find ur questiond/anwsers inappropriate and i will report them to yahoo.. srry i dont know what subject to put this under but u deserve it

2006-11-29 11:57:17 · 5 answers · asked by Imperfection At Its Finest. 4 in Friends

I want to buy my husband the best X-mas present ever because he's deployed in iraq and he's all depressed. so i'm gonna get him a full size football helmet from his favorite team, the texas longhorns, so he can wear it around the barracks and play football with it. i've looked around on the internet and i've noticed that some of them are just for decoration. i want to make sure he can actually wear it, so anyone who knows what they're talking about, look at this one on amazon.com and tell me if it's the right one to buy. thank you guys.

http://www.amazon.com/Longhorns-Riddell-Authentic-Football-Helmet/dp/B0000DCKIN/ref=pd_ecc_rvi_1/105-1903151-8320451

2006-11-29 11:57:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

it is something you give someone or get as a gift

2006-11-29 11:56:58 · 10 answers · asked by raymond a 1 in Family

I feel utterly ashamed for being a virgin. I am 33. I feel embarrassed and feel like a total f**ing loser. I don't have any self-esteem because I am ugly and women like attractive men. I feel like I should just kill myself. I don't want to go to a brothel because I am afraid of catching a disease like AIDS.
If you are a woman, would you think I was a total loser?

2006-11-29 11:56:18 · 13 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Singles & Dating

I just received my diploma as a Bridal Consultant and would like to advertise myself with the Churches in my erea so that they can referre me with their couples. However, my first language is in spanish and I can't find the propper way to compose a professional letter to emial the Churches to introduce myself. Can someone help me?

2006-11-29 11:55:34 · 6 answers · asked by TMiranda 2 in Weddings

2006-11-29 11:55:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are some ways of getting over my boyfriend getting him complely off my mind like I never even met him?

2006-11-29 11:54:47 · 5 answers · asked by Live love laugh 2 in Singles & Dating