I have very strong feelings for my friend *Susie, and since she just broke up with her boyfriend, she is available. She said that she wants to be single for a while, and I respect that. But once she wants to another shoulder to cry on, I'm afraid that I'll miss my chance with her. What should I do?
Also, my OTHER friend *Kat basically HATES Susie, and doesn't want me to be friends with her because she says that Susie has hurt me previously when I tried to get into a relationship with her. I have moved past it, but Kat hasn't and says that she never will. I am afraid that if I try and get into a relationship with Susie, then Kat would disown me. What should I do?
*see my previously asked questions
2006-11-29 12:41:54 · 12 answers · asked by Jake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And also, Kat hates the fact that I'm still able to still be FRIENDS with Susie.
2006-11-29 12:50:39 · update #1
And I already tried to ask Kat out, but she said that she likes me as a friend, and it will not go further than that. Since I learned that, I let go of my hopes with getting a relationship with Kat.
2006-11-29 12:52:10 · update #2
you NEED to follow your heart! if you friend *Kat can't accept you for who you are and who you like, then apparently she isn't a very good friend!
FOLLOW YOU HEART!
2006-11-29 12:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Baby D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should leave both of them alone and remain friends. It's better to find someone else, then have the possibility of losing two friendships. Also if Susie has hurt you before, more than likely she'll do it again. Let her cry on your shoulder, but don't think it's because she likes you. You are her friend, and you are good to respect her wishes that she wants to be single for a while. If it's meant to be, then it will be. But if not, then someone else will come your way. Good luck and God Bless!
2006-11-29 20:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by freakykittygoddess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
does Kat like you...sounds like it....check that out first of all....
and maybe you should steer clear of this Susie girl if she's hurt you b4. A crying shoulder soon gets the cold shoulder!
2006-11-29 20:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by javaluv2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kat cares about you dummy! Apparently more than you care about you. Her advice is on target. Listen to her. A year from now thank her for helping you avoid the romantic groin kick coming your way from Susie.
2006-11-29 20:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well just be there for Susie and be a good friend to her and she wil console in you if you let her know that you care.
as for Kat if she hates you because you date Susie she isnt realy a good friend but if she just gets mad and gives you a hard time it means she cares about you and is lookin out for you but will eventualy accept your descision no matter how much it pisses her off and will deal with it
2006-11-29 20:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what makes Jake happy:) Kat will have to respect your decision if she is a true friend.
2006-11-29 20:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by benzeeno619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good friend of mine is having the same problem you are. OK, first you need to give her some time to get over her break up and then when she's ready you guys should start to hang out more. In maybe a few weeks just start dropping some hints. Then go for it.
Good Luck!
2006-11-29 20:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by odd_person 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that maybe you should talk to *kat and have *susie and *kat sit down and talk. that might be the best choice.
2006-11-29 20:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't ask her out, but tell her your fellings.
Talk 2 kat about how u feel
2006-11-29 20:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by s_lopez_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to satisfy Suzy! - Lonnie Mack, 1989.
Also, that is about the most pathetic bunch of bolony I've ever read!
2006-11-29 20:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by mr.threethirtyfive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋