ok i like this boy whose in my grade, last year we were really close we talked like everyday...now i hardly talk to him, the only attencion i have gotten from him in like a week is becuase i sprained my ankel on monday..so i was on crutches. he felt bad for me =/..i have the biggest crush on him...i have liked this kid since like june..now that i am in highschool there are alot of other pretty girls...and he likes this one girl( who is one of my best friends) so what should i do? its hard to just forget about him.how can i get close to him again?
2006-11-29 12:41:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, thats the same problem with me.But I mean exactly the same problem. Don't hang around him too much because he'll know that u like him. So what i would do, just tell him, "Hey, What's up?" and start a conversation with him to make him feel comfortable. Then ask, "Last year, we had good times. We talked a lot but why don't you speak to me anymore?" And then he might answer your question. But one thing i would like to clear to you, is about your best friend. My friend Brenda does the same thing:Wants every guys attention as possible. What you should do, join sports programs,drama club,etc to become popular and eventually, your crush might like you IF you did something good in basketba or any type of sport. Dont be nervous. Try it!
2006-11-29 12:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by nococaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the brave girl, and let him go out with your friend. You will know how great of a guy he is or not by the way he treats her, and it will look good to both he and your friend that you are strong enough to let them go out, so that if they do date and eventually break up, then you will have had the chance to know him through your friend, and will probably have a better chance at knowing if your 'crush' was more than just a crush.
You can always date him in the future.
2006-11-29 20:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says no, it won't be the end of the world. (at least it isn't for a guy). If the girl asks the guy out, the guy knows she is confident. Most guys don't like only one girl. Trust me.
2006-11-29 20:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, realise that this is something common...you're not the only one who ever felt this...so you're not alone...
i ever felt that too...the guy that i liked was in love with my bestfriend and they get together...the silly thing was I often go with them...imagine that??
That's real sad too me...but i told myself that i can't push someone to fall in love with me (no matter how...) love came naturally...sometimes love 'nice' to you but sometimes don't...
Just try to compromise with your heart n feeling...God wouldn't match you with a guy EXCEPT he's the best for you,so don't be too sad if he wasn't with you because trust me...you still have your best
Be patient =)
p.s and keep smiling...you will missing another guy if you keep looking sad =)
2006-11-29 20:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by Luna_7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either tell ur best friend to back off u saw em first, or sprain another ankle
2006-11-29 20:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what u did before but add few hints for him not too subtle but not too bold. ;-)
2006-11-29 20:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd steal him from ur bestfriend sorry if not helping!!!
2006-11-29 20:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋