basically.. i broke up with my bf aftr 6 months, around a month ago(actually less than a month.). i havent been able to go out much since because all my girl mates where busy. so ive been seeing him 4 days a week at college although we havent talked a word(his choice). i wrote him a letter explaining that i still wanted to be friends but he never replyied(problem is we have mutual friends).
so i went out last night to a pub, and he was thier and i was around him quite alot because we where in the same crowd. i managed to get off with another guy(who turned out to be a ****head anyway) but this was after seeing my ex with this girl i am sort-of mates with. i saw her today any she was saying how she got off with him.. (not exactly to me but to a group of people we where sat with), im really confused because shes always flirting with him and it hurts really really bad when i see this. i cant get away from him, i cant evan talk to him, but some how im supposed to get over him. how?
2006-11-28 05:44:17 · 5 answers · asked by giggle.bunnyz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're the one that broke it off. I'm sure when you really get out there looking you'll find someone else and it won't bother you anymore. As for him well he has the right to do whatever he wants to do.
2006-11-28 05:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by Stand 4 somthing Please! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend's going for it since you're not with him. It was 6 months ago so she's not jumping the gun on him because you're out of the game. It's usually awkward to be friends with someone you used to go out with, especially if you have mutual friends. He's trying not to be as involved with you anymore since it's not easy to just shift back into friend mode from being in a serious relationship and your friends are being fair by not telling you stuff that might offend you or make you feel bad such as getting off with your ex. Sucks, the position you're in, but you're gonna have to get over him by not thinking about it so much - or do you have feelings for him still?
2006-11-28 13:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by Masta Batang Dollar Billz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be happy for him thats wat some one told me and just be polite when you see him because even if he a jerk to u at least your trying . u wil meet another guy and u will be happy im in the same situation and i just think to my self its is loss if he dont wanna be with me or be friends xx op this helped crazygirl3k@yahoo .co.uk if you need to talk
2006-11-28 14:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by crazygirl3k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be strong lady. ur life isnt over. he is not for u. so why do u think abt himself. if he doesnt walk for u why u? try to involve with funny things. stay with ur mates & just ignore him. remember if he is yours he'll come back to u, but never wait for him. if u wait, it'll kill u.
2006-11-28 13:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by Warrior 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to talk to him first and one of your m8s has to talk to that so cald friend and explanethat she needs to observe the unwrightan ruls of frindship
2006-11-28 13:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by smc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋