2006-11-28 05:41:16 · 22 answers · asked by joliy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can truely forgive him, then go with it.
If you can't and it's a nagging issue then you need to move on.
Good Luck!!!
2006-11-28 05:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by bartman40467 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have explained what happened. But if someone hurt you they will definitely do it again no matter what anyone one says people do not change how they are now is how they will be twenty years from now. Any way just give it some time and let yourself heal a bit got out with friends anything ....just don't spend time alone..... good luck and im sorry to hear that.
2006-11-28 13:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by dallas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Savor the pain. Too many people today are too quick to dismiss the beauty that is pain. Pain and heartache are so breath-takingly beautiful. That it's Christmas, the air is cold, and everyone around you is happy, savor the inner fire that makes you different and so loathe to partake of this Christmas joy. Enjoy your pain, treasure it, love it until it becomes a part of you that you can't imagine yourself without. Watch movies about loss, read romance novels, listen to emo music, read Pablo Neruda... You don't have to either move on, find someone new or share your feelings. They are your feelings and yours alone. Give your feelings the room they need to bleed until all is cleansed.
2006-11-28 14:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by newinfiniteabyss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know just how you feel. Been there, done that. The only thing I can say is try to stay away from him if at all possible. Seeing him will only hurt you more. Trust me I know from experience. Hang out with other friends who have no contact with him. Wish you the best. There is someone out there just for you. good Luck.
2006-11-28 13:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok to still love him but save some for yourself too. if you can forget the pain he's caused you and manage to trust him again (and bury in the depths of your heart whatever negative things happened in the past), try to talk to him about it and believe that you will live happily ever after... but think again! he's done it once (or perhaps even more than that). he might be able to hurt you the same way again for all we know. or even worse... it's up to you...
2006-11-28 13:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by Stanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath, and go on with your life. If he wronged you it will hurt, but in time you'll find someone else.
2006-11-28 13:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, move on, move on!!! Why should you stay around with someone who hurt you and waste your precious life about debating whether you "should be" with him or not. Don't you value yourself more and have self worth, then find someone who loves you for you and won't compromise his feelings. If he does it again, what are you going to do? Life is to short to be unhappy and miserable.
2006-11-28 13:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you, i would ask myself how many times this has happened, if this is the first time, maybe move on and try to let go of what happened and fix the relationship. if you still love him, give him another chance, but you must know when to stop
2006-11-28 13:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by Aaron C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can love someone but not be with them. Love does not mean commitment. It's OK to care but look out for #1. Allways put your best needs in front. Be there for him, talk to him, but move on.
2006-11-28 13:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him...thats all you can do...tell him how you feel and try to work it out from there... If there is love...then everything else can be worked out...
But how did he hurt you? If he cheated then you need to walk away...
Good luck!!!
2006-11-28 13:42:58 · answer #10 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋