Guys from own race?

Question

IN GENERAL but not always!
I've spoken to many of my pretty girl friends from all different ethnicities and we've come to the same conclusion. The guys from our respective ethnicities tend to think we're more obtainable simply because we have a shared culture and are really aggressive (like one 20 yr old guy grabbed my friends boob)...

or they attempt to ignore us and treat us like ****. (another guy rolled his eyes and spoke to everyone but the girl from his ethnicity) It's generally never just a normal interaction. I know, I've heard they probably think we're snobby because of one reason or another and they are trying to take us down a peg. But this can not simply be it. What other reasons for this and what can we do stop this disrespect?

Answer 1

It's true. I do think that girls from my own ethnicity are easier to obtain and that other girls because of the racial barrier are harder. In terms of disrepect, then you are hanging out with the wrong crowd.

I would think that the interactions from my own ethnicity are more normal, we have something to talk about, we like nearly the same things, and the person is different enough for it to be interesting but not so where it is weird.

Abnormal interactions occurs when you have nothing in common, like talking to a Muslim/Jew about Christmas. That's abnormal.

In short, I do believe that I can get a better looking girl from my own ethnicity than if I would a white girl, but I dont notice any disrepect from my myself, relatives or friends. You are attracting self hating racist losers.

Answer 2

i dont believe i race but most people do and i think the issue is that in america segrigation isnt a law but more a cultrual thing and people who believe that because one persons skin in one way they are less interisting because they are the same. sounds to me like you know some ignorant guys who think because the girl has a the same color skin that they are so much alike and he wants something different. it is the same thing with "white" guys wanting girls of different skin colors than "white" because they are "exotic" maybe the guys see anyone but people of their skin color as "exotic" and it turns em on. that is a realy lame excuse tho.

as for wanting girls only their skin color or "race" it seems to me like they want to keep it the same color because they are afraid or they are mildly racist and think that women of other "races" arent as good as women of the same "race"

but i oculd be wrong i dont believe all that bullsh!t those are just my observations

Answer 3

im sorry but i never played the race card when dating...what i looked for was communication, personality, geniune concern with me and pleasant things in common...ive been married for twenty two years so i must have done something right.

all that is bull...work on being happy with who you are and what your about...if your open to it, love will find you..and i could give a rats axx less if its the right person and not the right race.

Answer 4

I never experienced that but its an interesting topic