Recently, I was confronted with criticisms towards our group.
What hurts the most is that they are talking to me as if I am not part of the group when all the while they keep putting us down--making a list of all that we did wrong.
Honestly, they do have a point and we would, of course, consider everything they said.
The only problem is that they are putting it on a completely personal level--blaming us for everything that had happened all the time and constantly reminding us of our mistakes.
2006-11-29 11:59:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When someone criticized me for something I couldn't even help, I ignored it at first. And then the behavior just became constant and even more bothersome. So, I told him that I really didn't appreciate the way he was acting. Later, he actually called me up one night and sincerely apologized to me. I thought it was considerate of him.
Just let them know that you don't like the way they are treating you. If they don't do anything about it, don't deal with them anymore. You're better off without them.
2006-11-29 12:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your group do? Those who criticize you are they part of the group? With the information you have given, all I can say is that if you judge the criticism you receive to be constructive, then try to correct yourself but on the other hand, if you consider the criticism as unfair and unjust, pack your bags and leave the group.
2006-11-29 20:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by markos m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When being criticized learn to take it on the chin, and instead of seeing it as a negative try to see it as constructive criticism.....pick the sense outta nonsense, and if it is just blantent and spiteful realise it's how the other person really feels about themselves, let it roll off your back like water off a ducks back.
2006-11-29 20:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend!!! You are a Little shy,but it's good,dont be afraid what the others say,dont fight back,playback with same words
2006-11-29 20:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by yp_antonio_toronto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from people like that. they are trying to bring you down to make them look better, they have the problem not you
2006-11-29 20:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by faith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF THEY CANT EXCEPT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE. FIND A GROUP THAT WILL.
2006-11-29 20:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say something like repeating what they are saying to you and say let me understand this you think i'm than say thanks i'll work on that... so they have to hear what a @sshole they sound like........works for me,,
2006-11-29 20:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by glitsyjewels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋