have them do "stuff" 2 each other around u like touch, kiss, make-out, ect.
2006-11-28 05:30:34 · 35 answers · asked by *~*ShOrTiie*~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How could that be "wrong"? What does it have to do with you? If you simply feel uncomfortable, you should talk with your friends about it - let them know that you are still getting used to be exposed to that sort of thing, and to work with you.
I think it a hasty move to immediately label the situation as "wrong". They were your friends before you knew about their respective sexualities, right?
2006-11-28 05:36:20 · answer #1 · answered by stargirllll4311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. As long as your gay friend knows where you stand as a stright person and you're just friends and that's as far as your relationship can go. All that matters is that you are both friends and you feel comfortable with each other!!! I made friends with a girl on myspace.com and come to find out she was gay....I didn't know for at least a few weeks after we stared talking! She has a girl friend and she talks about her most of the time! But we're just friends and that's all, she knows I have a boyfriend and I'm as stright as a board! I never think about the fact that she's gay...even though it does cross my mind and I sometimes feel a little uneasy when I email her! I don't want to not talk to her because I just found out she is gay...but she's a really nice person. If you feel uncomfortable around your friend just tell him or her how you feel! It's ok to tell them where you stand!!!
2006-11-28 05:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if it were a girl boy relationship and they were doing "stuff" around you touch, kiss make out?
I feel it is flat out rude. I do not care who is in the realationship....
If a person is lesbians/bisexual they should still have common courtesy, manners, they are not animals!
2006-11-28 05:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day surely they are your friends because you enjoy their company and like who they are. So what difference does their sexuality make?? Someone's sexual preference does not make them good or bad and if everyone was the same what a boring world we would live in. Reading some of the answers you got it seems there are a lot of small minded, ignorant and judgemental people around dont jump on their bandwagon!
2006-11-28 06:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, are you a religious person? does it bother you when they do this stuff? Personally I have gay friends and I love them, I dont agree with their life style, but I dont think the issue here is about gayness but about common courtesy. I mean would it bug them if they saw any given couple going at it in front of them? I think it would. I mean if I saw any of my gay or straight friends taking it farther than rated E for every one then I would ask them to have some respect for me and themselves because after all they are not sending a very good message out into the world.
2006-11-28 05:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with having friends who are lesbian, bisexual, or gay. Many people have gay friends, but don't even realize it. What you allow any friend(s) to do around you is a personal choice that only can make.
2006-11-28 05:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by eboue1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's disrespectful for anyone to hang all over each other. A friend of mine was dating this guy and they couldn't keep their hands off of each other and I finally told her that I wasn't going to meet them out anymore because I was sick of watching them. I even had my own boyfriend and it made me nuts. It's just disrespectful. If you are going to be friends and hang out then that's the way it should be if they need to hug and kiss then they need to take it somewhere else. Their sexual preference shouldn't have any effect on your friendship. I have gay and lesbian friends and we are all very respectful towards each other. RESPECT!
2006-11-28 05:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by Luvatlanta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is like saying, "Do you think it is wrong to have friends who are asian?" If their making out bothers you, ask them to stop, but if you are touching and kissing a guy, you can't expect them to stop since you won't.
2006-11-28 05:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jon C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, nearly all my friends are lesbian - but some of the bi or straiight ones sometimes do really unpleasant stuff, like kiss men - yuck!
Making out in public is gross - full-stop
2006-11-28 05:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by Plum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 16:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋