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i like my best guy friend. i thought he liked me. i told him i liked him. he said thats cool but he just likes me as a really good friend. so i accepted it, and we;re still great friends...but he's always really sweet, and funny, and he gives me hugs all the time and says im the coolest and the best, and every1 says he likes me and that we should go out. whenever sum1 says i like him, he just smiles and nudges me. and when sum1 says he likes me or that we should go out, he just smiles and say whatever. also, on this little quiz, a question was would u ever go out w/ me, he said maybe...that was b4 he knew i liked him...problem is, i know who he likes. one is his other best girl friend. but she doesnt like him. do u think he likes me and doesnt wanna admit it? or does he really just like me as a friend? if so, y does he put his arm around my shoulder all the time and stuff like that? plz tell me ur opinion. thnx alot. :) <3

also...we talk online like all the time and on the phone but only once in a while. and the girl he likes i asked if she liked him she said no, and he accepted that. and he doenst hug me like 24/7 he just puts his arm around my shoulder once in a while and gave me one hug. ive known him for 1 year. and yes were young. im in 7th grade, 12, and hes in 8th grade 13. but i know he doesnt want 2 be all physical. even if we werent dating, he's not all about being physical. but thnx 2 those that have answered so far..

Answer 1

Oh, the racing hormones of youth! Ordinarily, I would say the guy is too immature for a relationship and not to waste any more time on him. He sounds like a nice guy but it seems to me you are not who he really wants to be with. If you REALLY want to continue going after him, it sounds like you need to back off a bit. Are there other boys you are friendly with? If so, try paying more attention to one of them, and less attention to the one you like. Probably a good idea if this boy sees you paying more attention to someone else also. Give it some time. He may rethink his feelings for you. And if you still don't get a reaction out of him, say, in about a week or so, then approach him and ask him why he hasn't been hanging paying attention to you much. This is a bit manipulative, but if there is anything there at all, hopefully this may bring it out. What you don't want to do is spend a long time waiting for something that isn't going to happen.

Answer 2

Yes I think he likes you! But...slow down. I guess from your question that you are both quite young. Nothing wrong with that, but guys are REALLY SLOW at learning about girls. If he is your age, he doesn't have a clue about relationships! He knows he likes you, but he has a "romantic" (look it up) notion about this other girl who might not care for him. He is confused and doesn't know what to do! Just wait things out. Enjoy having a good friend. He might come from a family tradition, like my Louisiana Cajun background, where a lot of hugging goes on if you like someone. It could mean he only wants to be physical with you. If that is the case, you REALLY need to slow things down. Just wait for him to grow up and see that you are the one for him.

Answer 3

Now my dear...this guy seems like he really likes you as a good and special friend.Maybe you should leave things as they are...trust me.if you know he likes the other gal then let it go.I had a good guy friend and everyone told us how we would be so good together.....we hooked up and it was a disaster...fortunately we are now back to friends but not as before cuz there is too much water under the bridge.Dont ruin a great friendship.Youll get a good guy.

Answer 4

He already told you he just likes you as a really good friend. Take him seriously. That is called taking him at face value. Believe what he says, and that is it.

Move on concentrate on your life, and not on his and yours. You are wasting time on something that has already been answered.

Spend time with him, but not on him. If you have to work that hard to get his attention, then it is probably not worth it.

Date others. This sounds like a crush. Pay attention to what he is really telling you.

Answer 5

if you hadn't mention he liked someone else i'vehad told you he likes you and maybe was afraid to ruin the friendship .but it seems to me that he likes you as a friend however ,usually in a friendship so close friends tend to fall in love so i recommend you play a little game that goes like this and see if it works:
first you let him know you're interested in him (which you already did so move to the second part) second :act like you just want to be friends , as if you've growed out of liking him as a boyfriend material , he'll Start wondering whats wrong ,because He's already used to everybody including yourself telling him that you like him ,so right know he may feel your love for him is assured but once he sees you acting like you don't like him if he felt something for you more than pure friendship think over his feelings for you .try it ,you have nothing to loose and it may work because nobody finds attractive someone who is begging them for love but when you give yourself your place people like it cause it shows confidence.
p.s. Jesus loves you

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Sorry, hon, you'll have to take his word for it. He just likes you as a friend and doesn't want to hurt your feelings because he does like you -- as a friend. I think he 1) likes his other girlfriend but knows she doesn't like him in that way, or 2) is gay and not ready to come out of the closet. Men don't hug other girls like that just because. Either way, he is reveling in knowing you want him.

Answer 8

well thats a way of showing he dosent wana ruin your friendship but i think u shouldnt be beliving what other people say cause it might not be true and you might end up hurt and the whole shoulder thing is a way of showing you guys are best friends at least in my school it it

Answer 9

he's being friendly, putting his arm around you is what friends do. maybe he does like you more than a friend but has feelings for the other girl.

Answer 10

He does like you -- as a friend. He knows how you feel so let him take the next step if he wants more. If you push it, you'll loose him all together.