Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

I don't mean to pop my own buttons, but i am a very attractive black woman aged somwwhere between 18 and 21. and everytime i go out somewhere or walk around campus in college, only black guys try to talk to me. i/ve noticed that the white guys kinda look periodically then keep on walking by, but the black guys stare and try and talk to me. some white guys don't even pay much notice at all. the college is about 50 percent black and 50 percent white. The white guys would talk to every white girl at a college party but would'nt talk to me just the black guys would. and i know i look 10 times better than a every girl at that party.(sorry but its true.black women tend to posess better physial features anyway)Not that i care to much but i was wondering why most white men don't look at a black women. its like they could'nt even take us serious.

2006-11-28 06:20:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has used it before he admitted and i think he still does and i ask him to prove me rong by doing a home test he refused and said i will just have to trust him .his actions tell me hes using it and then he slows down and sleeps all the time and then all at once after sleeping for a week or two hes up and running and doing everything as if its an emergacy again.I think after a year of this I should just give up hes a control freak too

2006-11-28 06:20:03 · 18 answers · asked by cindybells 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am now going out with this guy and i just found out that he likes another girl and is going to ask her out tonight and if she says yes then he will break up with me but he is going to tell him friend that told me everything and if he did i will break up with him first
but if he dosnt should i break up with him or forgive him and still go out

I reallly like him it will break my heart!!!!!!

2006-11-28 06:19:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year. In the begining he was perfect. He use to come and see me all the time and always call me. Now he comfortable and makes me feel as thought he doesn't want me around anymore. When I say something to him he always turns it aroun like it is all me. He is starting to be verbally abusive to me also and then he says he is just joking. It hurts me to hear this and when I say that he tells me I am too sensitive. I have children from my first husband and he likes three of them but he acually came out the other day and told me he can not stand my oldest. I told him if he doesn't like my child then he needs to go. That also was a joke he said. He comes straight out and tells me he will never marry me and things like that. I am truely in love with him but I feel like it is a one way street. How can I get through this hard time. What do I say to him or what do I do. The tought of being without him kills me.

2006-11-28 06:19:15 · 19 answers · asked by beany B 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 06:18:35 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I caught my husband lying a couple of times about him watching porn. It's odd because we used to be more open with each other before we were married. I admitted to him that I watched porn before, to make him feel okay with it. But he still hides it. Should I be concerned? I feel a little insecure now, because he is hiding it. What are your opinions? Should I let it go? Forget about it, knowing he's watching porn all the time? HELP!

2006-11-28 06:18:31 · 33 answers · asked by beachgirl800 1 in Friends

I servived a six week coma and I get ssi. I would love to hear your oppinion on this hot topic.

2006-11-28 06:18:16 · 13 answers · asked by fe2bsho 3 in Singles & Dating

As the
guy i like in work ive known him for just
over a year while he worked in same small
office(recently moved next door) but its only
been the past year that my feelings have
developed for him. The thing is theres never
been an opportunity to see how the other one
feels. As im hardly going to ask someone out
in a room full of nosy parkers and vice
versa. Do you think theres still a chance
with xmas work dos coming up to see if
anything happens?

2006-11-28 06:18:00 · 6 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Singles & Dating

I babysit a child whose parents will get me to watchtheir child so they can sleep, visit friends, go for a walk to "think", go for coffee, or because they are hungover...

but they have not gone to work certain days but still asked me to babysit...

I have been paid thus far....

I am nervous that they won;t have the money with all the work missed...

I am being taken advantage of...

the mother will show up with bags full of stuff she bought, no stroller for her daughter, and then just stand there waiting for me to offer a ride... so i do....

Shoudl I set boundries? yes...

but I dont; want to make this mom feel any worse about her situation than it already is... she has already lost custody of her son....

i just want to do the right thing....

2006-11-28 06:17:14 · 14 answers · asked by mombobbloggerpants 2 in Family

2006-11-28 06:16:52 · 1 answers · asked by lovelife2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have been married for eight years. and We have NEVER had intercourse. She was a virgin when we got married in almost everyway. I was willing to wait for her because I loved her. On our wedding night she had her period so we just went to sleep.

She is DEATHLY afraid of getting pregnant so se refuses to have intercourse. She is not into oral and is unwilling to use her hands. All she is willing to do, is the old dry hump thing that teenagers do (close on).

Our marrige is the hsits I have developed a real bad temper and now she is also quite reluctant to have sex because of the way I treat and talk to her which I admit is not always pleasent I am at my wits end what should I do?

She says that she is normal and will not seek counselling on sexual matters

should I leave her is the lack of sex a good reason to divorce another

2006-11-28 06:16:51 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need to make him want me again. How can I do that?

2006-11-28 06:16:46 · 7 answers · asked by Stacye S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 06:16:41 · 5 answers · asked by commonko 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, before three years ago, (2003) if you were caught having anal sex (with any sex) in the state of Idaho, you could be charged with a felony and face 5 years to life in prision. In Alabama a misdemeanor punishable by up to 1 year imprisonment and $2000 fine. In Mississippi a felony punishable by up to 10 years imprisonment. Other states had simaliar punishments, including 1-5 years imprisionment.

Imagine that. Now, do you still believe you should do the time if you do the crime? Did you ever think of yourself as a criminal? Maybe some of you shouldn't judge other people.

For those of you that have no pity or regard for those of us that make mistakes, think about what you do or did that was against the law and you simply just got away with it. Think about the people that use drugs, prostitution, a life choice like anal sex. Should you try to justify any crime that doesn't hurt anyone else?

2006-11-28 06:16:14 · 24 answers · asked by Erica B 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 06:16:12 · 4 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 06:15:33 · 3 answers · asked by ardeiiaa 1 in Friends

how can i tell if this guy likes me? he is 3 yrs older than me, but we are really good friends. i sorta have feelings, for him, but i dont know if he feels the same way!! is there ANY way i can tell?

2006-11-28 06:15:03 · 5 answers · asked by Christina G ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

a serious relationship and neither is he but still i'd like to know where we stand.

2006-11-28 06:14:49 · 10 answers · asked by little one 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and me went to see a movie sunday night, now He's completely ignoring me, he won't return my phone calls, and when saw him today he barely even recognised the fact that i was there....What should i do?

2006-11-28 06:14:25 · 11 answers · asked by Bbclarie_Chick 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like him and I want to be with him...but he's always bringing it up..What should I say or do??

2006-11-28 06:14:14 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats the difference?

2006-11-28 06:13:53 · 16 answers · asked by Gucci_xoxo 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister is 5 years older than me and I've done more for her than some parents do for their kids in a life time. She has 8 kids....no drivers license.....and she always needs to go somewhere. Her kids always need something. She doesn't work, but she gets money from Social Security for her kids, but she never has the things she nor the kids needs.

2006-11-28 06:13:36 · 8 answers · asked by Babyface 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

We do not actively belong to a church or religion, but I would like to have a Christian ceremony. I am a believer, but not necessarily religious, and am wondering who to contact. I do not want to join a church just for a wedding, as I find that kind of deceitful. Our families are Catholic, and we do not want a church wedding--we would like something outdoors, which is out of the question for Catholics.

2006-11-28 06:12:59 · 8 answers · asked by melouofs 7 in Weddings

Got married to a great guy, problem is we were together so long beforehand, i dont think im in love anymore. Whats a girl to do?

2006-11-28 06:12:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

adamently AGAINST ABORTION...Now, as we know...it is NOT against the law...But i personally feel, that some relative just gets him in a tizzy over that issue...just to get his blood pressure UP!!! AND IT DOES...i think that is very sad.... But he tells you how WRONG YOU ARE FOR BELIEVING IN PRO-CHOICE...(he doesn't respect other's opinions...i feel YOU should say something.)..even though he is INTIMIDATING...say.."let's just drop the subject...cuz obviously we don't agree"...and walk away if you can??? what to say?????yOU ARE A NICE PERSON AND DO NOT WANT TO HAVE SOMEONE'S OPINION FORCED UPON YOU!!! (abuse)

2006-11-28 06:12:06 · 9 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am staying with my ex for a while because i am out of work. He always asks for u know what and i really dont think it is appropriate since we are split up. Should i worry about all of this or should i just take it with a grain of salt and just ignore his advances??? By the way, we have been friends for years that is why i am staying there.

2006-11-28 06:11:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is that nasty or do some of you guys go for more days....

2006-11-28 06:11:17 · 42 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't go to work til 6pm...should I go in early to ask her to lunch or out to make sure that I don't miss her??? Or is that going to much out of the way??? LIke you guys said I can't let some other fool beat me to the punch. (Continued from my other open question...please read it before answering this one)

2006-11-28 06:10:52 · 3 answers · asked by stagger_lee1974 2 in Singles & Dating

ok.first he asked me out.i said let be in touch by email.so he gave me his email.after emailing 2 weeks,i said ok let go out now!he said ok at the end of next week we will go and im down 110%.
but we will saty in touch for planing a good nice plan for it!
i didnt recive any message after that.and i know he is busy with his tests..
will leaving a message for him turn him off(even alittle bit)
i dont want to look desperate!!!

2006-11-28 06:09:51 · 9 answers · asked by karen 2 in Singles & Dating

to the girls: is Bond the perfect template of what a man should be, suave, clean, daring and all that stuff?

to the guys: is Bond what you would concider a role for which you try and live up to in order to romantacise a woman?

2006-11-28 06:09:40 · 20 answers · asked by ANTJOHN 2 in Singles & Dating