i just got this new boyfriend that i have liked for ever! but every time i try to talk to him i choke... the words won't come out. I don't want him to break up with me. i've already written him a note and explained why i never talk 2 him.... but i love him soooo much and i don't want to break up. what should i do??
2006-11-29 12:35:44 · 10 answers · asked by trish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im scared i dont want him to break up with me?
i just got this new boyfriend that i have liked for ever! but every time i try to talk to him i choke... the words won't come out. I don't want him to break up with me. i've already written him a note and explained why i never talk 2 him.... but i love him soooo much and i don't want to break up. what should i do??
oh yeah im only in 7th grade. he's 14 and im 13
2006-11-29 13:07:08 · update #1
Trish,
Try to stop seeing him as the guy you believe you love so much and see him as an equal human being just like you. Already have a conversation in mind before ya chat. Do research on his favorite football team or something that you both currently like to do.
Ask him questions and just let him talk. He will love that he is getting to talk about himself.
Personally I dont recommend sending letters explaining why you freak out or scare him by letting him know how much you love him. This can run a guy off.
Remember love is a curvy road. Be yourself and he will love you for it or someone else will appreciate you:)
Chaele
2006-11-29 12:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by Michaele M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st sweetie Relax.. if you have known him for a while and your just now getting together, he really must like you.. don't be all tense around him, he likes you for who you are.. and if he didn't, then i'm sure he wouldn't be dating you.. and i don't think that he'd break up with you because you don't talk much.. maybe you guys need a little more alone time to get to the point where you can say anything and feel okay.. just dont end up being one of those people who are always up in their OTHERS business and constantly questioning everything they do and say.. you seem like a great girl, just relax and i'm sure everything will get easier.. good luck and best wishes to you both..
2006-11-29 12:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-17 18:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't concern yourself so much with if hes going to break up with you.. because that will only become negative
next time you talk to him, plan ahead. know what you're going to say, for example. have a prop. draw a ridiculously random picture during class and show him after... be really silly about and ask him if he thinks its fantastic and to hang it in his locker. the pressure will be all focused on the really dumb picture, not your or the awkwardness
2006-11-29 14:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? How old is he?
It's okay to be nervous, but he migt be just as nervous as you. I'm assuming you're a girl, usually girls like to talk. Just chat away. We don't mind air-head type convosations as much as you think. Relax!
2006-11-29 12:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by Wil T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good Question, I am going through the same problem right now...
2006-11-29 12:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by BB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the best advice i could give is to just take it easy and swallow. If this guy is ur b/f then you have nuthin to worry bout, that means he DOES like you too..does it not?
2006-11-29 12:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Flip a coin. Heads you tell him now tails you flip the coin later.
2006-11-29 12:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by Speedy 8 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whenever you feel that you can't speak, give him a big hug
2006-11-29 12:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by nαrcíssα [misses being a TC] 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't make him mad
2006-11-29 12:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by quinyanna~da~1~n~only 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋