Do i need to worry?

Question

I am staying with my ex for a while because i am out of work. He always asks for u know what and i really dont think it is appropriate since we are split up. Should i worry about all of this or should i just take it with a grain of salt and just ignore his advances??? By the way, we have been friends for years that is why i am staying there.

Answer 1

Oh I don't think you should be worried unless you feel your safety is threatened.I would maybe just try telling him he is making you uncomfortable and see how he responds.

Answer 2

You know what? Darlin', that man only wants you for sex..and sorry to be harsh, but just go sit outside of the box and look at the situation would you please...
If he loved you and truly loved you, he would not ask you to have sex with you..He would desire that yes, but he would not ask that for you..It would nourish him just to sit next to you,just to be in your presence.. He would be fulfilled just to talk to you sitting down by you.
When a guy really loves a woman, he don't really need to ask for sex because the love overpowers that,and he only
would be willing to do that if the woman allowed it to him.

Now if that's what kind of friend he is, that he'd sleep with you, what the hell you want that for? You deserve to be loved without reason,without boundries,without doubts,without distance...without rules..You deserve to be truly loved w/ pure love.. Yes of course you should worry about that. Especially if ya'll are split up, and he asks for that it's not good.. Get out from him, he obviously has no respect for you if ya'll split up and most importantly have been good friends and now he still insists on the sideway boogie...

Go stay with a family member, another girlfriend..or
try to find a job and get an apartment of your own.
If it does hurt u to not be friends no more,just remember you are not the only one going through crap like that..
You're not alone,and never alone even if you have no one because always, you have yourself...

Answer 3

Well all guys just want one thing... no matter how long who have been friends for, and its also important that u guys did date... and he thinks its still ok... but if u feel u dont want to then say no tell him u dont feel that confortable with it. Make sure u also thank him for understanding and leting u stay there, but if he trys anything and you've said no.... find another place to stay.. b.c he will just keep on asking... and if hes a dick...about it... hes not a good friend... but dont give in if u dont want it...

Answer 4

if you arent together, but were at one point then of course one of you likes the other more...which seems like him...you should really move out becuz once a guy and girl have been in a relationship, (friends before or not) it has crossed the line and you cant have back the plain friendship. plus he is probably seeing you staying as a favor so why cant you hook him up if he is hooking you up?either give up some you know what or move in with a girlfriend...cant have your cake and eat it too...

Answer 5

He should be able to accomodate you with no string attached, but remember he is human, if he is the only one you can still run to of all the friends you have, why dont you reconsider him and see if things could work out between the two of you.

Answer 6

No sex,that will bring complications.Besides,you don't sound like you're interested in him romantically any way so don't bother.Hurry and move because the no sex rule could cause some attitude later down the line.

Answer 7

No, girl...I wouldn't give you knw what to him. Is that the reason he let you stay with him? Just tell him that it just ain't happening. If he doesn't like that, just find somewhere else to stay for now. Trust me, things will work out for you.

Answer 8

i would try to get back on my feet...better yet...stay with another friend. surely he's not the only person you know in the area. i don't know the circumstances...it'sn not appropriate, you're right. but you living there might spark up something if you guys aren't really 100% done with one another just yet.

Answer 9

he may eventually put you into feeling guilty by stating that he is allowing you to stay at his place, the least you can do is "put out".....dont fall for this though, but if things does get that far where he is threatening you then its time to go find somewhere else to stay for the time being......dont let him pressure you into doing this just because he is letting you stay with him....also be careful because it could get dangerous too, especially if he gets too h***** and decides to take things into his own hands....um, hesides his d**k :-)

Answer 10

Just because you are staying their does not mean that you have, to give up your crown jewels. and you stand your ground. Tell him that you are grateful for him letting you stay their, but the other thing is not in the picture!