well... my hormones are raging!!! I am a 15 year old girl and if i may say so myself very attractive... anyway... i am having so many different feelings about 3 different young men! One... well we are "going together" but i question his faithfulness... but i am not one to talk because on saturday, one of his good friends... was "feeling on me" and suggesting other behavior... and he also has a girlfriend! well... all 3 of us have grown up together and are VERY good friends (among other things)! and then for the past couple of nights i have been having dreams about my best friend who is MALE and they have been very explicit. we have talked on a daily basis for the past 3 years! is this a sign of something? how should i go about excepting these feelings, should i express them? am i being unfaithful? and to top it off... some how or another all of these young men know each other!! and then there are the other ones that have approached me all during the last week!! What Should I Do?
2006-11-28 05:40:38 · 4 answers · asked by babyphatbaby1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
P.S. i am not sexually involved... i am a virgin!
2006-11-28 05:57:35 · update #1
You're clearly loving the attention, so I don't see what the problem is.
2006-11-28 05:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ally 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down already. What seperates us from the mammals in the wild is our ability to use or brains and not just act instinctively. As you stated in the beginning of your question your hormones are raging. They are and as such you need to think and not just act. All the things you stated above are just out and out wrong. In your own words you say you are not one to talk. You know what you are engaging in is not right so don't do it. The worse thing a young lady can do is make a mockery of herself. Meaning become a whore in the eyes of the guys she adores. More than likely they will compare notes and you will become to them all the things you don't want to be. Don't lower yourself to that level. Have some respect for your body and take control of those hormones. You are more than a place for guys to put their *****. I mean how much respect do they have for you or themselves if they are feeling on you and they have girlfriends. And what are you saying about yourself if you allowing it. It doesn't make you popular or feel good when it is all said and done. So just stop the madness. I hope I was able to help you and keep you from making a big mistake. You will see in time you are more than the size of your b00bs, roundness of your azz, and the shape of your body.
2006-11-28 14:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're very normal. You should be having fun and not worrying about these things. Some day you will have to grow up and be married, but not now. Dump your first boyfriend, and start playing the field. That's where you are supposed to be anyway. Stay a virgin for awhile. You'll have plenty of time for the other stuff later. Have fun!
2006-11-28 14:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you most definitely need to leave the guys who are friends alone and date someone else. plus, why would you want to date someone who's "feeling on you" while he has a girlfriend? why would you even let him do that knowing he has one? you're just asking for trouble.
i also think you should slow down and be a little more careful. boys at that age talk amongst themselves and nine times out of ten, what they have to say about girls who are, let's say acting on their raging hormones, are not good. i'm just sayin'.
2006-11-28 13:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋