My wife and i have been together for the past 5 years 2.5 in college and 2.5 in the real world. Everything was great minus a couple of fights/breakups in college, we had a beautiful wedding and a great honeymoon. She is a nurse and i noticed some weird behavior, and found out that she had cheated on my with a 40 year old dr. I was devastated and did not want to stay together at first but then realized how much i love her. We decided to work on things which we hardly did, mostlty tried to buy happiness (new BMW). She insists that the relationship was a one time thing, it is hard to say for sure but i did check her phone bills and e-mails and found nothing. I have had alot of trouble letting it go though. I tried to but every so often i would shove it back in her face. Now i have moved out on her request, and she has told me that she hasnt been in love with me for 2years, but that she does love me. I know this is not true, but she doesnt want to get counseling. What do i do?
2006-11-28
05:40:02
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Dan B
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Marriage & Divorce