is he cheating?

Question

when we first got together he cheated and i forgave him we had a baby and now i think he may be cheating again things are funny and he dont acted the same i havent caught him but wondering how i could do it without him knowing im looking to find out. like our sex life nogood i dont go ariund friens or family he never is at home and if he is he is sleeping

Answer 1

In these days of fatal sexually transmitted disease, it's good to know. Check his cell phone, e-mails, use your nose. GPS locater (get cell phone with one and hide under seat of his car) Check his car for condoms (hopefully he's using them) Take a drive by his work when he supposed to be there and you're suspicious. Ask your best friend what she thinks. Be smart not obvious. He may be totally innocent, and you'll know soon enough if he's not. Don't falsely accuse him, guys go through bad periods. Try and be a little more exciting yourself. Don't let him find your Yahoo Anwser page.

Answer 2

If you don't trust him then the relationship is over anyway. It doesn't matter if he's cheating.

Think about it - do you want to have these suspicions all the time? And even if you say nothing about it, he'll be able to tell and will probably start acting defensive even if he's completely innocent.

I've seen that kind of thing happen before. Whether or not there's cheating, distrust will tear you completely apart before long. Either settle the matter with him fast, or if there's no way he can alleviate your concerns then just get out of the relationship. It will be better for BOTH of you.

Answer 3

If he ain't cheatin already then hes out on the prowl.. I knew a guy that flew to michigan to meet a chick that he found on myspace. Cheated on his wife because the sex life was no good. I mean simply put if didn't wear cologne and now he does.. You know his shower schedule if was once a day and now its everytime he goes out with jus the boys. So many signs I leave him a man should enjoy being at home with his wife. Plain and simple any man that can't do that doesn't deserve the woman hes with.

Answer 4

It sounds like you already know your answer. I'm sorry to hear that things are so challenging in your relationship, especially since you have a child. If he is unwilling to act appropriately as a father and partner should, then you need to consider breaking things off. Just because you have a child together doesn't mean you should stay together. In fact, as was my case growing up, many kids ultimately prefer their parents not be together than have parents in a very unhappy relatonship. Before you break up, though - consider relationship counseling. You can try going on your own and then bring him with you. If he doesn't agree to go, then it probably means he just isn't willing to put in the effort neccessary to maintain a good relationship. If you have health care coverage, use your health care provider's website to find therapists in your area. Nowadays you don't need a reference from your general practitioner to see a therapist. I'm sure you deserve to be in a relationship with someone as excited about you as you are about them. Good luck!

Answer 5

He probably is cheating. If you recently had the baby you are probably post-partum psycho and may not even know it. It could be you are driving him away, take a look at that. Some men find it difficult to have sex with a woman after watching them give birth, that could be it. He could just be a dog, too. How do you catch him? I don't know, I really lucked out catching my ex cheat. If you have the money hire a P.I., you could follow him yourself, you could snoop through his phone, who he's called, texts, check his email, those sort of things. Good luck to you.

Answer 6

Men who cheat in the beginning of a relationship tends to cheat all the time. They only get smarter and do it more on the down low. That's no way to live life especially with a child involve. Move on and do what best for you and your child.

Answer 7

Baby he playing the hell out of you for-real .have you sat down in talk to him about it or what . If he's not getting sex from you he has to be getting it else where but just think. i know you and him have an child but you do need to live your life to instead of him going out you let him take care of the baby .You say you don't go see your family your crazy( mad crazy). i couldn't let any body stop me from seeing my family but you got to move own if you cant trust him leave him .Go find you another apartment or house but make sure you call your folks up just to see how they are doing . Let him go ,without trust there is no relationship let that ************ go . If he don't want to see the baby no more so be it an women is so independent by her goddamn self **** him and find some one to love you better, **** you better, kiss you better because you cant be in love if you don't trust him sweetheart .

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Answer 8

I hate to say this but some guys who cheat always cheat. I know you're worried about it! I would sit down and ask him or catch him in the act!good luck

Answer 9

ther must me trust issues ? are you married ? he's done it once. he'll do it again because he think you will take him back. you accepted what he did once, he may do it again. watch a move when some one cheats on the other and say somehting like i'm glad you wouldn't do that to me! and see the look on his face?

Answer 10

I hate to say this but, if you are asking yourself that question then he IS. Usually once they cheat they will always cheat. That being said; stop and think about how you are going to handle it.