why is he doing this?

Question

theres this kid at my high school (we're in 10th grade) who i've known since 9th grade but never talked to. recently i sat at his table in lunch because i have 2 friends who happened to be sitting there b/c they know him. randomly, he turns around and asks me, (note, these words are the first words he's ever said to me in his life) "do you think five inches is small?" one of my friends saved me by answering fo me, but it still was rele weird... he's the popular kind of kid, he knows almost all the "popular girly-girls" so why, out of all the girls would he ask me? (i'm a shy girl) since then (happened around 2 weeks ago) he's been staring at me. and i mean CLOSELY staring. i actually dont notice it. my friends do. a friend would say, "i think he's staring at you" and when i'd look, he'd look away. i notice it more and more from the corner of my eye and it's starting to creep me out!
what does this mean, and why is he doing this???
*sorry that this is so long*

Answer 1

Because he likes you, but being in this day in age in schools he has to keep his image up to all his cronies. So if you are in a "lower" click than he is, he has to show off in order to talk to you. don't do it. it will be one of those hidden sexual relationships. Not worth your time.

Answer 2

Boys at that age fantasize a lot - maybe he's been fantasizing about you or more simply, maybe since he talked to you that first time he feels silly about asking such a thing and has been thinking about a way to actually have a conversation. However, I'd trust your instincts. If you feel creeped out then trust that and don't ever find yourself alone with this guy. You don't know what could be going through his mind, he could be thinking about doing something 'bad' or taking advantage of you - steer clear. If it becomes harassment and staring can be just that, tell your guidance counselor so if something ever happens he/she has a record that you told someone about your concerns and discomfort. It may not be bad, he could just think you're attactive and be staring at you. You could ask him why he's staring or ask one of your friend or one of his friends why he's staring so you can find your answer or it can get him to stop. Good luck!

Answer 3

wow thats kind of interesting.

he could be the popular class clown and asked it out of pure hilarity trust me i was one of thoes crazy kids a while ago. (im 19 now).

also the staring thing is a bit creepy maby he likes you and being himself (the popular guy) does not know what to do because he might loose his statust if your not in the most popular of the popular girls. but really he should get up the courage and ask you out. Being popular is good and all but really it will get him nowhere in the end so really be careful if he gets the good grades and seams to like you talk to him and make friends and see if he likes you. good luck with this and i hope everything works out for the best!

Answer 4

He likes you and he probably regrets saying that now but that's what came out at the time. He is nervous and doesn't know how to talk to you. Maybe he thought that was funny and did not realize you actually have some class about you.
That's cute he likes you girl! Like you said your shy and alot of outgoing girls might have answered that ???....It seems like he's shy to in a way....little weird...but don't read too much into it unless he starts stalking you!

Answer 5

He sounds like a weirdo. I would stay away from him. He probably likes you, or since you seem to have remained calm when he asked you the 'five inch' question, he probably thinks he can get into your pants. Stay away from him. And the only reason why I say the part about him trying to get into your pants, is because guys think like that....Trust me...I was raised around lots of men, mainly teenage guys.

Answer 6

For one he's an idiot and you can tell him I told you so. well he isn't sure if your going to like him or not so he stares and thinks about how to ask you. But if it's getting weird confront him and ask him why he is stareing at you and if doesn't tell you, Just say cool guess the principal will find out for me and go to the principal. Might as well cut him at the pass beofre he really gets to doing something weird.

Answer 7

Well? Is 5 inches...never mind.
The guy's got his eyes on you. He's not the smoothest dude but I'd just talk to him. So what if you're shy, I'm not saying to go out with him, but you could have entertaining debates with him. Next time you see his say "you think a-cup is too big?"

Answer 8

If you didn't know him before then you don't need to know him now ,,,, If he felt any respect for you at all then the first words he ever said to you would be totally different from what he did say ,,,, You didn't lose anything not knowing him before so you won't lose anything staying away from him now ,,,, Don't let it bother you one way or another if he looks or stares at you ,,,, Any one gets captivated looking at eye candy ,,,, You don't need this guy or any of his crap ,,,,

Answer 9

He's doing it because he likes you! Have more confidence! Im sure you are very nice and pretty and thats why he wants to stare at ya! Don't think that you only get attention because there is something wrong with you! Hold your head up high!

Answer 10

He is a hormone crazed teenage boy he wants you LOL and you have to tell him no your not interested. Trust me he likes you I was in high school once you have to be careful with guyes esp ones like that. If he bothers you too much talk to your principle or guidence counslor they can help you out.

Answer 11

hon, a boy who starts his converstations with that kid of question doesn't even deserve the time of day. He's just being rude, and is staring at you to see what your reaction is. What he wants is for you to chicken out in front of him so if i were you i'd just completely ignore him.