Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

2006-11-28 05:56:01 · 10 answers · asked by 7 CenT 1 in Singles & Dating

well, i ask the guy out but than he only want to be friends...
but i really love him. HE does not know how i feel...
help me please!

2006-11-28 05:56:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was currently in the army, and i really want to go back, the only reason i got out is to have my baby, now my husband is saying if i go back in we're going to get a divorce, and he knew when i got out that i had intentions of going back, and he said ok, now he want to act like i never told him, he seen how much i enjoyed being in the military, should i let him take away my life long dream???? what should i do?

2006-11-28 05:54:44 · 14 answers · asked by ARMY KID 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 05:54:26 · 9 answers · asked by 7 CenT 1 in Singles & Dating

I was asked a question the other day that got me thinking. A guy friend of mine asked me how do you know you truly love someone. I gave him the reasons I thought were right to me and he said I was wrong.

So I am interested in hearing from other individuals, how do you know you are truly in love and what constitutes love? Now there is a difference between infatuation and love. I think we all know this.

It sounds like a dumb question but I felt as if I got a dumb response to his question for me.

2006-11-28 05:54:14 · 7 answers · asked by no 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for 13 years. 8 months ago I found my HS sweetie on the classmates website. We've talked off and on ... on the phone. Right away that incredible love feeling came back and I realized that I never felt that for my husband. There are a lot of reasons, I'm sure I shut people out due to the fact I was raised in an alcoholic family and was verbally abused. I think when I lost my 1st love, I lost faith in people, was never able to trust again. I have learned so much from this experience. And I know I have hurt my husband too. My children, 12 & 8 are not aware of what has been going on, although every time my phone rang lately, my husband would ask if it was my "boyfriend calling" in front of them.

My husband and I married with a lot of emotional baggage, though mine was more severe. And all this has started a recovery process. I left a message on my ex's cell phone... "I'm letting go of you... Good luck with your family. Have a nice life... bye." He may call me back.

2006-11-28 05:54:13 · 19 answers · asked by :-) literary cappy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

there is a girl in my church that i really like. This morning we finally did a little bit of talking. she was getting the kids ready for a program that we are having at church In a little room. i asked her if i could come in and she said yes. She told me that that's her first time seeing me talk. I ALSO NOTICED THAT SHE WAS A LITTLE SHY IN FRONT OF ME. SHE WAS RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME IN THE ROOM. AFTER A WHILE SHE MOVED in the corner next to me where I could'nt see her. when we got out she told me that she liked a car that i have. and started talking about what kinda car she wanna get after she graduates from highschool. while we where at church someone brought her senior pictures and she came to me asking me if she looks pretty in the pictures. The interesting part!! when we where getting ready to leave she asked me used my phone and called her mom to tell her that she has a ride home. She asked me if i could take her home. and i took her home. What can i do next? i only see herinchurch?

2006-11-28 05:54:05 · 17 answers · asked by Superman 2 in Singles & Dating

Simple question. Lights on, or LIghts off ?
& Why ?

2006-11-28 05:53:45 · 29 answers · asked by Justin 3 in Singles & Dating

an ex friend of mine had an interlude with a girl who is married,we met and kept in touch on his behalf,we then became close and experienced lotsa feelings she is still married and my ex-friend is filling her with lies and shes starting to question me even though ive given her no reason to, is this a pattern for her what should I do Ive never been in love till now does anybody have experience with this so they can help me make a decision so I dont get burned.

2006-11-28 05:52:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been married 3 years, together for 5. A year into our marriage, he developed chronic migraines, that left him completely unable to be my partner in any sense of the word. I understood and was doting and worried for a good year and a half, while he was depressed and on a slew of medications that kept him a zombie. His migraines improved a bit, but he still was not around to be my husband. I needed him, and told him, but he remained self centered in every way. His headaches became "convenient" it appeared, popping up during fights, giving him a constant get out of jail free card. He's turned into such a negative human being, getting no joy out of life, and he can't understand why this brings me down. I hit the end of my rope a few months ago, went to therapy, told him i was considering leaving. Then all of a sudden he started being nice. I feel like it's too little too late, but he says he can't live without me. Am i being selfish? I am tired of enduring. sigh.

2006-11-28 05:52:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 05:51:59 · 12 answers · asked by gohar 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont wanna sound selfish but I do not like going to anyone's funeral. Would it be disrespectful for me not to show up? I live in another city about 100 miles away. Do you think his family would be mad at me? What should I do?

2006-11-28 05:51:47 · 10 answers · asked by stunston 2 in Friends

is it offensive or annoyin if the guy never wants to kiss you or touch you or anything, but rather just wants t play with the peach fuzz above your lip????

2006-11-28 05:50:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not childish but childlike

2006-11-28 05:50:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas? Ever done anything outrageous there?

2006-11-28 05:49:20 · 11 answers · asked by lisa s 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Leaving him is out of the question, I love him. I just don't understand how he can be so mean, he hurts my feelings,he said it's because he is trying to motavate me. He calls me lots of names, he calls me lazy,and tells me I need to change my life style.
I understand why he tells me this things,i stoped working4 months ago and became a house wife for a little bit, because I came down with depression, i went to the doctor for lots of test she put me on prozac,for depession and seroquil and aprazolam for sleep. she also putme on medicine for hyperthyroid, and other ones too.
before I got sick I was only one working, he stayed home everyday sleeping and playing ames all night. I never put him down he was out of work for 3years. i took care of him,BUt now since i am sick he is forced to work,and he comes home evey day to aclean house and supper on the table,i takes of the kids too, and he calls me lazy. I just cry, whatshould I do, I know he isjust trying to help. But it hurts still

2006-11-28 05:48:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I find out he is married !!! Is everyone married with kids nowadays ....did I miss something? Where are the single mentally SANE with no kids men?

2006-11-28 05:48:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is having a very bad breath i cant tollerate it it is creating troubles in my sex life i told him but i think he is not taking it too seriously how can i make him realize that i really feel so bad and it is destroying my interest in sex

2006-11-28 05:48:05 · 43 answers · asked by sp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The man is good looking, is not a player, smells nice, and is well dressed.(no, not talking about me)

Has romance become cheesy in this country?

2006-11-28 05:47:07 · 48 answers · asked by DocPapas 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a feeling my boyfriend, the father of my soon to be baby, is going to propose to me on Christmas and I reallly dont want to get married, I care for him, but I dont think I love him enough for all that. He does not know that I know what he is going to do, and he plans on doing it infront of family and friends. How do I turn him down nicely??

2006-11-28 05:47:00 · 9 answers · asked by PRETTYGIRL 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-28 05:46:52 · 6 answers · asked by Fruitful 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband told me he hated me after I got a promotion so I left and ended up with a guy who has been my friend for awhile now and well we ended up sleeping together, we both decided it was a mistake and decided to be just friends. Here is where it gets hard, I had a miscarriage yesterday and am 100% sure it was his baby,
My husband has know ideal and I am not sure if I should tell the other guy either. Help!!

2006-11-28 05:46:02 · 27 answers · asked by Tammy R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i was adopted when i was 10.. and i am from texas .. but currently live in tucson arizona.. i had to have my name changed and every thing .. i even got a new birth certificate .. so i really dont know the family i was with before... was all mixed up.. i jus need to know and complete me?


thank you
<3 ME

2006-11-28 05:44:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am single and looking for a single man. I am a very sweet person and can hold my own with conversation, I look very sexy and have a great smile.

I am not that fat and not that skinny.

I am wondering what Am not doing right with the men I meet up with and why I don't get a second call back???

Leave address or write to my address
and leave answer.

Thanks a bunch......

2006-11-28 05:44:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

basically.. i broke up with my bf aftr 6 months, around a month ago(actually less than a month.). i havent been able to go out much since because all my girl mates where busy. so ive been seeing him 4 days a week at college although we havent talked a word(his choice). i wrote him a letter explaining that i still wanted to be friends but he never replyied(problem is we have mutual friends).
so i went out last night to a pub, and he was thier and i was around him quite alot because we where in the same crowd. i managed to get off with another guy(who turned out to be a ****head anyway) but this was after seeing my ex with this girl i am sort-of mates with. i saw her today any she was saying how she got off with him.. (not exactly to me but to a group of people we where sat with), im really confused because shes always flirting with him and it hurts really really bad when i see this. i cant get away from him, i cant evan talk to him, but some how im supposed to get over him. how?

2006-11-28 05:44:17 · 5 answers · asked by giggle.bunnyz 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, i've known this guy for a about two years now. I've liked him for a year of the time that i've known him. He seems interested to a point then he just really confuses me. Like when i started going out with this guy he got so jealous,and it was obvious because he would be rude and before anyone said anything, he would be like, i know that yall think i'm jealous but i'm not. Then he always flirts with me, but its only when i hang out with him and his sister outside of school, and during school all he does is stare at times, and smiles at me all the time. Then he does things like when he talks to me, sometimes he gets all fidgety,and its cute.. . But what i am mainly asking is should i go for it. or is this a lost cause.

2006-11-28 05:43:30 · 7 answers · asked by Nikki M 1 in Singles & Dating

when we first got together he cheated and i forgave him we had a baby and now i think he may be cheating again things are funny and he dont acted the same i havent caught him but wondering how i could do it without him knowing im looking to find out. like our sex life nogood i dont go ariund friens or family he never is at home and if he is he is sleeping

2006-11-28 05:42:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My relationship is not good, my partner has not worked steady for about three years, and maybe only 3 months this year. We have spent nearly all my inheritance (80K), and I still can not get him to look for work. I do not trust him, I think this has been his plan all along, he will not help around the house, and is a slob to top it all off. We have a home and mortgage togther,and 12 yr. old daughter. I keep telling him he has to move, but he just ignores me. How do I get him to go? This is not healthy. I do not want to leave my home, it was purchased with a large down payment from,my inheritance above and beyond the 80K. Do I have any legal rights? We are not married, and have lived here about 5 1/2 years. HELP!

2006-11-28 05:42:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. well I'm still with the guy who cheated on me and things are and have been rocky...he told me if I ever cheated on him he would beat the crap out of me....he always grabs my arms and holds me down a couple of times he smacked me....playing around (I think)....I always have to tell him where I'm going and who I'm going with my friends are limited my phione always has to be on and no matter what time it is I have to pick up....Is he abusive??????I dont know help me

2006-11-28 05:41:21 · 17 answers · asked by doubleloops1988@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-28 05:41:16 · 22 answers · asked by joliy 1 in Singles & Dating