Me and my wife have been married for about a year, been together for about two years. We are both in our early thirties. she recently became a lawyer and now she thinks she is too good for me. She wants me to give up my favorite hobby and says I need to get a job. My hobby is collection Jar Jar Binks collectables and wearing a Jar Jar costume as I walk around town. While walking around, I like to bring joy to people. I go into stores and throw potato chips or other foods around, I dance in front of cars that are stopped at red lights, I knock on random houses doors and do Jar Jar quotes and dances. This takes quite a lot of time, several hours a day. How can I find the time to get a job? But my Jar Jar collectables are very expensive, and my wife gets all upset when I buy them with her money. Then she flipped out like a crazy person when I suggested we use the Jar Jar costume during our lovemaking. I can't live like this. Why can't she just let me live my life? Should I divorce her?
2006-11-29 11:57:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-29 11:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by richard457 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm jar jar binks.. actually i dont know what it is.. anyway, the ideal thing to say is that your wife must love you for who you are and must always support you. but you're married now, and you two need to compromise. ask her why she wanted you to change. and love making in a costume can be hot but if you're wearing a wholesome and funny costume, it would really be a no-no in bed. with your collectibles, why spend your wife's money.. don't you have your own.. and you mentioned that your collectibles are expensive.. dude, you're married.. it's time for you to prioritize things. that means starting a family and saving for your future kids. just talk to your wife about it and ask her why she wants you to change and straighten out both of your plans. if you love your wife enough, i know that you two will get over this problem you have. :)
2006-11-29 20:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by istin_16 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is pretty unbelievable. I know there ARE people like this out there, but chances are, you're just yanking people's chains. If you're not....Jar Jar is a HOBBY. You don't have to give it up completely, but you are married with responsibilities. Get a job. She DOES let you live your life, but she shouldn't have to support you if you're capable of working. She has a life too, and it should consist of more than working her tail off to keep you happy. What have you done for her lately?
2006-11-29 20:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ya i see whats wrong. u are acting like a kid.grow up put the toys away.and get a job.
having a hobby is ok but it's not ok to go dress up and run around town,acting like a kid.if u wont to do that then get a job where u are alloud to do that for kids to laugh. but what u are doing is funlish.
i would talk to your wife and find out how u can chang and make this relation ship better.so talk to yur wife and see what she asks
~â¥jamieâ¥~
2006-11-29 20:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should divorce ur sorry ***..ur acting like a kid and yea u need a job...jar jar leave that to a teen..ur grown dude be a man....
2006-11-29 20:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by bobby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U got to be kidding me! i mean this is a marrige why are you choosing your obsession over what is important?! like a job and acting responsible and not like a child.
This better be a joke....
2006-11-29 20:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to jar jar your but to the nearest crazy house and take your crazy wife with you, brecause she got to be crazy to put up with your dumb but.
2006-11-29 20:02:37 · answer #7 · answered by Ellen J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what she said is true. why are you going to give up a perfectly good marige for something like that. be a man. grow up or you will be living in the streets
2006-11-29 20:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by Stacey l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All fun and jokes aside ...get a job..get a real job
2006-11-29 20:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I COULD TELL ,THAT YOU LIKE JAR JAR B MORE THEN YOU LIKE YOUR WIFE.
2006-11-29 20:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by melly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her unreasonable and do her like a wookie.
2006-11-29 20:00:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋