So this jerk always randomly comes up to me and bothers me. And by 'bothers' I mean he throws little papers at me and tries to trip me, or says stupid things like 'Hey Blondie' in this obnoxious voice.
How f----ing mature, right...
And I always catch him staring at me. It's extremely annoying.
I've told him flat out how annoying he is and to leave me alone, but he doesn't.
Any advice on what to do next time he bothers me? I'm not someone who would scream or make a scene, so don't suggest that.
And I think that's exactly why he's doing this: to get some kind of reaction. Hahh, what a loser.
K thanks.
2006-11-29 12:40:51 · 25 answers · asked by :] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uh, ... yeah I do realize that he likes me.
Thanks for pointing out the obvious.
But I'm not interested and I want to get my point across.
2006-11-29 12:47:07 · update #1
Sounds like he's totally in love with you, or just a creepy stalker. Catch him off guard one day when he's not bugging the crap out of you, and calmly, maturely ask him what it is, exactly, that you need to do to get him to back off. If he doesn't respond well, tell him you're going to start using pepper spray every time he's within 10 feet of you.. ;)
If all else fails, go for a restraining order!
2006-11-29 12:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by asleep 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He likes you, so you have to play on that be very nice and flirtatious to him and tell him that u would take him more seriously if he acted like a man and not a little boy and no girl likes that stuff if he ever hopes to get one. Tell his you are willing to take him under your wing and teach him how to get a girl and be friend him. Eventually he should lose interest when he sees that he can attract someone who is willing to like him back. Be sure to not allow him to think u are interested in him. Make that clear. But you are not going to totally get him to leave you alone by pushin him away and being mean or rude. Sounds like he very immature and cant control his feelings and would not understand it anyway. You might end up with a decent friend but at the very least he will leave u alone. Jus be nice.....if he continues to be a jerk or immature then I would tell an authority figure at the school and maybe he get the picture then.
2006-11-29 12:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to ignore him? It sounds like he is just looking for attention. Maybe even just say "hi" when he starts acting up and then walk away. He probably likes you and doesn't know how to show it without being obnoxious (boys are kind of slow sometimes). I would try the polite yet distant approach and when he sees that he can't get a rise out of you perhaps he will tone it down or move on to the next victim. Good luck!
2006-11-29 12:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by hes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE him.
Sounds like he's getting his rocks off by annoying you.
You've been encouraging his behavior by allowing him to influence your behavior.
When you ignore him... he will initially get more aggressive with his behavior... trying to push you into responding to him.
Do NOT give in.
Simply act as if he is not there.
Whenever he comes around... focus your attention on someone, or something else.
Eventually, he'll drop into apathy. And will stop trying to annoy you.
Another strategy is to simply stop what you were doing (when he starts trying to annoy you), and OBSERVE him.
Just watch. Don't say anything. Don't react. Just watch. Look at him as though his purpose in life is to entertain you. And he's nothing more than an actor. Acting the part of a fool. Do NOT allow yourself to get annoyed. Though it is OK to become "amused" with his behavior.
Keep in mind... he's simply trying to annoy you (for whatever reason he has for doing this), BUT, you do NOT have to respond.
BEST thing to do is IGNORE, and act as if he is not there. Eventually, he will go away.
2006-11-29 12:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by davidcolyer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 23:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look him in the eyes with a seriousness in your eyes and voice and say " ?name? listen i know that you enjoy doin' all these little things to get some kinda rise out of me, but you are seriously bothering me and i would appreciate it if you'd either grow up and respect the fact that we're not 16 and play games or just ignore me and never speak to me again".. i don't know your ages nor the place where this is happening.. so try to be serious and just look him in the eye and tell him to stop because he's making you hate him and you think he's alright other then the creepy immature things that he's doin'... other then that i don't know.. good luck and best wishes to you..
2006-11-29 12:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok well you could tell him "leave me alone ok. Could not like bother me or stare at me forever? Please?" If that doesn;t work i don't know what to tell you cause there was a kid that did that to me. I asked him to leave me alone and he did. Hasn;t bothered me since sometimes he'll come up to say hi, But that's it. Well i;m not the kind of person to cause a seen either. SO i hope this helps!!!
2006-11-29 12:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Livy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is at work tell him that you are going to complain to the boss that he is sexually harassing you that should get him to leave you alone. If it is out in public tell him if he does it again then you are going to call the police and file a sexual harrasment complaint. Sounds Like harrasment to me and if youve told him to leave you alone before then he should listen and not continue to bug you.
2006-11-29 12:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by aliemgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously (as you already know) trying to bother you. Just act as if he does'nt exist. And That he doesn't bother you. And if he still continues. I was in a similar position once. I just said "wow". And I think he finally got the point.
Good luck!
& thanks for the answer!
2006-11-29 13:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by Tracy♡ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he bothers you again, tell your teacher, his
teacher (if you both have different teachers)
the counselor, the principal-because he will contact the boy's parents,) and most of all,
YOUR parents. You can also tell another adult
you trust. Good luck!
2006-11-29 12:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by PrettyEyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋