I'm a 20 year old male and I just had sex for the first time and it did not feel great. It was kind of boring, I enjoyed the foreplay and everything but when we started having sex it was not enough pleasure to make me orgasm. Is this normal or what should I do?
2006-11-29 12:45:01 · 9 answers · asked by barker67860 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would take a breath. If this was your first time, you can't make many judgments. Give it some time to evolve more naturally. Most first times are not that great, to be honest. So don't worry that much about it.
2006-11-29 12:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is the problem? NONE. When you first trying to ride a bike you fell off.You got back on. So the same thing with sex. It may take a few times. Do not rush it. When you find a girl that is right try it again. Spend more time trying to please her than trying to please yourself. My first time was a nightmare. I kept sliding out and the girl asked me if I "f----k" a lot. That made me fell real good. I found a woman and things got better. Sex was so great that I had her in tears from the pleasure that I gave her.
2006-11-29 20:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by cm f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chuck has the right idea! I can't imagine what you could've possibly done wrong where you were bored with the experience. But maybe that's just because it was your first time. (I wonder what the chic is saying about your performance!) Okay, chalk it up to 1st time jitters and try again! If you get the same result, check your pulse and make sure you're still alive. Now check the pulse of the person you're sleeping with and make sure they're alive. If both of you are alive and you still find it boring, then join a convent of monks or something! (tsk, tsk, tsk)
2006-11-29 21:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 20, you have probably set your orgasm trigger to get off by yourself. You simply need to re-trigger it with having intercourse. Go with it and it will work out sooner or later. . .Perhaps your fantasy during masturbation was greater than reality. You can adjust.
2006-11-29 20:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by zambranoray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive heard it take about 3 times for there to actually be pleasure. most people find it painful. its perfectly normal don't worry about it. just remember to use protection and it'll be fine.
2006-11-29 20:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a better looking girl
2006-11-29 20:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by rhino_man420 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it again, it'll come
2006-11-29 21:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by cat lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET A GIRL WITH SOME GOOD PUSSY
2006-11-29 20:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by CHUCK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have freakin bad problems!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-29 20:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by australian albino turtle! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋